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In this episode, I continue Part Two of our series on overcoming power struggles in marriage — and today I’m addressing one of the biggest issues I see derail strong, capable couples:

trying to change each other instead of honoring uniqueness.

Last week, I shared where couples must be unified if they want to lead together effectively. Today, we go deeper into where difference is not just allowed — it’s required.

God did not design marriage to produce sameness.

He designed it for multiplication through complementary strength.

In this conversation, I unpack how honoring personality, gifting, roles, and seasons is essential if couples want to stop competing, stop comparing, and start partnering from a place of authority and peace.

This Episode Is for You If:

• You and your spouse are both strong leaders but keep clashing
• You feel frustrated by differences in personality, pace, or priorities
• You’ve tried to “fix” your spouse instead of understanding them
• Comparison or competition has crept into your marriage
• You want a Kingdom framework for partnership, not control
• You desire a marriage that multiplies impact, not tension

KEY TAKEAWAYS

God Designed You Differently on Purpose

The very traits that attracted you to your spouse are often the same ones that later create friction. Personality differences are not flaws — they are intentional design meant to expand capacity and perspective.

There Must Be Room for Both of You

Power struggles arise when there isn’t enough space in the relationship for two whole people. Marriage requires capacity — the ability to hold different wiring, perspectives, and strengths without forcing sameness.

Marriage Is Interdependence, Not Independence

We are not meant to operate as two isolated individuals under one roof. Marriage is interdependence — honoring both individuality and unity at the same time.

Gifts Are Not for Competition — They Are for Stewardship

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