Are we born with what it takes, or do we become who we are?

In this episode, we explore the debate of Mother Nature vs Mother Nurture and what research says about personality, resilience, leadership, and success. While genetics play a role in who we are, studies show that many of the qualities we admire most are developed over time.

This episode is an encouragement for anyone who feels behind, overlooked, or underqualified. No matter your upbringing, personality type, Enneagram number, or DISC profile, growth is still possible. You’ll walk away reminded that while nature may start the story, nurture helps write the ending.

Who do you think you are? That question shows up every time you try to grow, pivot, or step outside the box people have put you in. In this episode, Ryan unpacks why it’s not fake it till you make it it’s believing it before everyone else does. He shares personal stories from early in his speaking career, moments of doubt and misalignment, and why waiting for permission or agreement is one of the fastest ways to stall your potential.

This episode is about the underestimated power of personal vision. Why seeing yourself clearly matters more than being seen by others. Why growth often requires moving before confidence catches up. And why the people who doubt you today may be the ones applauding later if you keep showing up and adding value. If you’ve been holding back, second guessing your next step, or waiting for someone else to validate what you already feel called to do, this one is for you.

Someone is going to say something this year.

They’ll forget. Misread. Interrupt. Post. Assume. And when it happens, you’ll feel it—tight chest, sharp tone, replaying the moment long after it passed.

In this episode, Ryan challenges you to decide now how you’ll respond later when offense shows up... because it will. From being a bitter you, a guarded you, or a revengeful you, to choosing a forgiving you, this conversation explores why forgiveness isn’t about excusing behavior. It’s about freeing yourself. If you’ve ever felt anxious, distant, or weighed down by unresolved hurt, this episode will help you rethink what carrying offense is really costing you.