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If working harder hasn’t changed where your family is headed, you might be providing, not leading. We explore the crucial shift from carrying the load to setting the direction, and why stability without a compass turns into controlled drift. Drawing from real-life moments—kids bringing tough dilemmas, a spouse seeking perspective, a home that’s busy but aimless—we break down how presence, values, and choices create clarity under pressure.

We dive into the difference between operational and relational decisions. Operational calls are clear and measurable—what to cut, what to fix, what to fund. Relational calls are messier—what tough talk needs to happen, which value we will protect, what we’re willing to sacrifice to move forward together. You’ll hear practical language you can use tonight: coaching questions for your kids that build judgment, engagement scripts for your spouse that replace deferring with true partnership, and a simple rhythm for family direction-setting that stops drift before crisis forces it.

Our take is simple: you don’t need to provide less; you need to lead more. Leadership is presence, not just performance. It’s creating standards instead of only meeting them, choosing what matters when everything can’t, and being in the room—mentally and emotionally—long enough to chart a course you’re proud of. If you’re ready to trade endurance for clarity and busyness for momentum, this conversation gives you the tools and the push. Listen, share it with someone who carries a lot, and then tell us: what leadership decision will you make this week? Subscribe, rate, and leave a review so more men can turn effort into direction.

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The most dangerous misalignment doesn’t explode; it drifts. Careers accelerate, reputations solidify, and bank accounts grow while home life slips into management mode—efficient, coordinated, but emotionally thin. We shine a light on that quiet distance and talk candidly about why capable men tolerate personal drift far longer than they would ever allow professional drift on their teams.

We start by naming the gap: the low-grade unease that surfaces during unstructured time, the struggle to recall the last weekend of true presence, and the way “it’s just a season” becomes a lifestyle. From there, we unpack the double standard that rules so many high performers. At work, drift is unacceptable, addressed early, and supported by advisors. At home, drift is understandable, explained away, and managed alone. We examine how leadership at home gets downgraded to logistics, how children become schedules instead of stories, and how spouses adapt to partial presence until resignation replaces hope.

Then we get practical. We stress that alignment is not a reward for perfect timing; it is a standard upheld amid complexity. We offer sharp questions that force clarity: What have you called temporary that’s now normal? Where are you managing instead of addressing? Which leadership qualities you’re known for at work are absent at home? We show how climate forms—how unresolved tension sets the emotional temperature—and why outside perspective turns intention into calibration. Professionals seek coaching to win at work; serious men invite honest mirrors to win at life.

If you’re ready to let your standards travel from boardroom to breakfast table, this conversation is your turning point. Subscribe, share this with a brother who needs it, and leave a review with one drift you will correct this week. Your resume may impress, but your life is the proof.

Key Moments In This Episode:

00:54 The Gap Between Professional and Personal Life

02:33 Recognizing the Persistent Unease

04:45 The Illusion of Temporary Seasons

06:58 Professional Success vs. Personal Misalignment

11:02 The Professional Paradox

16:07 The Importance of External Perspective

17:32 Conclusion: Closing the Gap

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This introductory episode into Season 5, titled 'The Awakening: Uncover the Drift Holding You Back,' sets the stage for a season designed not to comfort but to measure high-performing men who experience personal drift despite their professional success. Over 30+ episodes, it will challenge conventional explanations and habits, exposing the cost of postponement and misalignment in personal life. If you're ready to refuse living below your standards and accept the consequences of inaction, this season is for you. Join The Band of Brothers in redefining your legacy and priorities.

00:00 Introduction: The Purpose of This Season

01:11 Episode Zero: The Gate

01:33 The Structure of the Season

02:22 Professional vs. Personal Standards

03:43 The Cost of Personal Drift

06:55 The Importance of External Accountability

08:10 Conclusion: The Call to Action

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2025 didn’t break you—it revealed you.

In this powerful year-end solo episode of The Revolutionary Man Podcast, Alain Dumonceaux closes out the year with an honest reckoning for men who started strong, faced pressure, and were forced to confront who they really are.

This episode isn’t about perfection or finishing the journey. It’s about ownership, alignment, and the quiet transformation that happens when a man stops avoiding the truth and starts leading himself with integrity.

You’ll hear:

• Why misalignment always demands payment—and how 2025 collected
• How pressure exposes the cracks men try to hide
• The real turning point where ownership replaces excuses
• What it actually means to become a stronger man without pretending you’re finished
• How pain, when faced honestly, becomes purpose

If this year challenged your marriage, your business, your body, or your sense of direction—this episode will help you close the year grounded, clear, and ready for what’s next.

🎯 Your challenge: Identify one area where you’re being called to live with more integrity—and act on it.

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The strongest men don’t drift.

They decide.

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What happens when a soldier takes off the uniform and faces the toughest battle of his life—navigating the broken VA system?

In this powerful episode of The Revolutionary Man Podcast, Alain Dumonceaux sits down with Chas Sampson, a U.S. Army veteran and founder of Seven Principles, to discuss the challenges veterans face after their service. From lost identity and PTSD to the endless maze of VA disability claims, Chas shares the raw truth about what’s broken—and how men can reclaim dignity, confidence, and purpose after the military.

You’ll hear:
• The emotional challenges veterans face when transitioning to civilian life
• Why the VA system fails so many men—and how Chas is fighting to fix it
• Common mistakes veterans make with disability claims (and how to avoid them)
• The role of faith, leadership, and community in healing and rebuilding
• Practical first steps for veterans feeling stuck, rejected, or lost

Key Moments in this episode:
03:20 Chas Simpson's Military Journey
05:44 Transitioning to Civilian Life: Challenges and Insights
13:07 Building Seven Principles: Overcoming Financial Struggles
17:07 The Importance of Purpose and Resilience
20:25 Challenges Veterans Face with Disability Claims
22:59 A Case Study: The System's Failures
28:46 Finding Purpose Beyond Benefits
32:42 Final Thoughts and Advice

If you’re a veteran—or you know one—this conversation is a lifeline.
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Website: https://sevenprinciples.com/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sevenprinciplesgroup
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sevenprinciplesgroup/?hl=en
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@seven_principles
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCuafUSVl796zWRT6pJZjGOg
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/seven-principles-group/

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Join Alain Dumonceaux and guest Steven Seidel in this insightful episode of the Revolutionary Man Podcast as they dive into the essence of legacy, identity, and fatherhood.

Key points include:

1. Understanding legacy beyond wealth,
2. The journey of authenticity and embracing vulnerability,
3. Steven's personal turning points and lessons from loss,
4. The importance of connection and building support systems like men's groups, and
5. Practical frameworks for self-improvement and building a purpose-driven life.

Perfect for men seeking purpose, courage, and deeper connections.

Key moments in this episode:

03:43 Steven's Turning Point

07:07 The Hidden Power of Grief

13:01 Balancing Business and Personal Life

20:30 Introducing the GREAT Framework

22:17 The Power of Accountability and Action

25:07 The Journey Deck: Building Connections

29:52 The Artist's Way: Exercises for Creativity

32:29 Realising You Are Enough

34:57 Final Thoughts and Call to Action

How to reach Steve:

Website: https://stephenseidel.com/

Social Media Contact Information:

FB: http://facebook.com/stephenseidel

IG: http://instagram.com/stephenseidel

YT: http://youtube.com/stephenseidel

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In: https://www.linkedin.com/in/StephenSeidel/

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In this episode of the Revolutionary Man podcast, host Alain Dumonceaux delves into the transformative journey of Garr Russell, a faith-driven entrepreneur. Key points discussed include overcoming despair and addiction, using faith to find purpose, understanding and confronting childhood lies, the importance of stones of remembrance, and the growth of his RV rental business during times of adversity. If you're seeking inspiration to turn your setbacks into setups, this episode is a must-listen. Join us and explore how Garr's story can inspire your own path to living with faith, courage, and integrity.

Key moments in this episode:
05:47 Faith and Entrepreneurship: Overcoming Lies
08:18 From Pain to Purpose: Garr's Story
16:30 Building a Business Through Faith
20:33 Struggles with Alcohol and COVID
24:15 Repentance, Reconciliation, and Restoration
27:06 Faith, Hope, and Overcoming Challenges
31:38 Balancing Life and Preparedness
36:29 Life Happens For You, Not To You
38:03 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

How to reach Garr:
Website: https://garrrussell.com/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/garr.russell
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/garrjrussull
Book: My+HIS-Story - https://myhisstory.com/

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The suit fits, the numbers look great, and the applause is loud—so why does it still feel off inside? We sit down with leadership guide and speaker Chad Brignac to explore the uncomfortable gap between external performance and internal peace. Chad opens up about the tragedies that shattered his autopilot—losing his first wife and later becoming a full-time caregiver after his wife’s stroke—and how those moments exposed a “broken legacy” built on results over relationships.

What follows is a candid road map for men who lead at work but feel like strangers at home. Chad redefines emotional intelligence as clarity, not suppression: notice the trigger, pause, ask why, and deal with the roots—fear, pride, old vows—rather than the surface behaviour.

You’ll hear practical frameworks you can use today. Calibrate your people compass so success doesn’t come at the expense of relationships. Learn how blind spots show up like lane changes. If your legacy feels “off,” this conversation offers a way to rebuild from the inside out and measure success by inner peace, not just titles.

If this resonates, follow the show, share it with a friend who needs the reset, and leave a quick review to help others find these conversations. Your support helps us champion leadership with impact and integrity.

Key moments in this episode:

02:24 Guest Introduction: Chad Brina's Journey

03:26 Facing Personal Tragedy and Transformation

06:32 Discovering Inward Alignment

10:04 The Power of Vulnerability and Emotional Intelligence

12:20 Blend Don't Break: Leadership Lessons

19:36 Recognizing Blind Spots and Growth

32:22 The Greenhouse Effect: Creating a Healthy Environment

34:50 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

How to reach Chad:

Website: https://chadmbrignac.com/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/chadmbrignac

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chadmbrignac/

YouTube: https://youtube.com/@chadmbrignac?feature=shared

LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/mark-collins-freedom-for-life

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LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/chadmbrignac/about

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