In this episode, I invite you into a day marked by repeated requests to leave the classroom and consider what may be unfolding beneath the surface. From nurse visits to water breaks to sharpened pencils that do not need sharpening, the pattern appears avoidant at first glance. Yet when we look more closely, we see how relief consistently follows escape, and how the body begins to associate exit with reduced demand. I explore how strengthening support at the point of task initiation can interrupt that cycle, shifting the source of relief from leaving to beginning. This episode offers educators and parents a nuanced framework for understanding work avoidance not as defiance, but as communication, and for responding with precision before the pattern solidifies.

About Amy

Amy Morales, M.Ed., HWC, is an educational consultant, special education advocate, and life coach devoted to advancing meaningful, sustainable change in education and human development.

She holds a Master of Education, is a Georgetown University–certified Health and Wellness Life Coach, and earned Executive Leadership certification from Cornell University. Amy is also a Trauma-Sensitive HeartMath® Certified Practitioner.

As a career-long educator with more than three decades of experience, Amy’s work has spanned classrooms and systems alike, including leadership roles across independent and public K–12 schools, nonprofit organizations, universities, and state educational agencies. Her contributions have earned recognition at local and national levels through awards, policy development, and board service — reflecting a career shaped by both lived experience in classrooms and leadership across educational systems.

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