“Welcome to Build A Man Up, the space where wives learn how to strengthen their husbands without striving, fixing, or carrying what God never assigned them to carry.

This conversation is for women who love deeply, pray faithfully, and desire to honor God in their marriage, but who may have unknowingly crossed the line from supporting their husband to substituting for him.

Here, we’re not teaching wives how to build men, because God is the Builder.

We’re teaching wives how to build their husbands up through honor, wisdom, prayer, and alignment with God’s design for covenant.

If you’ve ever felt tired, frustrated, or confused about your role in your marriage…

If you’ve ever wondered when to speak, when to pray, and when to trust God with the process…

You’re in the right place.

This is a space of truth without shame, clarity without condemnation, and wisdom without pressure.

I’m Coach Misty, and this is Build A Man Up, where wives learn how to be a safe place, not a substitute; a helpmeet, not a hero; and a partner in purpose, not a parent in marriage.”

This episode was created to help single women detox from overfunctioning, emotional labor, and misplaced responsibility, while strengthening discernment, boundaries, and identity as she embraces her Wife Evolution

Today’s episode is about the Wife Within the Woman, the truth that many men marry a woman but never discover the wife inside her. And when the wife within her is never cultivated, cherished, or uncovered, the marriage struggles and the favor connected to her identity is never released.

The truth that many men marry a woman but never discover the wife inside her. And when the wife within her is never cultivated, cherished, or uncovered, the marriage struggles and the favor connected to her identity is never released.