I sit down with my teacher Ann Bradney, founder of Radical Aliveness, to talk about her ground-breaking work facilitating a two-year leadership training program in Israel that brings together Israeli Jews and Palestinians

Within this program, Ann leads deep process groups where participants learn to hold intense emotions, face painful truths, and stay connected across seemingly impossible divides.

The program began before October 7th—and even as terror broke out, leaders from both sides risked their lives to keep meeting. Amidst all the outrage and polarization we see in the media, this quiet, steady peace work has been happening behind the scenes, on the ground.

Ann shares bittersweet, heart-wrenching stories of what unfolds when people from vastly different worlds choose to meet in their differences, stay with the mess, and keep coming back to one another with the hope of creating a different future for generations to come.

We explore:

→The core principles of Radical Aliveness: Knowing I Don’t Know, Being Willing to be Changed, Honoring Multiple Perspectives, Welcoming Everything, Cultivating a Non-Shaming Heart, and Do No Harm/Do Your Part

→What it takes to hold real conflict without forcing resolution

→How a group that began before October 7th continues to meet across checkpoints, grief, and fear

→Why allowing difference—rather than sameness—creates the conditions for peace

This episode is about courage, humility, and the quiet miracle of people staying in the room when the world says they shouldn’t.

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Ayla Nereo “Seeds"

This isn’t a conversation about relational repair—we’re actually doing it in real time.

Kate (my best friend of 22+ years) and I hit some big ruptures this past month. We were in an intensive training together, then went straight into a retreat that I hosted at my house. We were both at our limit… and we hit three big triggers that needed to be resolved later.

In this episode, we work through repair for these recent ruptures:

→ When she missed her flight and I couldn’t show up how she needed

→ A trigger around money and unspoken expectations

→ A painful rupture at the end of a retreat day when we both needed totally different things

If you’ve ever felt afraid of conflict in your closest relationships, this one’s for you.

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Ayla Nereo “Seeds"

This is the other side of the story.

In this deeply honest follow-up to “Avoidant Men CAN Heal,” we hear from Brittany—somatic experiencing practitioner, attachment re-patterning guide, and James’s partner—about her lived experience navigating anxious attachment, rupture, and the long, disorienting path of healing.

We talk about what it felt like when James said “you’re not the one” in front of a room full of people, how heartbreak cracked her open, and what it really took to rebuild herself—body, mind, and spirit—after the breakup.

Brittany shares the tools that held her through the spiral, the rage and tenderness she had to reclaim, and how practicing devotion (not just processing) changed everything.

We explore:

→ The somatic reality of anxious attachment and what healing actually feels like

→ How to tell the difference between a boundary and an ultimatum

→ Why spiritual compatibility matters—and why it doesn’t mean sameness

→ What intimacy practice looks like now in her marriage to James

→ How relationship can become a sacred, daily path to presence

This conversation is a balm for anyone who’s ever clung to crumbs of connection, doubted their worth, or wondered if they’d ever feel safe in love again.

If you're healing, holding on, or learning how to let go—this one is for you.

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Song:

Ayla Nereo “Seeds"