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What if 2026 is not about setting new goals, but getting on the same page?

Most couples are not failing because they lack ambition. They are frustrated because they are moving in two different directions, with good intentions, but no shared plan. In this episode, Eugene and LaTanya break down how to reset as a team, reflect on what last year really did to you, and build a shared direction for the year ahead, without overwhelm.

If the idea of planning feels like pressure, we will show you a simple starting point that still creates real momentum.

In this episode, we cover:

• Why unprocessed years can quietly turn into resentment, conflict, and emotional distance
• The “tired, hopeful, or pretending” question every couple needs to answer honestly
• How to reflect separately first, then come together stronger (and safer) as a couple
• A simple framework to start planning today: 3 yeses, 3 nos, 3 habits, 3 anchors
• How to stop doing “resolutions” and start building a marriage strategy that actually sticks

Start here for 2026:

1. Three things you will say YES to together
2. Three things you will say NO to together
3. Three habits that will shape your year
4. Three people or rhythms that will keep you grounded

This is not about doing more. It is about moving together.

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Marriage doesn’t stay the same, because people don’t stay the same.

In this mini-episode, WE talk honestly about a season WE didn’t expect, learning how to work together after years of doing life well as a couple, but not business partners. WE share what it looks like to move from parallel lives into true partnership, not just in marriage, but in purpose, planning, and legacy.

This conversation isn’t about romance or roles. It’s about rhythm.

WE open up about the tension that can arise when two strong individuals, two leaders, and two visions collide, and how competition can quietly replace collaboration if couples aren’t intentional. What WE thought was resistance turned out to be a call to realign.

This Miami vision trip wasn’t a vacation. It was a pause. A reset. A moment to step back, listen, and ask deeper questions about what WE are building together in this next season.

If you’ve ever felt like you and your spouse are good individually, but struggling to move in sync together, this episode is for you.

Because sometimes love isn’t the issue. Alignment is!

And sometimes winning means relearning each other all over again.

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In this Miami Edition, WE talk about the most common drift in marriage, being in the same house but feeling miles apart. Proximity is not connection. We share how to identify distractions, reset your rhythm, and realign with God’s vision for your marriage.

In this episode:

• Why busy can become a burden
• How to tell God’s calling vs personal desire
• The power of an intentional pause, even if it’s just a park or a walk
• Write the vision, make it plain, and make it actionable
• Your first ministry is your family

Many of you have been asking...

• How do we reconnect when we feel distant?
• How do I know if I’m chasing my desires or God’s calling?
• How do we reset our marriage without money for a trip?
• What does “proximity isn’t connection” mean in marriage?
• How do we create a rhythm when life is busy?

WE dive into a practical way to discern calling versus desire by checking motives and impact.

WE talk about how God-sized work feels bigger than our capacity, which pulls us toward faith, partnership, and patience rather than frantic grinding.

The surprising result of slowing down? Clearer priorities, deeper affection, and a steady rhythm that adapts to real life better than any perfect balance ever could.

If this resonates, share it with a friend who needs a reset. Subscribe for more marriage-on-mission conversations, and leave a review to tell us the intentional pause you’re trying this week.

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Everybody talks about aesthetics, 50/50, and matching pajamas. Jalen & Amber Jones are living something different. Their love is built on friendship, shared faith, and real grown choices that don’t always make the algorithm. They met as student athletes, built a bond before the butterflies, and discovered that liking each other is what keeps them steady when emotions spike or schedules get crazy.

In this episode, WE break down the stuff TikTok rarely shows: how tone, word choice, and small gestures repair conflict faster than perfect arguments. How independence becomes interdependence when you start naming expectations instead of guessing them. How a quick check in or a simple “Are you free if I grab dinner with a friend?” protects connection without killing freedom.

WE talk through the shift couples need to make when life gets real. Vows are cute on the wedding day, but they get tested early with job changes, health scares, and tight budgets. The Jones’s let their vows become verbs. They chose to show up, communicate clearly, set shared rhythms, and steward their home like a team that actually plans to win.

And yes, their faith shows up too, not as a vibe but as a lifestyle. They pray over plans, eat together on purpose, and treat leadership like service, not control. Their premarital coaching opened their eyes to blind spots about money, conflict repair, intimacy, and routines that scale with life.

This episode is for anyone who wants real love, not just relationship content. The takeaway is simple and doable: build a friendship that can take a hit, speak expectations out loud, pray over your plans, and let small acts of kindness carry big weight. That’s the kind of love TikTok doesn’t talk about, but everybody needs.

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Hard talks don’t have to end in raised voices or silent retreats. WE walk through the small, repeatable moves that turn conflict into connection:

• Swapping loaded questions for supportive openings,
• Picking better moments for serious topics, and using tone as a tool instead of a weapon.

If “What’s wrong with you?” has ever slammed a door in your home, you’ll hear how “You seem deep in thought, want to talk?” opens one instead.

WE get candid about triggers, past patterns, and why avoiding tough subjects only grows resentment. You’ll learn when to press pause, why environment matters more than you think, and how a simple “How can I help?” disarms defenses.

WE also dig into intentional date nights with questions that actually deepen intimacy, not just rehash logistics about work and kids. Expect practical examples, from handling money talks without ambush to protecting your partner’s dignity in public. Along the way, WE unpack how love languages evolve and how to update care so it still lands.

At the heart of it all is a team mindset: protect the relationship first, then tackle the problem together. With a few phrase swaps, a smarter sense of timing, and a commitment to listen without fixing, you can build a safer space for honesty.

If you’re ready to replace battlefields with bridges, hit play and try one strategy today.

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Marriage communication isn't rocket science, but that doesn't mean it's easy. In this candid episode, Eugene and Latanya tackle the real questions couples are asking about effective communication and provide practical tools to transform your relationship conversations.

The foundation of all successful marriage communication begins with a crucial mindset shift: seeing yourselves as teammates rather than opponents. As Eugene points out, "Good teammates don't fight each other, don't only focus on what's going to make them better in the game, and are willing to do whatever is necessary in order to win." This perspective changes everything about how you approach difficult conversations.

Drawing from both scripture and their own marriage journey, Eugene and Latanya address the top communication challenges couples face. They explore why misunderstandings happen (often due to not truly listening or assuming negative intent), how to handle passive-aggressive behavior (by creating safe spaces for honest discussion), and the importance of timing for meaningful conversations. Their approach combines spiritual wisdom with practical strategies anyone can implement immediately.

The heart of this episode lies in its five actionable communication tools: promoting active listening, gently addressing passive-aggressive patterns, choosing appropriate timing for tough talks, using connection prompts like "How can I support you?", and regularly asking "How can I help?" These simple but powerful practices create an environment where both partners feel seen, heard, and valued.

Ready to transform your marriage communication? Listen now and discover how to build a winning team where understanding replaces confusion, connection replaces conflict, and teamwork becomes your relationship's greatest strength. Share your communication wins with us on social media @We3TheWinningTeam – we'd love to hear how these tools are helping you win together!

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Beyond Words: Healing the Heart Can Improve How We Speak

Marriage communication often feels like speaking different languages, with men and women processing emotion, stress, and decisions differently due to varying perspectives and past experiences. Creating safe spaces for vulnerability is essential for deep connection, requiring active listening without judgment or immediate attempts to fix problems.

• Communication is about connecting, not just talking – 7% of communication is words while 93% is tone and body language
• Truly listening involves full engagement, eye contact, and asking clarifying questions to ensure understanding
• Past trauma alters how we perceive communication, causing us to detect threats even in safe situations
• Pride blocks partnership by making being right more important than being understood
• Creating safe spaces means listening without fixing, not bringing up past issues, and remaining calm during conflict
• Unresolved heart issues inevitably emerge through our words since "the mouth speaks what the heart is full of"
• Communication evolves through different seasons of marriage, requiring continuous adaptation
• Healthy communication builds intimacy, improves conflict resolution, strengthens partnership, and promotes growth
• For pre-marriage couples: discuss conflict resolution styles, shared values, practice vulnerability, seek mentors
• Electronic communication lacks tone and body language, creating more opportunity for misinterpretation

Share this podcast with others who might benefit, subscribe to continue learning with us, and let us know in the comments what communication topics you'd like us to address in future episodes.

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What happens when the fairytale collides with reality? In this eye-opening episode of WE3 The Winning Team Podcast, WE tackle three relationship myths that might be sabotaging your journey to marriage: opposites attract, soulmates, and love at first sight.

We love hearing your feedback! Please like, share, subscribe and let us know which relationship myths you've struggled with or what topics you'd like us to cover in future episodes.

We love hearing your feedback! Please like, share, subscribe and let us know which relationship myths you've struggled with or what topics you'd like us to cover in future episodes.

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As promised...here are some thought-provoking discussion questions to help you reflect and consider a biblical perspective on marriage:

1. What experiences or influences (movies, family, personal relationships) shaped your beliefs about love and marriage?
2. Have you ever seen a couple who disproved one of these myths? What made their relationship work?
3. How does your view of love and relationships align with what the Bible teaches?

Opposites Attract – The Myth of Excitement

1. Can two people with completely different values and life goals truly have a healthy, lasting marriage? Why or why not?
2. Have you ever been in a relationship where differences initially felt exciting but later caused conflict? What happened?
3. What qualities are more important in a spouse: compatibility or chemistry? Why?
4. How does Amos 3:3 ("Can two walk together unless they are agreed?") challenge or confirm your beliefs about opposites attracting?
5. Instead of focusing on differences, what should couples prioritize in a relationship for long-term success?

Soulmates Exist – The Myth of ‘The One’

1. Do you believe God created only one perfect match for each person? Why or why not?
2. If there’s only one soulmate for everyone, what happens if someone marries the ‘wrong’ person? Does that mean their marriage is doomed?
3. How does believing in soulmates affect the way people handle conflict in relationships?
4. What does the Bible say about love being a choice rather than a predestined fate? (1 Corinthians 13:4-7, Ephesians 5:25)
5. How can a couple build a strong marriage rather than just hope to ‘find’ the perfect one?

Love at First Sight – The Myth of Instant Connection

1. What is the difference between attraction and love? Can they happen at the same time?
2. Have you or someone you know ever fallen for someone quickly, only to realize later they weren’t the right person? What did you learn?
3. If love is based on emotions and chemistry alone, what happens when those feelings fade?

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Eugene Gatewood
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Podcast Music by Micah Gatewood