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The Hidden Reason You’re Struggling to Orgasm With Your Partner

The Hidden Reason You’re Struggling to Orgasm With Your Partner

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Difficulty orgasming isn’t always about you. At least, not in the way you might think.


In this minisode of In Bed with Science, I’m talking about one of the less discussed reasons orgasm can become harder with a partner: when your orgasm starts to feel like proof that they’re good at sex.


Orgasms aren’t gifts.


And when your partner’s care, effort or disappointment becomes part of the experience, pleasure can quickly turn into pressure.

In this episode, we explore:


  • Why “giving” someone an orgasm can be an unhelpful way to think about sex
  • How a partner’s investment in your orgasm can make it harder to relax
  • Why pressure and self-monitoring can get in the way of pleasure
  • What to do when orgasm has become the goal of sex


Your orgasm isn’t a performance review of your partner’s skills. And it isn’t the only proof that sex was good.

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