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The Cool Grandpa Podcast

The Cool Grandpa Podcast

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 This podcast is about the influence that Cool Grandpa's can have on their grandchildren and families. This podcast contains great stories about the influence that grandpas have had on their grandchildren. We also interview grandpas to learn how they are developing and maintaining powerful connections with their grandchildren.Copyright 2020 Relations Sciences sociales
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    • An Understanding Heart For Grandparents EP - 254

      An Understanding Heart For Grandparents EP - 254
      Feb 20 2026
      🧭 Episode Summary In this solo episode of The Cool Grandpa Podcast, I explore insights from Dan Miller's book An Understanding Heart and apply them to modern grandfatherhood. Greg shares three powerful themes—listening as a legacy skill, curiosity over correction, and emotional presence in a distracted world—along with personal stories and practical steps grandfathers can use today to deepen relationships with their grandchildren. 👂 Listening as a Legacy Skill Listening isn't passive—it's an active gift that teaches empathy and builds lifelong connections. I reflect on the adults in my childhood who truly listened and how that shaped me to have an understanding heart. 🌉 Curiosity Over Correction Curiosity builds bridges; correction builds walls. I encourage grandfathers to ask reflective questions instead of jumping in with advice, especially with young children and teens. Show them that YOU offer them an understanding heart. 🧭 Emotional Presence in a Distracted World Phones, schedules, and multitasking compete for attention—but presence is what grandchildren crave. I share stories of grandparents who modeled full presence and a powerful personal memory of a long road trip with my grandfather, who truly had an understanding heart. 🛠️ Practical Steps for Cool Grandpas Follow the 2:1 rule—listen twice as much as you speak Ask one curious question in every conversation Pause before giving advice and ask if advice is wanted Mirror emotions: "That sounds exciting" or "That sounds hard." Schedule intentional one-on-one time with each grandchild 💡 Reflection Question What does your grandchild need from you right now—advice or understanding? 🚀 A Call to Action: 👴 For Grandfathers Practice listening without interrupting this week. Notice what you learn about your grandchildren's inner world. 👨‍👧 For Fathers Ask one curious question today that you've never asked before—and observe how your child responds. 📚 Resources Mentioned An Understanding Heart by Dan Miller, use this link to order this treasured book: https://www.48days.com/product/an-understanding-heart/ Here is the link to that amazing episode I had with my mentor, Dan Miller: https://cool-grandpa.us/2021/09/10/ep-48-growing-creativity-with-grandchildren/ Buy Me a Coffee by using this link: https://buymeacoffee.com/coolgrandpa Cool Grandpa merchandise store: https://cool-grandpa.us/shop/ You can watch this fun conversation on YouTube by using this link: https://youtu.be/B_ceCsH-zss
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      25 min
    • Presence Over Pressure: A Cool Grandpa Lesson EP - 253

      Presence Over Pressure: A Cool Grandpa Lesson EP - 253
      Feb 13 2026
      Summary In this episode of the Cool Grandpa Podcast, I discuss the importance of communication and listening in building meaningful connections with grandchildren. I emphasizes that presence is more powerful than pressure and introduces the 'Three, Two, One Grandpa Rule' to enhance interactions. The episode highlights the significance of asking questions, reflecting on conversations, and creating a safe space for grandchildren to express themselves. Key Takeaways 🧩1. Presence Beats Pressure Just being calm and physically present can create a sense of safety and trust for grandchildren—even more than advice or solutions. 🗣️ 2. Advice Shuts Doors—Questions Open Them Open-ended questions spark curiosity and connection, triggering dopamine and encouraging deeper conversation. ⏸️ 3. Silence Is Leadership Pausing before responding gives emotions time to breathe and shows grandchildren they matter. 🔢 4. The Cool Grandpa 3-2-1 Rule 3 seconds of pause → 2 reflections → 1 question This simple rhythm builds trust, encourages honesty, and avoids lecturing. ❤️ 5. Kids Remember How Safe They Felt Your grandchildren won't remember every word—but they will remember the emotional safety you created. The Cool Grandpa Challenge This week: Pause for 3 seconds Reflect twice Ask one open-ended question Then notice what changes in your conversations. Free Resource and Links Download the Cool Grandpa 3-2-1 Reflection Worksheet to practice this method with your grandchildren and family. https://cool-grandpa.us/wp-content/uploads/2026/02/Cool-Grandpa-–-3-2-1-Worksheet.pdf Here is the link to Codie Sanchez's podcast that I referenced: https://open.spotify.com/episode/3BUlZ4AsOXGwdItaH6ozy7. The title of her episode is "Top Rabling: The 3-2-1 Speaking Trick That Makes You Sound Like a CEO." You can watch this fun conversation on YouTube by using this link: https://youtu.be/G3c89GznTYs I would appreciate it if you could support the show. You can support the show through "Buy me a Coffee" by donating a few dollars HERE. (https://buymeacoffee.com/coolgrandpa) Here is a link to my webstore: https://cool-grandpa.us/shop/
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      27 min
    • The Grandpa Effect: Belief, Confidence & Legacy EP -252

      The Grandpa Effect: Belief, Confidence & Legacy EP -252
      Feb 6 2026
      What do your grandchildren believe about themselves because of you? In this solo episode of The Cool Grandpa Podcast, I draw on the timeless wisdom from Chapter One of The Magic of Thinking Big and apply it to one of the most underestimated leadership roles in a child's life: the role of a grandfather. David Schwartz opens his book with a bold claim—success begins with belief. Not intelligence. Not talent. Belief. And when you view that idea through the lens of grandfatherhood, it raises an important question: What beliefs are our grandchildren borrowing from us—intentionally or unintentionally? Using relatable stories (including toddlers, cookies, and baby gates), classroom experience, and real-life grandparent moments, I explore how belief is formed long before evidence appears—and why grandparents are often the safest, most influential voices in shaping a child's self-image. In this episode, you'll explore: Why belief often comes before evidence for children—and why that matters How grandchildren absorb more than our words: tone, reactions, expectations The difference between praising outcomes and speaking identity Why modeling confidence matters more than modeling perfection How negative self-talk ("I'm terrible at this") quietly sets limits for kids Why asking better questions builds independence better than quick fixes What it really means to raise their thinking, not your voice This episode isn't about being a perfect grandparent. It's about being an intentional one—someone who leaves grandchildren with confidence, courage, and belief that extends far beyond childhood. 🔑 Key Takeaways Grandchildren borrow belief from the adults they trust most Confidence is caught more than it is taught Words—especially casual ones—shape lifelong self-image Encouragement grows confidence far better than correction One consistent, belief-building adult can change a child's trajectory 📄 Free Companion Resource Here is your free reflection guide created specifically for this episode: 🧠 Think Big, Grandpa – A Reflection Guide A simple, printable worksheet to help you: Reflect on the beliefs you're reinforcing Reset how you praise, correct, and encourage Speak belief intentionally into your grandchild's life Links Click HERE for your free download or use this link: https://cool-grandpa.us/wp-content/uploads/2026/02/Cool_Grandpa_Think_Big_Workshop_Guide_WITH_LOGO.pdf
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      21 min
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