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What if you were wrong about the role of being a man and being a woman?

In this episode of The Bliss Republic Podcast, I meet with Ivan L. James from Miami, Florida - a transformational embodiment coach for polarity.

What does military leadership have to do with love, intimacy, and connection? In this powerful episode, Ivan shares how his 19 years in the military gave him the structure, discipline, and resilience that now shape his work with couples and singles. Through his concept of “leading from below”—a practice of voluntary vulnerability—Ivan demonstrates how real strength in relationships comes from openness, presence, and authenticity rather than control.

Ivan works with singles seeking meaningful relationships and couples wanting to deepen their bond. He sheds light on the common ways we self-sabotage in dating and relationships, especially when navigating polarity between the masculine and feminine. He explains what it takes to:

• Break free from repeating negative patterns
• Create magnetic polarity in relationships
• Stay present with your partner in moments of tension
• Lead with authenticity instead of performance
• Avoid the trap of becoming a “chameleon” in love

Throughout the conversation, Ivan emphasizes the importance of integrating both hard skills and soft skills—from self-discipline and structure to empathy and vulnerability. He reminds us that only when we are truly connected to ourselves can we show up fully for another person. Without that inner alignment, intimacy and polarity collapse.

What you’ll learn in this episode:

• How military discipline translates into emotional leadership in love
• Why voluntary vulnerability is one of the most powerful tools for building trust and attraction
• The consequences of not doing “the work” in your personal growth and relationships
• How to embody your true nature and roots, rather than bending to fit someone else’s expectations
• Practical ways to increase connection, presence, and authenticity in your relationships

Ivan is also an author, with several books launching soon, and he frequently hosts relationship workshops and offers personal coaching for those ready to transform their love lives. His approach is practical, grounded, and deeply transformative for anyone looking to build stronger, healthier, and more authentic relationships.

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• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ivanheals
• Website: https://ivanheals.com/healing-collective
• Free Resources: https://ivanheals.com/free-page

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Due to the recent murder on Charlie Kirk, I decided to cut in between for a short solo episode, mourning a podcasting colleague, father and brother in Christ.

I have personally followed Charlies mission and admired his courage to face and challenge the very people that disliked them. Some of his content I admired, some I questioned. Regardless, I was gutted by his sudden passing as someone this young and this iconic.

I myself have found a strong anchor in my belief in the past years and love challenging my fellow Christians from time to time. Notthing like a good debate!

In this episode I'm reading Matthew 15:30 Parabel of the Talents, which has become crucial for shaping my paradigm of what is right and what is wrong on the path of following your God-given talents.

I further depict the concept of the soul and confidence in yourself, the person you were meant to be.

Charlie was bold and courageous and will forever be remembered.

Thank you.

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What if everything you thought you knew about men, women and connection was just the tip of the iceberg?

In this episode of The Bliss Republic Podcast, I sit down with Alison Armstrong from Colorado, USA - the renowned author of "The Queen's Code," to unravel the often-misunderstood dynamics between the sexes. Ever wonder why men pull away, or why women are drawn to certain relationships? What does it really mean when men value innocence, or why is vulnerability such a superpower?

Alison Armstrong is a sought-after speaker and bestselling author best known for her books The Queen’s Code and Keys to the Kingdom. Starting in 1991, she devoted her career to researching what brings out the best and worst in men - an inquiry which naturally expanded into understanding women and the intricate connections between the two. Alison’s teachings have positively impacted millions of people, helping them build stronger families, more loving relationships, and more productive organisations.

Alison shares surprising science (did you know sperm team up for the ultimate relay race?) and unpacks the emotional energy behind simple words like "sorry." You'll find yourself questioning assumptions, rethinking your own approach to intimacy, and -if you’ve ever been confused by the opposite sex - feeling seen and inspired.

Alison clarifies common misconceptions about men's and women's needs regarding sex, emphasising the difference between sexual attraction, emotional connection, and fulfilment in relationships.

If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe and share with someone who would benefit from Alison Armstrong’s wisdom!

Resources & Offers

• Free Ebook: Making Sense of Men by Alison Armstrong https://www.alisonarmstrong.com/products/makingsense.html, click: For ME, enter promo code: AlisonGift2025
• Upcoming Webinar: “Feels Like Love, Looks Like Math” (September 20th) https://www.alisonarmstrong.com/events/love-math/?ctid=C2BC5A2B661
• The Queen's Code - Journey: https://www.alisonarmstrong.com/products/qc-audiobook.html?ctid=C2B5CA2B661
• Alison’s Official Site: alisonarmstrong.com
• Listen to The Queen’s Code Audiobook Exclusively on Alison’s website/app

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In this heartfelt episode of The Bliss Republic Podcast, we connect with Mark Groves - relationship expert and co-author of Liberated Love - from Toronto, Canada.

Follow our candid conversation about what it really means to build, nurture and heal strong relationships in today's world. Mark opens up about how becoming a parent has shifted his partnership, what it means to move from couplehood to family and how to keep connection alive despite life’s disruptions.

We discuss turning toward difficult emotions like grief and anxiety instead of running from them, and share practical ways to process big feelings for personal and relational growth. Listen as we explore the evolving role of sexuality, the importance of boundaries, and the sacred journey of understanding one’s body and desires.

We get Mark’s take on tackling financial hardships, codependency and self-worth within relationships and the powerful role of curiosity and humility in healing and deepening connection.

We discover how technology, culture and shifting expectations are impacting the way we relate AND why going "back to the village" mindset might be more revolutionary than ever. We then draw illuminating comparisons between healthy partnership templates and vibrant, functioning communities and societies.

Whether you’re navigating the joys and struggles of parenting, feeling the weight of loneliness, or rethinking the role of intimacy and self-worth in your partnerships, in this episode, we deliver honest insights and actionable advice that will resonate deeply.

If you want to know more about Mark, please find the links here below:

markgroves.com

createthelove.com

instagram.com/createthelove

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UClgLCOnztdrdu6qAOH-PVdA

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In this episode we speak with guest Hannah Haller, renowned yoga teacher, health coach, world traveller exploring an off-grid life in her home in Maui, Hawaii. We connect over the fertility pressure women can perceive in their late 30's and early 40's.

Hannah shares her extraordinary lifestyle, living on a 40 acre farm in a yurt in Hawaii and her days of travelling and the happy struggles before the internet and mobile phones.

But Hannah is much more than the yogi with 500K followers on instagram. Her story is touched by adversity, life's battles with loss, heartbreak and grief. She shares openly and honestly, where she is at in her healing journey and how the loss and grief has changes her perspective on attachment.

Experiencing a miscarriage in her mid 30's, Hannah has taken much comfort in her practice of yoga and exploring her dharma of nurture in other places outside of being a biological mother.

Whilst Hannah is open to becoming a mother, her path does not include egg freezing. She has witnessed a friend undergo a $25000 treatment with years of IVF treatment and no success and would not want this to be her experience.[Disclaimer: this price is stated without any research from our end. Please do your own research to better understand costing, should you be looking into egg freezing]

Considering the conditioning we all underly of creating a "perfect" family in our 20's or 30's - Hannah is not interested in making a pressured decision from this space and has come to a place of peace, where the core ideology is to make whole-hearted decisions instead.

Hannah emphasises the need for community help in motherhood and the network required to raising children, regardless of how independent of a woman one is.

If you want to know more about Hannah, please find the links here below:
https://substack.com/@hannahshaller
https://www.instagram.com/hannahshaller/

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In this episode of the Bliss Republic podcast, our returning guest Jackson Goding, a clinical psychotherapist from the Northern Beaches in Sydney, discusses his new program 'It Ends With Us' and its connection to trauma and self-worth.

He shares his personal experiences, the impact of the movie that inspired his retreat and the importance of authenticity in coaching. The conversation also delves into ADHD, medication and the role of therapists and coaches in supporting individuals through their healing journeys.

We explore the tools and strategies for emotional regulation after experiencing trauma. We share how we moved past the pain of the past and developed coping mechanisms to manage triggering experiences. It’s a journey of healing and growth.

We discover the path to our authentic selves. We explore how to embrace inner silence to heal and recover from external conditioning, rediscovering our inherent worth and breaking free from conditional thinking.

Jackson emphasises the need for self-accountability while also reflecting on the importance of being present and acknowledging the impact we have on others.

If you want to know more about Jackson, please find the links here below:
https://www.instagram.com/findreasontherapy/
https://findreasontherapy.com
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In this episode we speak with Autumn Rose from Costa Rica, who is a mother, storyteller & women's mentor helping them returning home to their wombs - the origin point of their innate power as women. She works with maidens, mothers and crones as they reclaim their place of belonging in the circle of life.

We speak about the importance of authenticity, legacy and the challenges women face in expressing their true selves. Autumn discusses the 'copycat frequency' prevalent in today's society, the significance of connecting with our ancestors, and the need for women to reclaim their power and originality. The conversation delves into the impact of cutting ties with family, the role of somatic practices in connecting with ancestry, and the quest for community and synergy among women.

In this conversation, Autumn Rose explores the profound connection women have with their femininity, womb, and spirituality. She discusses the exhaustion of performative femininity, the importance of healing the womb, and the journey back to self and God.

The dialogue emphasises the need for women to reconnect with their intuition and the sacredness of their bodies, advocating for a deeper understanding of the womb's role in their lives.

Through personal stories and insights, Autumn highlights the significance of embodiment, trust, and the transformative power of women's circles.

Find out more about Autumn Rose and her offer here:
https://www.embodyjaguar.com/
https://www.instagram.com/embodyjaguar/
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCarh2kDTKwVZi-XhZpyMZsw

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In this conversation, our returning guest Arian Samouie, discusses the significance of failure in achieving abundance, the role of the ego in personal growth, and the importance of curiosity in self-exploration.

He emphasises the necessity of exploring one's shadow self to understand and integrate fragmented aspects of the psyche. The discussion also touches on ancestral healing and the impact of generational trauma, highlighting the journey of self-discovery as essential for spiritual connection.

In this conversation, Arian Samouie discusses the journey of personal growth and the importance of sharing experiences while maintaining boundaries. He emphasises the need to value one's time and the significance of authenticity in teaching. The discussion also delves into the concepts of surrender and trust, highlighting how they relate to personal alignment and the avoidance of burnout.

Arian shares insights on navigating the balance between authenticity and branding in a world where personal narratives are often commodified. In this conversation, we explore the intricate relationship between personal frequency, social media, and self-awareness.

Arian emphasises the importance of protecting one's energy from external influences and discusses the concept of the 'observer self' as a means to navigate challenging environments.

We delve into the significance of attracting healthy relationships and the journey of being true to oneself. The discussion also touches on enlightenment, the nature of God and existence, and the excitement of future advancements in technology.

If you want to know more about Arian, please find the links here below:
https://www.ariansamouie.com/
https://www.youtube.com/@UCJLf_QdB9icW3mhCPX66brg
https://www.instagram.com/arian_samouie/?hl=en

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