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  • 39, Retired Military, Sleeping On A Mate's Floor — 'I Thought I Was Unlovable

    39, Retired Military, Sleeping On A Mate's Floor — 'I Thought I Was Unlovable
    Jun 21 2026
    Most men think their relationship problems come from anger, communication issues, or simply choosing the wrong partner. So they tell themselves: "I just need to work on my reactions." "I need to find someone who understands me." "I'm trying my best." But underneath those struggles is often a much deeper story. A story that quietly whispers: "There's something wrong with me." "I'm too broken to be loved." "I'll never be enough." And every time conflict appears… every time someone they love expresses disappointment… that story takes over. In this episode, David sits down with John to explore the powerful transformation that unfolded through his coaching journey—from self-sabotage, emotional reactivity, and shame to self-worth, connection, and presence. John shares how, despite appearing capable and successful on the outside, intimate relationships repeatedly exposed a painful belief he carried for years: That he was fundamentally unlovable. He explains how even small moments of criticism or conflict would trigger overwhelming emotional reactions. Defensiveness. Anger. People-pleasing. Withdrawal. Self-sabotage. Not because he wanted to hurt the people he loved. But because every challenge in a relationship seemed to confirm the story that something was wrong with him. And eventually, that story began damaging the very relationships he cared about most. The hardest part? He didn't know how to stop it. When his partner finally asked him to leave, he found himself at a breaking point. Desperate. Heartbroken. Terrified of losing everything. That moment became the beginning of a completely different path. In this conversation, David and John explore how low self-worth shapes relationships, why emotional reactions often mask deeper wounds, and what begins to change when men stop fighting themselves and start building trust from within. John also shares the profound impact this work has had on his marriage, his relationship with his children, and his journey toward becoming the father and partner he always wanted to be. This isn't a conversation about becoming perfect. It's about discovering that healing doesn't come from fixing yourself. It comes from letting go of the belief that you were broken in the first place. If you've ever felt unlovable, struggled with emotional reactivity, sabotaged relationships you deeply cared about, or wondered whether lasting change is truly possible—this episode may show you what can happen when you finally begin to believe that you are enough. RELATE: 👉🏽 Where modern men reclaim depth, direction, and relational leadership. Join Relate: https://relatewaitlist.carrd.co/ ____________________ ____________________ What To Do Next: 1️⃣ Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/ 2️⃣ Get specialised relationship and dating advice: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe 3️⃣ Go bag one of the resources below ____________________ ____________________ 🧨 RESOURCES 🧨 ✅ Modern dating feels impossible? It doesn't have to stay that way. The Men's Dating Accelerator, master the most important skills: https://www.theauthenticman.net/mda-landing-page-direct-update-v2 Check out these FREE resources: 👉🏽 5 mistakes in embodying healthy masculinity: https://mailchi.mp/theauthenticman/masculinity-mistakes-in-dating-giveaway 👉🏽 The Hidden Mistakes Men Make in Dating & Relationships: https://mailchi.mp/faaf98ceedd8/hiddenmistakes 👉🏽 30 Dating App Conversation Starters: https://www.theauthenticman.net/app-openers-landing-page 👉🏽 Why You Keep Pulling Away: https://www.theauthenticman.net/why-you-keep-pulling-away-page 👉🏽 Why you are REALLY fighting - https://mailchi.mp/theauthenticman/why-you-keep-fighting?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=video&utm_campaign=conflict-guide ____________________ Loving the podcast? Leave us a review… 📱Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/the-authentic-man-podcast-with-david-chambers/id1447910686?action=write-review Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/64n26CAX3FIhJj7aMR2CO6 LIKE. SHARE. SUBSCRIBE. Give this video a thumbs up if you enjoyed watching 👍 #relationship #dating #masculinity
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    55 min
  • "I'd Rather Have Died Than Admit I Was Struggling" — The Lie That Almost Killed Him

    "I'd Rather Have Died Than Admit I Was Struggling" — The Lie That Almost Killed Him
    Jun 3 2026
    A raw conversation about men's mental health and male suicide. Ten years ago George Bell was making plans to take his own life, and nobody around him knew. In this episode he tells David Chambers how the code of masculinity convinced him that struggling made him weak, why he was willing to trade his life to protect his idea of being a man, and how the intervention of two women saved him. On male suicide, mental health awareness, loneliness, male friendship and what it really means to be a man. George Bell is a speaker, author, and advocate for men's mental health and modern masculinity. Drawing from his own experience overcoming severe mental health struggles, including suicidal thoughts, George has dedicated his work to helping men build deeper connections, develop emotional resilience, and challenge harmful stereotypes around masculinity. Through his writing, speaking engagements, and research, he explores topics such as male identity, loneliness, mental health, relationships, and the impact of culture and technology on men's wellbeing. His mission is to create spaces where men can speak openly, seek support, and lead healthier, more connected lives. Key Topics: ⭐ George Bell's Journey From Suicidal Thoughts To Purpose And Advocacy ⭐ The Hidden Crisis Of Men Suffering In Silence Despite Being Surrounded By Loved Ones ⭐ Why Shame, Masculinity, And Fear Stop Men From Asking For Help ⭐ Loneliness, Emotional Isolation, And The Missing Depth In Male Friendships ⭐ Creating Safe Spaces For Men To Open Up And Have Honest Conversations ⭐ The Myth Of Male Self-Sufficiency And Our Need For Human Connection ⭐ How Social Media, Algorithms, And The Online World Exploit Men's Insecurities ⭐ The Core Wound Of "Not Being Good Enough" Driving Male Struggle And Behaviour ⭐ Nature Versus Nurture: How Society Shapes Modern Masculinity ⭐ Raising Boys In A Divided World While Teaching Emotional Awareness And Resilience ⭐ Why Men Often Turn To Anger, Addiction, Or Extremism Instead Of Processing Pain ⭐ Building Stronger Communities, Brotherhood, And Support Networks For Men In Modern Life Connect With David - The Authentic Man: ➡️ Join the Waitlist — Relate https://forms.gle/2AXhmyNweasETaso7 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/ Website: https://www.theauthenticman.net/ For Coaching: hello@theauthenticman.net Newsletter: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe Connect with George Bell Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/georgeybell/ Book: https://tr.ee/BkOgHc7ptc RELATE: 👉🏽 Where modern men reclaim depth, direction, and relational leadership. Join Relate: https://relatewaitlist.carrd.co/ ____________________ ____________________ What To Do Next: 1️⃣ Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/ 2️⃣ Get specialised relationship and dating advice: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe 3️⃣ Go bag one of the resources below ____________________ ____________________ 🧨 RESOURCES 🧨 ✅ Modern dating feels impossible? It doesn't have to stay that way. The Men's Dating Accelerator, master the most important skills: https://www.theauthenticman.net/mda-landing-page-direct-update-v2 Check out these FREE resources: 👉🏽 5 mistakes in embodying healthy masculinity: https://mailchi.mp/theauthenticman/masculinity-mistakes-in-dating-giveaway 👉🏽 The Hidden Mistakes Men Make in Dating & Relationships: https://mailchi.mp/faaf98ceedd8/hiddenmistakes 👉🏽 30 Dating App Conversation Starters: https://www.theauthenticman.net/app-openers-landing-page 👉🏽 Why You Keep Pulling Away: https://www.theauthenticman.net/why-you-keep-pulling-away-page 👉🏽 Why you are REALLY fighting - https://mailchi.mp/theauthenticman/why-you-keep-fighting?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=video&utm_campaign=conflict-guide ____________________ Loving the podcast? Leave us a review… 📱Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/the-authentic-man-podcast-with-david-chambers/id1447910686?action=write-review Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/64n26CAX3FIhJj7aMR2CO6 LIKE. SHARE. SUBSCRIBE. Give this video a thumbs up if you enjoyed watching 👍 #relationship #dating #masculinity
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    1 h et 30 min
  • 44, Short, Divorced — 'I Didn't Think I Had Anything To Offer' — Every Woman Wants Him Back.

    44, Short, Divorced — 'I Didn't Think I Had Anything To Offer' — Every Woman Wants Him Back.
    May 31 2026
    Here's a description in the same style and structure as your example: Most men think confidence comes from fixing themselves. So they tell themselves: "I just need to work harder." "I need to become more successful." "I need to get my life together before I date again." But eventually, they realise the real problem isn't a lack of confidence. It's the story they've been telling themselves. The self-doubt. The overthinking. The constant need for validation. The belief that they're somehow not enough. In this episode, David sits down with Paul, a father of four and business development manager, to explore the emotional patterns that quietly shaped his relationships, self-worth, and identity for decades. After the breakdown of a 12-year relationship and nearly a decade of marriage, Paul found himself questioning everything. His value. His attractiveness. His masculinity. His ability to connect with others. He became trapped in a cycle of overthinking, self-criticism, and emotional paralysis. Every interaction was analysed. Every mistake was magnified. Every insecurity felt like proof that something was wrong with him. What makes this conversation powerful is the honesty behind it. How deeply he internalised criticism. How much of his self-worth depended on external validation. How years of overthinking kept him disconnected from himself and others. Rather than becoming bitter after divorce, Paul chose a different path. He confronted uncomfortable truths. Examined the stories he had built his identity around. And learned how to stop measuring his worth through other people's approval. David and Paul explore: self-worth and validation in men overthinking and anxiety people-pleasing tendencies divorce and rebuilding identity masculinity beyond alpha-male culture dating after separation boundary setting and emotional resilience meditation, breathwork, and nervous system regulation learning to trust yourself This isn't about becoming a different person. It's about letting go of the stories that keep you stuck — and discovering who you are when you stop trying to earn your worth from everyone around you. RELATE: 👉🏽 Where modern men reclaim depth, direction, and relational leadership. Join Relate: https://relatewaitlist.carrd.co/ ____________________ ____________________ What To Do Next: 1️⃣ Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/ 2️⃣ Get specialised relationship and dating advice: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe 3️⃣ Go bag one of the resources below ____________________ ____________________ 🧨 RESOURCES 🧨 ✅ Modern dating feels impossible? It doesn't have to stay that way. The Men's Dating Accelerator, master the most important skills: https://www.theauthenticman.net/mda-landing-page-direct-update-v2 Check out these FREE resources: 👉🏽 5 mistakes in embodying healthy masculinity: https://mailchi.mp/theauthenticman/masculinity-mistakes-in-dating-giveaway 👉🏽 The Hidden Mistakes Men Make in Dating & Relationships: https://mailchi.mp/faaf98ceedd8/hiddenmistakes 👉🏽 30 Dating App Conversation Starters: https://www.theauthenticman.net/app-openers-landing-page 👉🏽 Why You Keep Pulling Away: https://www.theauthenticman.net/why-you-keep-pulling-away-page 👉🏽 Why you are REALLY fighting - https://mailchi.mp/theauthenticman/why-you-keep-fighting?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=video&utm_campaign=conflict-guide ____________________ Loving the podcast? Leave us a review… 📱Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/the-authentic-man-podcast-with-david-chambers/id1447910686?action=write-review Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/64n26CAX3FIhJj7aMR2CO6 LIKE. SHARE. SUBSCRIBE. Give this video a thumbs up if you enjoyed watching 👍 #relationship #dating #masculinity
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    45 min
  • Men's Mental Health: Why We Refuse Therapy (And What It's Costing You)

    Men's Mental Health: Why We Refuse Therapy (And What It's Costing You)
    May 20 2026

    Men's mental health is in crisis — and most men won't go to therapy until it's too late. In this episode of The Authentic Man Podcast, I sit down with Roy Graff — psychotherapist, relationship coach, and men's emotional health expert — to talk about why men avoid therapy, what that avoidance is actually costing them, and what getting help really looks like for men who want more from their relationships and themselves. Roy works at the intersection of masculinity, emotional suppression, intimacy, and authentic connection — and this conversation goes deep.

    Roy Graff is a psychotherapist, relationship coach, and educator focused on men's emotional health, intimacy, consent, polyamory, and authentic connection. His work explores how masculinity, emotional suppression, and relationship patterns affect mental health and human connection. He is also known for facilitating workshops on consent, play fighting, embodiment, and relational skills, helping people build deeper self-awareness, empathy, and healthier relationships.

    Key Topics:


    ⭐ Why Men Avoid Therapy
    ⭐ The Hidden Cost Of Performative Masculinity
    ⭐ How The Manosphere Exploits Male Insecurity
    ⭐ Therapy As A Tool For Self-Discovery
    ⭐ Why Patriarchy Hurts Men Too
    ⭐ Authentic Connection vs Transactional Relationships
    ⭐ Consent, Empathy & Emotional Intelligence
    ⭐ Why Men Struggle With Vulnerability
    ⭐ Pleasure, Presence & Emotional Repression
    ⭐ How Therapy Can Change Fatherhood & Future Generations

    Connect With David - The Authentic Man:

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/

    Website: https://www.theauthenticman.net/

    For Coaching: hello@theauthenticman.net

    Newsletter: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe

    Connect With Roy Graff:

    Roy's instagram : https://www.instagram.com/openrelating/

    https://www.instagram.com/playfightinguk
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    1 h et 10 min
  • He Cancelled His Wedding. Now He Has the Relationship of His Dreams... find out how.

    He Cancelled His Wedding. Now He Has the Relationship of His Dreams... find out how.
    May 17 2026
    Most men think their relationship problems come from choosing the wrong partner. So they tell themselves: "I just need someone easier." "She was too emotional." "We just weren't compatible." But eventually the same patterns return. The shutdown. The anxiety. The urge to pull away when intimacy gets real. In this episode, David sits down with Son to unpack the hidden patterns that were quietly sabotaging his relationships for years. From sexual performance anxiety… to conflict avoidance… to ending an engagement six months before the wedding… Son shares how he constantly found himself trapped between craving connection and wanting escape. Arguments felt threatening. Closeness felt overwhelming. So instead of communicating honestly, he became the "nice guy" — avoiding discomfort, people-pleasing, and slowly disconnecting emotionally. What makes this conversation powerful is the honesty behind it. How he blamed himself. How he secretly tried to "fix" relationships alone. How years of self-work still never touched the deeper emotional patterns underneath. David and Son explore: avoidant attachment in men conflict avoidance and emotional shutdown sexual shame and performance anxiety "nice guy" behaviourfear of intimacywhy men pull away in relationships learning to communicate honestly This isn't about becoming perfect in relationships. It's about understanding the patterns that keep sabotaging connection — and learning how to stay present instead of escaping when love becomes vulnerable. _______ RELATE: 👉🏽 Where modern men reclaim depth, direction, and relational leadership. Join Relate: https://forms.gle/7zt4LRYopWeRLVfZ9 ____________________ ____________________ What To Do Next: 1️⃣ Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/ 2️⃣ Work with me? Free 30 minute call: https://calendly.com/the-authentic-man/30-min-free-introductory-coaching-session?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=podcast 3️⃣ Get specialised relationship and dating advice: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe 4️⃣Go bag one of the resources below ____________________ ____________________ 🧨 RESOURCES 🧨 ✅ Modern dating feels impossible? It doesn't have to stay that way. The Men's Dating Accelerator, master the most important skills: https://www.theauthenticman.net/mda-landing-page-direct-update-v2 Check out these FREE resources: 👉🏽 5 mistakes in embodying healthy masculinity: https://mailchi.mp/theauthenticman/masculinity-mistakes-in-dating-giveaway 👉🏽 The Hidden Mistakes Men Make in Dating & Relationships: https://mailchi.mp/faaf98ceedd8/hiddenmistakes 👉🏽 30 Dating App Conversation Starters: https://www.theauthenticman.net/app-openers-landing-page 👉🏽 Why You Keep Pulling Away: https://www.theauthenticman.net/why-you-keep-pulling-away-page ____________________ Loving the podcast? Leave us a review… 📱Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/the-authentic-man-podcast-with-david-chambers/id1447910686?action=write-review Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/64n26CAX3FIhJj7aMR2CO6 LIKE. SHARE. SUBSCRIBE. Give this video a thumbs up if you enjoyed watching 👍 #relationship #men #masculinity
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    34 min
  • What Women Wish You Knew About Touch & Magnetic Flirting

    What Women Wish You Knew About Touch & Magnetic Flirting
    May 13 2026
    With a unique ability to think like a man and feel like a woman, Elizabeth Anneka's on a mission to help men connect deeply and meaningfully with women. As a touch connoisseur, she translates the subtle, subjective, and seemingly ever-changing desires of women into a tangible, specific system for men to follow. Elizabeth helps her clients look for specific cues in a woman's body, teaching them how to truly understand and respond to their partner's needs. Elizabeth empowers men to become incredible lovers and reach Sex God Status within 6 months, leading to happier, healthier relationships…and a lot of happy ladies! ;) With 1:1 packages and group programs available, visit www.howtotouchwomen.com to dive into a world of exceptional intimacy today. Key Topics: ⭐ Touch, Flirtation, And Intimacy As Learnable Arts ⭐ "The Bullseye Of The Body" And Why Men Rush The Center ⭐ Anticipation Versus Certainty In Sexual Dynamics ⭐ Reading A Woman's Breath As A Compass For Turn-On ⭐ Why Women Close When Men Move Too Fast ⭐ Flirting As "A Pamphlet" Of Your Energy And Life Force ⭐ Confidence Built Through Courage, Risk, And Self-Regard ⭐ The Difference Between Embodied Flirting And "Game" ⭐ Men Living In Their Heads Instead Of Their Bodies ⭐ Emotional Attunement As The Missing Layer Of Seduction ⭐ "A Woman Who Opens Herself To Sex" Versus Sex Alone ⭐ Presence, Playfulness, And The Power Of Responsive Touch Connect With David - The Authentic Man: ➡️ Join the Waitlist — Relate https://forms.gle/2AXhmyNweasETaso7 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/ Website: https://www.theauthenticman.net/ For Coaching: hello@theauthenticman.net Newsletter: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe Connect with Elizabeth Anneka: Website: https://www.howtotouchwomen.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kingsoftouch/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/elizabethanneka8 ____________ RELATE: 👉🏽 Where modern men reclaim depth, direction, and relational leadership. Join Relate: https://forms.gle/7zt4LRYopWeRLVfZ9 ____________________ ____________________ What To Do Next: 1️⃣ Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/ 2️⃣ Work with me? Free 30 minute call: https://calendly.com/the-authentic-man/30-min-free-introductory-coaching-session?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=podcast 3️⃣ Get specialised relationship and dating advice: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe 4️⃣Go bag one of the resources below ____________________ ____________________ 🧨 RESOURCES 🧨 ✅ Modern dating feels impossible? It doesn't have to stay that way. The Men's Dating Accelerator, master the most important skills: https://www.theauthenticman.net/mda-landing-page-direct-update-v2 Check out these FREE resources: 👉🏽 5 mistakes in embodying healthy masculinity: https://mailchi.mp/theauthenticman/masculinity-mistakes-in-dating-giveaway 👉🏽 The Hidden Mistakes Men Make in Dating & Relationships: https://mailchi.mp/faaf98ceedd8/hiddenmistakes 👉🏽 30 Dating App Conversation Starters: https://www.theauthenticman.net/app-openers-landing-page 👉🏽 Why You Keep Pulling Away: https://www.theauthenticman.net/why-you-keep-pulling-away-page ____________________ Loving the podcast? Leave us a review… 📱Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/the-authentic-man-podcast-with-david-chambers/id1447910686?action=write-review Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/64n26CAX3FIhJj7aMR2CO6 LIKE. SHARE. SUBSCRIBE. Give this video a thumbs up if you enjoyed watching 👍 #relationship #men #masculinity
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    1 h et 57 min
  • He's in the Healthiest Relationship of His Life. He Spent 15 Years Ending Every Good One

    He's in the Healthiest Relationship of His Life. He Spent 15 Years Ending Every Good One
    May 10 2026
    Most men think they keep sabotaging relationships because they're afraid of commitment. So they tell themselves: "I just haven't met the right person." "I'm better on my own." "I'm just not built for relationships." But deep down, something never fully settles. Because every time intimacy deepens… every time someone truly gets close… something inside them starts pulling away. Not because they don't care. But because closeness starts to feel emotionally overwhelming. In this episode, David sits down with Reuben Christian to unpack the deeper reality behind avoidant attachment, emotional withdrawal, and the painful cycle so many men silently repeat in relationships. Reuben shares how he spent years believing he was "broken" when it came to love. On the surface, he looked confident, social, successful, and deeply connected to people. But inside intimate relationships… he constantly felt trapped between wanting love and wanting escape. He explains how emotional intensity would trigger panic, overthinking, distancing, fault-finding, and eventually withdrawal—even in relationships that were loving and healthy. And the hardest part? He didn't understand why it kept happening. So like many men, he tried to think his way out of it. Books. Podcasts. Therapy. Relationship advice. But nothing fully changed the deeper pattern underneath. Because what looked like "commitment issues"… was actually a nervous system trying to protect him from emotional pain. In this conversation, David and Reuben explore how avoidant attachment develops, why men disconnect when relationships become emotionally real, and what actually begins to shift when men stop seeing themselves as broken. This isn't a conversation about becoming perfect in relationships. It's about learning how to stay present instead of disappearing when love becomes vulnerable. 📌 Topics Covered ✅ Why avoidant men pull away in relationships ✅ The hidden fear underneath "commitment issues" ✅ Why emotional closeness can feel unsafe ✅ The shame cycle many men secretly carry ✅ How overthinking sabotages intimacy ✅ Why conflict feels like proof the relationship is wrong ✅ The emotional disconnection behind casual dating patterns ✅ Why many men feel "broken" in love ✅ The nervous system patterns behind avoidance ✅ How men abandon themselves inside relationships ✅ Why self-protection can look like emotional withdrawal ✅ The deeper loneliness beneath avoidant attachment ✅ Why intellectual understanding alone doesn't heal avoidance ✅ How emotional safety changes relationship patterns ✅ What secure attachment actually looks like in real life ✅ The identity shift that changes everything for avoidant men If you've ever pulled away from someone you loved, struggled to stay emotionally present in relationships, or secretly wondered whether you're capable of real intimacy—this episode may help you understand what's actually happening beneath the surface. ______________ RELATE: 👉🏽 Where modern men reclaim depth, direction, and relational leadership. Join Relate: https://forms.gle/7zt4LRYopWeRLVfZ9 ____________________ ____________________ What To Do Next: 1️⃣ Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/ 2️⃣ Work with me? Free 30 minute call: https://calendly.com/the-authentic-man/30-min-free-introductory-coaching-session?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=podcast 3️⃣ Get specialised relationship and dating advice: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe 4️⃣Go bag one of the resources below ____________________ ____________________ 🧨 RESOURCES 🧨 ✅ Modern dating feels impossible? It doesn't have to stay that way. The Men's Dating Accelerator, master the most important skills: https://www.theauthenticman.net/mda-landing-page-direct-update-v2 Check out these FREE resources: 👉🏽 5 mistakes in embodying healthy masculinity: https://mailchi.mp/theauthenticman/masculinity-mistakes-in-dating-giveaway 👉🏽 The Hidden Mistakes Men Make in Dating & Relationships: https://mailchi.mp/faaf98ceedd8/hiddenmistakes 👉🏽 30 Dating App Conversation Starters: https://www.theauthenticman.net/app-openers-landing-page 👉🏽 Why You Keep Pulling Away: https://www.theauthenticman.net/why-you-keep-pulling-away-page ____________________ Loving the podcast? Leave us a review… 📱Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/the-authentic-man-podcast-with-david-chambers/id1447910686?action=write-review Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/64n26CAX3FIhJj7aMR2CO6 LIKE. SHARE. SUBSCRIBE. Give this video a thumbs up if you enjoyed watching 👍 #relationship #men #masculinity
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    40 min
  • Being a Man in Your Relationship, Not a Boy

    Being a Man in Your Relationship, Not a Boy
    May 6 2026
    Alessandro Frosali is a men's coach dedicated to helping men grow out of boy-like behaviours and step into mature masculinity. His work focuses on the everyday struggles men face in relationships, especially the cycle of criticism and defensiveness that slowly erodes respect between partners. Through coaching, retreats, and his Better Husband Academy, Alessandro teaches men how to take responsibility, handle emotional conflict, and become the kind of partner their wife can trust and respect. His approach blends practical psychology, rites of passage concepts, and honest conversations about what modern men were never taught about relationships. Alessandro believes many men want to be great husbands but were never shown how. His mission is to give men the tools, structure, and accountability to become the husbands, fathers, and leaders their families need. Key Topics: ⭐ The "Boy Behavior" Versus Manhood In Relationships ⭐ Why Men Blame Instead Of Taking Responsibility ⭐ Confusing Identity ("I Am A Man") With Behavior ⭐ Seeing Your Partner As A Mirror, Not The Enemy ⭐ Defensiveness As Protection From Shame And "Not Enough" ⭐ Why Women Lose Attraction When They Have To Mother You ⭐ Sex As Release vs Sex As Emotional Connection ⭐ How Avoiding Hard Conversations Kills Intimacy ⭐ Women Calling Men Forward (And Why It Feels Like Attack) ⭐ Listening To What's Under The Words ("The Thing Beneath The Thing") Connect With David - The Authentic Man: ➡️ Join the Waitlist — Relate https://forms.gle/2AXhmyNweasETaso7 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/ Website: https://www.theauthenticman.net/ For Coaching: hello@theauthenticman.net Newsletter: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe Connect with Alessandro Frosali Website: www.alessandrofrosali.com ___________ RELATE: 👉🏽 Where modern men reclaim depth, direction, and relational leadership. Join Relate: https://forms.gle/7zt4LRYopWeRLVfZ9 ____________________ ____________________ What To Do Next: 1️⃣ Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/ 2️⃣ Work with me? Free 30 minute call: https://calendly.com/the-authentic-man/30-min-free-introductory-coaching-session?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=podcast 3️⃣ Get specialised relationship and dating advice: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe 4️⃣Go bag one of the resources below ____________________ ____________________ 🧨 RESOURCES 🧨 ✅ Modern dating feels impossible? It doesn't have to stay that way. The Men's Dating Accelerator, master the most important skills: https://www.theauthenticman.net/mda-landing-page-direct-update-v2 Check out these FREE resources: 👉🏽 5 mistakes in embodying healthy masculinity: https://mailchi.mp/theauthenticman/masculinity-mistakes-in-dating-giveaway 👉🏽 The Hidden Mistakes Men Make in Dating & Relationships: https://mailchi.mp/faaf98ceedd8/hiddenmistakes 👉🏽 30 Dating App Conversation Starters: https://www.theauthenticman.net/app-openers-landing-page 👉🏽 Why You Keep Pulling Away: https://www.theauthenticman.net/why-you-keep-pulling-away-page ____________________ Loving the podcast? Leave us a review… 📱Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/the-authentic-man-podcast-with-david-chambers/id1447910686?action=write-review Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/64n26CAX3FIhJj7aMR2CO6 LIKE. SHARE. SUBSCRIBE. Give this video a thumbs up if you enjoyed watching 👍 #relationship #men #masculinity
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    1 h et 9 min