Ever felt like everyone else got gifts and you got nothing? Like God handed out talents and somehow missed you? You're not alone—and more importantly, you're not right.

In this episode, we tackle the devastating lie that whispers "I'm not gifted" and replace it with biblical truth: 1 Peter 4:10 says EACH of you has received gifts. Not some. Each.

Discover why you can't see your own abilities (even though others can), what Moses, Gideon, and Jeremiah teach us about feeling unqualified, and three practical questions to help you recognize what God already placed inside you.

If you've been watching other women use their gifts while believing you have nothing to offer, this episode will show you why that's a lie—and how to start seeing yourself the way God sees you.

This is the first in a four-part Intellectual Fitness series on discovering and stewarding your God-given design. One truth at a time, one step at a time.

THIS WEEK'S REFLECTION QUESTIONS:

Question 1: What are your '911' calls about? When people are in crisis, why do they call YOU? Be honest—not what you wish they'd call for, but what they actually seek you out for. This reveals how God is already using you.

Question 2: What feels effortless to you but seems hard for others? What comes so naturally that you dismiss it as "not special?" Maybe you naturally see solutions, notice when someone's hurting, create order from chaos, or words flow when explaining things. Whatever feels easy to you but others struggle with—that's likely a gift.

Question 3: When do you lose track of time? When are you so engaged in creating, helping, or solving that you forget your phone exists? That deep engagement isn't accidental—it's your design lighting up.

Also: Ask your circle: "What do you see as my strengths? When have you seen me most alive?"

Free Resource: Download the Identity SWOP Starter Guide at https://wilmamostert.com/identity-swop/

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New episodes every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday.

Body obsession doesn't just affect you—it affects everyone around you.

In this powerful conclusion to our 3-part Body Stewardship series, we explore the relational cost of body shame: the photos you avoid, the zoom-in ritual that steals presence, and the memories your loved ones won't have because you chose to hide.

Using the SWOP framework (Surrender, Wisdom, Obedience, Promises), we expose how body monitoring is spiritual warfare designed to keep you in perpetual "repair mode"—sidelined from connection, community, and calling.

You'll discover why the "spotlight effect" keeps you self-conscious, how to replace comparison with curiosity, and what God promises when you choose presence over perfection.

If you've ever refused to be in a photo, deleted the "imperfect" ones, or delayed showing up until you felt "ready," this episode offers a biblical way forward—one rooted in grace, not grinding. Your people need you in the memory, not hiding behind the camera.

If this series has resonated with you—and you're realizing there's deeper identity work to do—I want to invite you to check out the SWOP Reset Mini-Course.

https://wilmamostert.com/swop/

It's a 5-day guided journey through the full SWOP framework—Surrender, Wisdom, Obedience, and Promises.

It's not behavior modification. It's inner discipleship designed to release the pressure to be perfect and good enough. You can find the link in the show notes.

xoxo

This is Part 2 of a 3-part series. Join us Monday for Part 3.

"Have you ever believed that being a 'good steward' means white-knuckling every outcome? I lived that way for years, thinking my discipline was devotion—until God gently showed me it was actually fear wearing a Christian T-shirt.

We call it 'fasting for breakthrough,' but if we’re honest, sometimes we’re just fasting to fix ourselves. Here is the truth your soul needs to hear: Your body is a temple to be honored, not a project to be solved.

You don’t earn God’s presence through physical perfection; you honor His dwelling place through care. It’s time to trade the exhaustion of control for the peace of stewardship."

In this episode, we peel back the layers on a struggle many Christian women face in silence: control disguised as obedience. If you have ever used spiritual disciplines like fasting to manage your weight, or if you feel like your body is a grade you are constantly failing, this conversation is for you.

We explore the profound shift from viewing your body as a "project" to be fixed to a "temple" (the naos, or inner sanctuary) to be honored. Drawing from 1 Corinthians 6 and personal stories of surrender, we discuss how true stewardship is rooted in trust, while control is often a form of self-reliance.

You will learn to identify "ANTs" (Automatic Negative Thoughts) that fuel body-shame and discover how to align your physical care with your settled identity in Christ. This episode offers a biblical way forward—one small step at a time.

What if the problem isn’t your body—but the story you’ve been telling yourself about it?

In this first episode of the Physical Fitness series on Total Fitness God’s Way, Wilma gently but directly addresses a lie many Christian women carry: “I’ll be happy when I lose weight.”

Drawing from both biblical truth and psychological insight, she unpacks why happiness tied to outcomes never lasts, how control often masquerades as obedience, and why your body was never meant to be a grade you pass—but a gift you steward.

You’ll learn how to:

• Identify the Automatic Negative Thoughts (ANTs) driving body shame and control

• Understand why monitoring, restriction, and rigid rules increase dissatisfaction

• Reframe physical fitness through Scripture as nourishment, care, and stewardship

• Practice obedience that flows from identity, not fear or willpower
  

Rooted in Colossians 3:3 and Ephesians 5:29, this episode invites you to step off the hedonic treadmill and into freedom—where your worth is secure, your body is honored, and your obedience flows from love.

If you’ve ever believed your happiness lives at a number on a scale, this conversation will meet you with truth, compassion, and a better way forward.

This is Part 1 of a 3-part series. Join us Friday for Part 2: "Your Body Is a Temple, Not a Project," where we explore how control masquerades as obedience and why surrender is the most faithful thing you can do.

Are you exhausted from trying to be "good enough" for God? Do you feel guilty when you miss your quiet time, believing your worth is tied to your spiritual consistency?

In this episode, Wilma dismantles the lie of performance-based faith using the SWOP framework. Discover the biblical difference between living as a slave (working FOR approval) and living as a daughter (working FROM acceptance).

You'll learn:

✓ Why God desires a relationship over ritual. (Hosea 6:6)

✓ What Scripture really says about being God’s child—not His slave. (Galatians 4:6–7)

✓ How to reframe quiet time as an invitation, not an obligation.

✓ Why quality matters more than quantity when it comes to Scripture.

✓ Practical steps to replace guilt with grace.

This isn't about doing less—it's about believing differently. When you understand you're already loved, already accepted, and already enough, everything changes.

Free Resource: Download the Identity SWOP Starter Guide at [https://wilmamostert.com/identity-swop/]

Connect with Wilma:

Follow on Pinterest: [https://za.pinterest.com/totalfitnessgodsway/]

Weekly newsletter: [https://wilmamostert.com/#Connect]

New episodes every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday.

"God doesn't want partial freedom. He doesn't want you thriving spiritually but drowning physically. He doesn't want your relationships healthy while your finances are a mess. He wants Total Fitness—wholeness in every area of your life."

Feeling stuck isn't always about not trying hard enough—sometimes it's about focusing on one area of life while others quietly fall apart.

In this episode, I'm introducing you to the SPRISE Framework: the six interconnected areas where God wants to bring complete transformation into your life.

You'll discover:

• Why "godliness" matters in every area of life—not just your spiritual walk
• The six elements of Total Fitness God's Way (and how they work together)
• How to identify which area needs your attention most right now
• Why your mess is actually your message (and how to stop hiding it)
• The difference between religious performance and true spiritual intimacy

The 6 Areas of Total Fitness:

• Spiritual Fitness – Moving from performance to presence with God
• Physical Fitness – Honoring your body from love, not shame
• Relational Fitness – Breaking free from people-pleasing patterns
• Intellectual Fitness – Defeating imposter syndrome and stepping into your calling
• Social Fitness – Using your story to serve and shine your light
• Economic Fitness – Shifting from scarcity to faithful stewardship

This isn't about adding more to your plate—it's about addressing the root issues that keep you stuck in cycles of burnout, perfectionism, and self-doubt.

If you’ve ever thought, “I know what I should be doing… I just can’t seem to do it consistently,” I want you to hear this clearly: you are not lazy, weak, or failing God.
Most Christian women don’t struggle because they lack discipline—they struggle because they’re trying to change behavior without addressing belief.
What you believe shapes how you live. And when those beliefs are rooted in fear, performance, or approval-seeking, no amount of motivation will bring lasting change.
This episode isn’t about trying harder. It’s about aligning your identity with what God already says is true—and letting transformation flow from there.

In this foundational episode, Wilma Mostert introduces SWOP, a four-step biblical framework God revealed during her own season of burnout and identity renewal.

Rather than focusing on behavior change, SWOP addresses the root: the beliefs shaping how you think, choose, and show up across every area of life (SPRISE).

You’ll learn how to:

• Surrender self-sabotaging thoughts (ANTs)

• Replace lies with God’s living Word

• Understand obedience as belief—not striving

• Receive God’s promises from a place of alignment, not performance

This episode is for you if you love God but feel stuck, exhausted from trying harder, or confused about why change never seems to last.
This episode offers a grace-filled, biblical way forward—one small step at a time.

If this episode resonated, you may want to explore the free Identity SWOP Starter Guide (https://wilmamostert.com/identity-reset)—a gentle companion to help you begin renewing your thoughts and identity with Scripture and reflection.
For women who desire more structure and daily support, the 5-Day SWOP Reset Mini-Course (https://wilmamostert.com/swop) walks you through this framework step by step.

And if you’re sensing a deeper invitation to realign your spiritual, emotional, and physical life, Total Fitness God’s Way (https://wilmamostert.com/total-fitness-gods-way/) offers a longer, guided journey rooted in faith, identity, and sustainable rhythms.

You’re not behind. You’re being invited—one layer at a time.

Feeling stuck in cycles of people-pleasing, perfectionism, and procrastination? You're not broken—you're just believing the wrong story about yourself.

In this welcome episode: Discover why your struggle isn't about trying harder. Perfect for Christian women who love God but feel spiritually exhausted.

𝐅𝐑𝐄𝐄 𝐑𝐄𝐒𝐎𝐔𝐑𝐂𝐄𝐒 𝐅𝐎𝐑 𝐘𝐎𝐔:

→ 𝐅𝐫𝐞𝐞 𝐈𝐝𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐭𝐲 𝐒𝐖𝐎𝐏 𝐒𝐭𝐚𝐫𝐭𝐞𝐫 𝐆𝐮𝐢𝐝𝐞: Learn how to silence your inner critic, challenge limiting beliefs, and discover the incredible woman you were created to be. https://wilmamostert.com/identity-swop/

𝐏𝐀𝐈𝐃 𝐂𝐎𝐀𝐂𝐇𝐈𝐍𝐆:

→ 𝟓-𝐃𝐚𝐲 𝐒𝐖𝐎𝐏 𝐑𝐞𝐬𝐞𝐭 𝐌𝐢𝐧𝐢-𝐂𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬𝐞: This is not another self-help course about behavior modification or positive thinking. It’s inner discipleship to heal the identity wound that fuels your burnout.

https://wilmamostert.com/swop/

→ 𝟖-𝐖𝐄𝐄𝐊 𝐊𝐈𝐂𝐊𝐒𝐓𝐀𝐑𝐓𝐄𝐑 𝐉𝐎𝐔𝐑𝐍𝐄𝐘: Your launchpad to living the life God has called you to—spiritually anchored, mentally strong, physically fit, and fully aligned with His vision for your life.

https://wilmamostert.com/total-fitness-gods-way/

𝐘𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐫𝐞𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐝𝐞𝐫 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐭𝐨𝐝𝐚𝐲: you're capable of BEING more, DOING more, and HAVING more because you are more than a conqueror through Him who loves you!

Love and blessings from my house to yours. 🙏

"Rejoice always, pray without ceasing, and give thanks in everything; for this is the will of God for us in Christ Jesus."Have a fantastic, blessed day.

Wilma