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Today we’re joined by our widower friend Will, who shares his powerful and deeply personal story of loss, resilience, and unexpected blessings. After losing his wife to COVID, Will suddenly found himself navigating unimaginable grief while also stepping into the role of raising their newborn baby on his own.

In this episode, Will opens up about those early days — the fear, the overwhelm, and the determination to show up for his children even when everything felt uncertain. He also shares the incredible support system that helped carry him through, including his in-laws who became an essential part of his journey and continue to stand by his side today.

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This week, we sit down with Cathy from Arizona for some great fishing tips and storytelling from our new widow friend. 💛

Cathy shares stories about her husband’s legendary storytelling skills—where every tale left you wondering… was that real, or just one of his greatest hits? Honestly, only Rob knows for sure. 😉

From unforgettable nights at country concerts to a love story filled with personality, humor, and a little bit of mystery, Cathy paints a picture of a life lived fully and loudly.

But woven into the laughter is the reality of loss. Cathy opens up about becoming a widow, navigating grief, and holding onto the moments that still make her smile.

✨ It’s an episode about love, laughter, and the stories we carry with us long after they’re gone.

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In this episode of, Kristyn takes us on the emotional rollercoaster that is selling her house as a widow — and spoiler alert: the ride is not OSHA-approved.

What should be a “normal adult decision” turns into a full-blown grief-meets-real-estate saga filled with excitement, terror, regret, hope, and at least one overwhelming urge to spiritually fight a contractor named Brad...just kidding his name really isn't Brad.

We’re talking:
• Letting go of a house with shared memories
• Crying over packing things. i.e., packing the urn
• Contractors who are either angels… or absolutely not

This isn’t just about square footage and closing dates — it’s about identity, loss, and figuring out who you are now when the life you planned is no longer an option. It’s grief in escrow, healing in chaos, and proof that moving forward doesn’t look neat, quiet, or emotionally stable.

If you’ve ever:
✔ Started over when you weren’t ready
✔ Loved and hated something at the same time
✔ Or wanted to burn down a Home Depot aisle out of pure stress

…this episode is for you.

Come laugh with us, cry a little, and remember that sometimes healing looks like signing paperwork through tears and still choosing yourself anyway.

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When it comes to losing a spouse, the media loves a script — and it’s usually dramatic, rushed, or wildly unrealistic. In this episode, we unpack how movies, TV, and books shape what people think widowhood should look like, and how those portrayals influence the way widows are treated in real life.

We talk about the shows and stories that actually get it right — including Grey's Anatomy and why honest representation matters. We also call out the common ways media gets it very wrong, from tidy grief timelines to one-dimensional “strong widow” stereotypes.

By comparing real-life loss to what we see on screen, we’re challenging harmful narratives and highlighting the importance of telling stories that reflect the messy, complicated, and deeply human reality of losing a spouse.

If you’ve ever felt judged, misunderstood, or pressured to grieve a certain way, this episode is for you.

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In this emotional and inspiring episode, Tammy shares her story of becoming a widow after losing her husband to suicide following a mental health crisis and a tragic police standoff. She opens up about the struggles her husband faced with mental illness, a meth addiction, the trauma surrounding his death, and the complicated grief that followed.

Tammy also reflects on the incredible strength she found through her “bonus family” — the loved ones who stepped in to support her, walk beside her through loss, and help her rebuild her life after tragedy. Her journey highlights the importance of mental health awareness, community support, and resilience after loss.

This episode offers an honest conversation about suicide loss, widowhood, grief recovery, and finding hope after heartbreak. Tammy’s story is a powerful reminder that healing is possible, even after life-altering trauma.

Listener discretion advised: This episode contains discussion of suicide and mental health struggles.

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9 months after Rachael first came on to share her story of suicide loss, she is back to talk about her first year post-loss. When Rachael originally joined us, she was just under 6-months into her widowhood journey and fighting to understand how she got there. Since then, with the help of counseling, friends, and family, she has survived the year of "firsts." First anniversaries, first holidays, first dates, and so much more.

In this episode, Rachael shares how she got through the first year and how she is reclaiming control of her future.

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In this recap episode, Kaylee and Kristyn revisit the life-changing moments that placed them in the club with the highest price for entry. (Spoiler: it’s not a country club, and the dues are emotional.)

Kaylee and Kristyn share how friendship, personal growth, and a few hobbies helped them take back the reins and live their best lives. For listeners who want the full backstory, you can listen to Episodes 2 and 3, where they go into much more detail about their individual journeys through sudden tragic loss.

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Is there life—and even heat—after devastating loss? This week, fan-favorite guest Heidi returns to the show for a raw, unfiltered, and surprisingly joyful conversation about dating after the death of a spouse. If you’ve ever wondered if the "extreme grief and despair" of losing a partner ever lifts, Heidi is living proof that not only does it get better, it can get really good.

Heidi dives deep into the modern dating trenches, sharing her hilarious and heart-pounding experiences with:

• Online Dating: Navigating the apps and finding what works.
• Rediscovering Intimacy: The transition back into sex and physical connection.
• Teenage Energy: Why "car makeout sessions" aren't just for kids anymore.
• The Turning Point: How she moved from deep despair to a life filled with excitement and genuine happiness.

If you haven't heard Heidi's original episode, go check out episode 34.