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What if the apology never comes and you still decide to heal? That’s the heart of today’s conversation as we unpack how to stop waiting on someone else’s words and start choosing freedom. We get honest about the stories we tell to soothe our pain, the fantasy versions of people we build in our heads, and the spiritual work that transforms open wounds into wise boundaries and steady peace.

I share why some people simply can’t apologize—lack of awareness, unhealed hurt, or pride—and how tying our future to their capacity keeps us stuck. We trace a practical path forward: tell the truth about what happened, release the idealized image, see the attack as an assault on purpose rather than proof of your unworthiness, and forgive for peace instead of automatic reconciliation. You’ll hear how that shift played out in my life with my biological father and why freedom arrived the moment I stopped waiting for what I thought I needed to hear.

We also walk through six clear steps you can use right now to move from rumination to release, including setting clean boundaries, accepting that apologies may come through actions—or not at all—and rooting your healing in faith practices that quiet the inner storm. If you’ve been holding your breath for closure, consider this your reminder: your breakthrough is in your release, not their confession. Tap play, take notes, and choose the next brave step toward a life that feels light, honest, and aligned with your calling.

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Thank you for joining us on this journey to empowerment. Remember, you are worth fighting for H.E.R.

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In this heartfelt and healing episode of The Squad Podcast, Coach Tocha sits down with content creator and marketing director Alex Young to talk about what it really looks like to rebuild after divorce.

Alex opens up about her journey through heartbreak, healing, and rediscovery — from losing the life she thought she’d have to finding strength, peace, and purpose on the other side. Together, Tocha and Alex unpack lessons on choosing kindness over bitterness, releasing timelines that no longer serve you, and finding God’s plan in the middle of pain.

This episode is for anyone who’s ever had to start over — whether it’s from a relationship, a career, or a season you didn’t see coming. You’ll walk away reminded that rebuilding isn’t about going back to who you were; it’s about becoming who God designed you to be.

Key Takeaways:

• How to rebuild your confidence and identity after divorce
• The power of surrounding yourself with faith-based community
• Learning to mourn the life you thought you’d have — and embrace the new one
• Why forgiveness is a daily choice, not a one-time act
• The beauty of growth, peace, and purpose after pain

Thank you for joining us on this journey to empowerment. Remember, you are worth fighting for H.E.R.

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Waiting seasons are not wasted seasons — they’re where faith matures and identity gets refined.

In this episode, Coach Tocha breaks down what it really means to have faith in the waiting room — when you’ve prayed, prepared, and done everything right, but God still seems silent. Through the stories of Abraham, Sarah, David, and Lazarus, she reminds us that the waiting room isn’t punishment, it’s preparation.

You’ll learn how to trust God’s timing when it doesn’t match your own, what to do when delay feels like denial, and how to posture your heart in seasons of uncertainty.

Key Takeaways:

• Why God uses waiting seasons to strengthen your faith
• How to stay grounded when progress feels slow
• What to do while you wait — spiritually and practically

Scripture References: James 1:3, Isaiah 40:31, Genesis 17–21, 1 Samuel 16–30, John 11, Habakkuk 2:3

Remember, Squad — the delay doesn’t mean denial; it means development.

Thank you for joining us on this journey to empowerment. Remember, you are worth fighting for H.E.R.