The Silhouette of Self: KandyBoi and the Art of Becoming is a conversation about fashion not as trend, but as language — a way of expressing identity, confidence, and inner alignment.
In this episode of The Spirit of Alchemy, hosts Bobby and Rehema sit down with Kagiso “KandyBoi” Mokoena, South African fashion designer, stylist, and creative director, to unpack the philosophy behind his work and the personal journey that shaped it. Known for bold couture, sculptural silhouettes, and an unapologetic celebration of the feminine form, KandyBoi reveals that his brand is not built on garments alone, but on how people feel when they wear them.
From sketching designs at fourteen to officially launching his brand in 2017, Kagiso’s journey is one of self-teaching, patience, and intentional growth. He speaks openly about being “delusional” in pursuit of his vision — not as fantasy, but as disciplined self-belief and trust in his own clarity. For KandyBoi, becoming is not rushed. It is cultivated.
Together, the conversation explores:
• Fashion as an extension of identity rather than an external performance
• The female silhouette as a canvas for confidence, presence, and power
• Why how a client feels matters more than how they look
• Building a bespoke brand rooted in trust, listening, and energy alignment
• Protecting mental health as a non-negotiable part of entrepreneurship
• Learning every part of the craft before scaling or delegating
• Choosing alignment over money — even when it means walking away
• Growing alongside peers rather than chasing status or celebrity
• Patience, long-term vision, and redefining success on your own terms
• Legacy, mentorship, and creating pathways for the next generation
KandyBoi’s story challenges fast-growth culture and redefines success as self-honouring, intentional, and deeply human. It is a reminder that when identity, energy, and action align, the work speaks for itself.
This episode is an invitation to consider how you are shaping your own silhouette, and what it means to become with integrity.
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