A shy soldier who never wanted the Army. A first-day love that turned into three decades of marriage. A devastating loss that changed how she sees medicine, paperwork, and the quiet ways systems fail people. Jennifer Harris sits down with us to share a candid, moving journey through service, grief, perseverance, and the kind of faith that refuses to give up.
We start with training at Fort Leonard Wood and Fort Lee, then land at Fort Hood, where Jennifer met Donald on day one. From there, life became a cycle of PCS resets and reinvention: finishing an accounting degree, chasing jobs across duty stations, and eventually pivoting into legal studies and personal injury work. Jennifer pulls back the curtain on PI cases, slow timelines, frustrated clients, and the emotional labor of being the front line for people in pain, while revealing how employers often overlook real capability when résumés don’t fit a neat mold.
Jennifer speaks openly about bias, from a surreal “wig committee” before graduation and an officer demanding a salute from behind, to civilian interviews that praised her, then quietly passed her over. The heart of the episode centers on her stillbirth and the missed preeclampsia warning signs that should have kept her in the hospital. She describes the keepsake box that holds her son’s memory and how that experience reframed her understanding of Black maternal health, advocacy, and the crucial habit of documenting everything for VA benefits. Through it all, her faith and family sustain her, along with a stubborn resilience that helped a shy recruit pass BRM on pop-up targets and later speak truth in rooms that didn’t expect to hear it.
If you’ve ever struggled with transition, questioned your worth after a rejection, or needed permission to grieve and keep building, Jennifer’s story will meet you where you are. Listen, share with a veteran or military family who needs it, and if this conversation resonates, subscribe and leave a review so others can find it too.