In this episode of Kink Journeys, I sit down with community builder and LSPlayground founder, Josh Fink. We dive deep into how a backyard BBQ during lockdown sparked one of Colorado’s most inclusive and thriving lifestyle communities. Josh Fink shares their path from early explorations in kink and polyamory to organizing hotel takeovers that bridge the gap between swinger, poly, and kink communities. We talk grief, chosen family, radical inclusion, and why curiosity—and coffee—matter as much as play. Honest stories. Fresh perspectives. Real kink journeys.

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LSPlayground.com

Can an online quiz really tell you who you are in BDSM? How long does it take three neurodivergent kinksters to take a test together (and just how many Barbarella references can we fit into our commentary)? Charlie and I decide to take the (in?)famous BDSM Test and compare it with another sexuality self test MojoUpgrade. While working our way into the first test we got a call from one of our favorite humans, Sir Aiden Charming, who joined us in the test adventure and commentary. We laugh, we cringe, we learn about ourselves and each other. This is a truncated version of our online shenanigans, while Patreon listeners have the opportunity to do the tests with us in a 2-hour long play by play, query by query recording. So buckle up for this blast from the past (we actually recorded this in the summer 2024 but Kat got overwhelmed by the editing process #spoonielife #betterlatethannever).

Have you done these or other sexuality/kink tests? What did you like or dislike? Let us know if there's one you think we should take on the pod!

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BDSMtest.org

mojoupgrade.com

Other resources mentioned:

Kat’s Yes/Maybe/No Kink Checklist

Scarleteen’s non-kink/beginner friendly Yes, No, Maybe So: Sexual Inventory Stocklist

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"Mind the Gap" Underwear designed by Kat

We're back with a new interview episode! I invited my dear friend and metamour, Nicole Nichols, to talk about her amazing work as boudoir photographer. From creating safe spaces for women (and men!) to rediscover and celebrate their bodies to building community traditions in self love, Nicole has touched so many lives!

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https://www.nicolenichols.com/

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https://www.nicolenichols.com/self-love-challenge-win-boudoir-session

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