From chasing unavailable women to mistaking emotional distance for chemistry — this episode breaks down why so many men repeatedly find themselves drawn to partners who can't fully meet them.

Instead of blaming bad luck or emotionally unavailable women, David reveals the real issue:
👉 You're not broken — your nervous system has learned to equate unavailability with safety, familiarity, and attraction.

If you keep pursuing cold, distant, or inconsistent women, avoid emotionally available partners, or feel stuck in the chase without ever getting real intimacy, this episode offers clarity on the hidden patterns driving that dynamic — and how to begin choosing differently.

📌 Topics Covered in This Episode

Why Men Keep Attracting Unavailable Women
✅ Why emotional availability can feel unsafe
✅ How childhood dynamics shape adult attraction
✅ Mistaking emotional activation for chemistry
✅ How shame and self-doubt fuel attraction to distance
✅ Why the chase feels exciting but intimacy feels threatening
✅ Choosing familiarity over health in relationships
✅ How control and avoidance quietly block connection
✅ What it actually takes to become emotionally available

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