You’re still showing up. Still working. Still taking care of everyone. Still laughing, making plans, hitting deadlines, and getting shit done.

So…you must be okay, right?

Not necessarily.

In this episode of Watch Me, Lauren talks about the hidden side of being “high functioning” and how masking can make mental health struggles harder for other people to see—and sometimes harder for you to recognize too.

Lauren shares what high functioning looked like in her own life: being bubbly and productive on the outside while neglecting basic care, sleeping whenever nobody needed her, checking out at home, and convincing herself she couldn’t be doing that badly because she was still going to work.

We also get into why some warning signs can actually look impressive: overworking, perfectionism, staying constantly busy, being endlessly dependable, even rage-cleaning when everything internally feels out of control.

This episode explores:

• What masking can actually look like in everyday life
• Why “high functioning” is not the same as being mentally well
• How productivity can become a coping mechanism
• The difference between capability and capacity
• Anhedonia and what it means when joy starts getting quieter
• How to recognize changes in your personal baseline
• Why your private life may tell you more than your public performance
• How to notice the cost of functioning before you hit a breaking point
• Why you don’t have to wait until everything falls apart to ask for support

If you’ve ever thought, “I can’t be doing that badly—I’m still getting everything done,” this conversation is for you.

You can be capable and still need help.

You can laugh and still be struggling.

You can look completely put together and still know something feels off.

And sometimes your mental-health warning sign looks suspiciously like you getting your shit together.

If you’re experiencing thoughts of suicide or feel unsafe, call or text 988 in the U.S. for immediate support.

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Mental health medication has helped save my life—and I still wish I didn’t need it sometimes.

I live with bipolar disorder and ADHD, and my relationship with psychiatric medication has been anything but simple. I’ve tried 36 different medications. I’ve stopped taking my meds because I convinced myself I had “healed” enough to not need them anymore. I misused my ADHD medication when I was 19. I’ve dealt with weight gain, nausea, changes in my sex drive, and the frustration of knowing I may need medication for the rest of my life.

And after all of that?

I am incredibly grateful for medication.

Because the right treatment didn’t take away my personality, ambition, creativity, or joy.

It helped give them back.

In this episode of The Watch Me Podcast, I’m talking honestly about psychiatric medication, ADHD medication, bipolar disorder treatment, medication stigma, side effects, addiction and misuse, and the fear so many people have that needing medication somehow means they’re broken.

I also share:

• Why I kept trying after 36 different psychiatric medications
• What happened when I stopped treating my ADHD—and lost my job
• Why I thought years of bipolar stability meant I had outgrown my diagnosis
• The warning signs that finally made me realize I needed my medication again
• How quickly I realized how depressed I had actually become
• My history of misusing ADHD medication and the safety plan Austin and I created
• Why Austin has literally stolen my pillows to make sure I take my bipolar meds
• The side effects I still hate, including weight gain and changes in sex drive
• Why meditation, personal development, therapy, mindset work AND medication can all belong in the same mental-health plan
• What I wish someone considering psychiatric medication knew before deciding they were “too strong” to need help

This is not medical advice, and I’m not telling anyone what medication they should or shouldn’t take. Your treatment decisions belong between you and a qualified healthcare professional.

But if medication has been recommended to you and shame is the thing keeping you from exploring it, I hope hearing my experience makes that conversation feel a little less scary.

Because medication didn’t make my progress fake.

It helped me become present enough to actually live the life I’ve worked so hard to build.

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Bipolar disorder is so much more complicated than “mood swings.”

I was diagnosed with Rapid Cycling Bipolar I at 19, and for years I’ve lived through the mania, depression, medication changes, stigma, warning signs, mistakes, stability, and everything in between. But this episode isn’t just about what bipolar looks like in my brain.

We’re talking about what bipolar disorder can actually look like across different people—including Bipolar I, Bipolar II, hypomania, rapid cycling, mixed features, psychosis, bipolar depression, masking, irritability, impulsivity, addiction vulnerability, and the periods of stability nobody talks about enough.

I’m also sharing some of the hardest parts of my own story: staying awake for days during mania, spending $25,000 while eight months pregnant, the episode that scared my mom, hiding severe depression while still succeeding at work, trying 36 medications, and learning the warning signs my body gives me before an episode.

But I don’t want you leaving this episode with only information.

We also talk about what to actually do.

If you live with bipolar:
• How to identify your personal warning signs
• Why knowing your baseline matters
• How to build a plan while you’re stable
• Choosing trusted people who are allowed to speak up
• Creating guardrails around impulsive decisions
• Knowing when it’s time to call your doctor or treatment team

And if you love someone with bipolar:
• How to support without policing them
• What to say instead of “You’re manic”
• How to recognize meaningful changes from their baseline
• What to do when someone may not recognize they’re becoming unwell
• When an episode requires professional or emergency help
• Why caretakers need boundaries and support too

Most importantly, this episode is for the person who just got diagnosed and is quietly wondering:

Is my life over?

No.

Bipolar can be serious. It can be messy. Treatment can take time. There may be seasons that feel incredibly dark.

But there can also be stability, relationships, laughter, boring Tuesdays, dreams, careers, families, friendships, and a life that feels deeply yours.

I know because I’m living one.

If you’re in the dark part right now and you can’t see the light yet, borrow my hope for a minute.

There is still shit over here worth getting to.

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How much of your life are you making decisions around what other people want, think, expect—or might say about you afterward?

People-pleasing can look like being helpful, dependable, easygoing, and always willing to show up. But when you’re constantly saying yes because you’re afraid of disappointing someone, overexplaining every no, taking responsibility for everyone’s emotions, or changing your decisions based on someone else’s reaction…eventually you have to ask what it’s costing you.

In this episode of The Watch Me Podcast, Lauren gets into the fear of disappointing people, why saying no can trigger so much guilt and anxiety, and what it actually looks like to stop letting other people’s opinions run your life.

Lauren shares why she’ll confidently say no and then somehow provide a full legal defense for why her no is justified, how moving from Washington to California taught her to trust her own decisions even when family was worried, why motherhood completely changed the boundaries she’s willing to hold, and how leadership taught her that being respected does not require being universally liked.

We’re talking about:

• How people-pleasing can quietly disconnect you from what YOU actually want
• Why resentment can be a sign that you keep saying yes when you mean no
• The difference between hurting someone and simply disappointing them
• Why you overexplain your boundaries
• How to stop taking responsibility for everyone else’s mood
• The “Don’t Fix the Face” experiment for surviving someone’s disappointment
• Family boundaries, workplace people-pleasing, and learning to say no without a five-paragraph explanation
• How to rebuild your voice when you’ve spent years worrying about everyone else’s opinions

You can care what somebody thinks without letting what they think run you.

At some point, you have to stop polling the room and ask yourself:

What do I want?

And then make the damn decision.

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You’re not just tired from what you’re doing. You’re tired from everything you’re remembering, anticipating, planning, noticing, scheduling, and mentally carrying all day long.

The doctor appointments. The birthdays. The groceries. The school calendar. The thing your partner mentioned three days ago. The Halloween costumes. The work deadline. The dishes you’re silently waiting to see if someone else notices. And somehow, in the middle of all of that, you’re supposed to “prioritize self-care.”

In this episode of The Watch Me Podcast, Lauren Fritts talks about the invisible mental load women carry—and why it can leave you exhausted even when you feel like you “didn’t even do that much.”

We’re talking about:

• What mental load and cognitive labor actually are
• Why doing a task is different from fully owning it
• The frustration behind “just tell me what you need me to do”
• Why women often become the person who notices what’s missing
• How social media can turn inspiration into another obligation
• The pressure to make motherhood, holidays, birthdays, and childhood “magical”
• Why delegating is hard when you still want to supervise everything
• How productivity can become tangled up with your self-worth
• Why rest can feel uncomfortable when there is always something else to do
• How to decide what to delegate, simplify, automate, lower your standards around, or stop doing completely

Lauren also gets honest about her own tendency to be the person who gets everything done—and the uncomfortable realization that sometimes carrying less means allowing someone else to do something differently, letting something be “good enough,” or deciding it never needed to happen in the first place.

Because sometimes you’re not bad at handling life.

You’re handling too much life.

If this episode hits home, send it to the woman who always seems to be keeping track of everything.

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Some seasons are not a full crisis… they are just a lot.

In this episode of The Watch Me Podcast, I’m talking about the tiny things saving my mental health right now. Not the perfect morning routine. Not the aesthetic wellness checklist. Not a full life overhaul.

Just the real things that are helping me feel a little more grounded in the middle of work, motherhood, school schedules, kids’ activities, dream-building, mental load, and the everyday chaos of being a human with a loud brain.

I’m sharing the small habits that are actually making a difference for me right now: doing the dishes before they turn into an emotional event, resetting the kitchen before bed, eating breakfast, journaling, keeping an evidence document, taking morning walks after school drop-off, putting my phone down before bedtime, reading fantasy books, getting outside, taking baths, and using mirror work without making it weird. Well… maybe a little weird.

This episode is for the woman who feels overstimulated, tired, stretched thin, or like she keeps waiting for life to calm down before she takes care of herself.

You do not have to fix your whole life to take care of your mind.

Pick one tiny thing. Let it be small. Let it count.

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ADHD is not laziness. It is not a character flaw. It is not “just being distracted.” And it is definitely not an excuse.

In this episode of Watch Me, I’m kicking off the new Let’s Talk About It series with a real, honest conversation about ADHD in adults — what people think it is, what it can actually look like, and why so many people, especially women and moms, go years feeling broken when they were really unsupported.

I talk about being diagnosed with ADHD in 2008, what it felt like to struggle in school even when I was trying, the grief that can come with understanding your brain later in life, and why medication, reminders, lists, timers, and systems are not weakness — they are tools.

This episode gets into:

• What ADHD actually affects beyond focus
• ADHD in adults, women, and moms
• The shame of being called lazy, dramatic, careless, or “too much”
• Late diagnosis grief and the relief of finally having language
• Medication stigma and why support is not weakness
• High-functioning ADHD and the exhaustion people do not see
• Tangible tools for living with ADHD in real life
• How to support someone with ADHD without shaming them

If you have ever felt like your brain is too loud, your life is harder than it should be, or you are constantly trying to prove you are not lazy — this episode is for you.

ADHD is not an excuse, but it is context. And context gives you somewhere to start.

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You can be functioning, showing up, getting things done, and still be quietly exhausted inside your own mind.

In this episode of The Watch Me Podcast, we’re talking about why mental health matters — not just when you’re in crisis, not just if you have a diagnosis, and not just when life finally falls apart. Mental health matters because it affects the way you think, feel, love, parent, work, dream, handle stress, and experience your own life.

We may not all have a mental illness, but every single one of us has mental health.

This episode is for the woman who keeps saying “I’m fine” because she doesn’t know how to explain how heavy everything feels. It’s for the person who has been calling survival strength. It’s for anyone who needs the reminder that putting your mental health first is not selfish — it’s necessary.

In this episode, we talk about:

✨ What mental health actually means
✨ Why functioning is not the same as being well
✨ How your mental health affects your body, relationships, confidence, and ✨ dreams
✨ Why therapy, medication, and asking for help are not weaknesses
✨ How shame keeps people silent
✨ Why mental health matters even more when you live with a mental illness
✨ How to put your mental health first without feeling selfish

Your mental health is not a side project. It is the foundation.

You deserve more than functional. You deserve full.

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