Welcome to Episode 460 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to be joined by Lianna Walden, who speaks to me about how men and couples can deepen intimacy and connection through embodiment, sexual energy work, and practical worship rituals.

In this conversation, Lianna and I explore the often-overlooked challenges men face in today’s evolving sexual landscape. We discuss her concept of “lingham activation”, a tantric-inspired approach to connecting with sexual energy through breathwork, embodiment, and intentional control. Lianna explains how many men have become disconnected from their bodies due to technology, stress, and societal conditioning.

Lianna Walden works in the intimate and sexual realm - guiding individuals and couples through deep, embodied transformation in their relationships, sexuality, and sense of self. With over 20 years of experience in transformation, relationship healing, and embodied leadership, she brings a multidimensional approach to personal growth and empowerment.

Her work is far from conventional. Lianna works outside the box - supporting sexual exploration, theexpression of taboo desires, and radical self-acceptance. She helps clients open to new ways of experiencing and expressing who they truly are - emotionally, erotically, and energetically.

In this episode, you will hear:

· Understanding The Concept Of Lingham Activation

· How Men Can Reconnect With Sexual Energy Through Breathwork

· Overcoming Disconnection Caused By Technology And Stress

· The Importance Of Embodiment In Deepening Intimacy

· Step-By-Step Ejaculation Control Practice For Men

· Using The “One To Ten” Scale To Build Awareness During Self-Pleasure

· Exploring The Million Dollar Point And Squeeze Technique

· The Power Of Practical Worship And Genital Adoration

· Creating Rituals And Shrines To Honor Sexual Connection

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Welcome to Episode 459 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to be joined by Matthew Bennett, who speaks to me about life as a porn creator, the realities of OnlyFans, and how kink skills can translate into everyday life and even the workplace.

In this conversation, Matthew opens up about his unexpected journey into adult content creation, sharing both the challenges and rewards of working on platforms like OnlyFans and JustForFans. We talk about how fetish and kink content often push against mainstream limitations, the misconceptions around creator earnings, and the importance of understanding consent and boundaries when producing explicit material.

English Leather Master (often known as ELM), also known to friends and family as Matthew, is an ICF (International Coach Federation) PCC-accredited life and executive coach and a BSCH (British Society of Clinical Hypnosis) registered hypnotherapist. He also trains individuals in both coaching and hypnosis. Matthew works extensively with LGBTQ+ and kinky communities around the world, supporting people in creating more fulfilling lives. His passion lies in helping others unlock the skills they already possess to enhance their chances of success and happiness across all areas of life.

In this episode, you will hear:

· Matthew’s Journey Into Porn Creation

· The Rise And Limitations Of OnlyFans

· Why Fetish Content Pushes Against Mainstream Rules

· Myths About How Much Money Creators Make

· The Pros And Cons Of Porn Consumption

· How Kinks Like Balloons And Car Pedals Find Their Audience

· The Difference Between Studio Porn And Creator Porn

· Why Communication Is Key To Being A Good Lover

· Using BDSM Consent Models In The Workplace

· Creating A Life Without Shame Around Sexuality

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Welcome to Episode 458 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to be joined by Sarah Intelligator, a divorce attorney and author who brings such a fascinating perspective on dating, relationships, and why so many marriages end the way they do.

Sarah shares how two decades in family law, and her own journey through divorce and remarriage, have shaped her perspective on why relationships break down. She has seen the same patterns repeat themselves in countless cases, and she is passionate about helping people understand those pitfalls before it’s too late.

Sarah Intelligator is a divorce attorney in Los Angeles, California. She earned a Juris Doctorate from Southwestern Law School. She graduated from UCLA, cum laude, with a Bachelor of Arts in English. Practicing Family Law since 2008, Sarah has also been a yoga instructor since 2000. She organically bridged her two worlds, coining the term: “Holistic Divorce and Family Law.” In helping others through their divorces, Sarah realised that she could help them avoid divorce altogether.

In this episode, you will hear:

· Common Patterns Behind Divorce

· The Importance Of Sexual Compatibility

· Resentment As A Hidden Relationship Killer

· How Children Shift Intimacy In Marriage

· Emotional Needs And The Roots Of Affairs

· Changing Old Dating Patterns

· Core Values Versus Shifting Needs

· The Trap Of Fairy Tale Expectations

· How Communication Protects Connection

· Choosing Partners From A Place Of Worth

Thank you to our sponsor WIFEY, the premiere adult entertainment platform that breaks down stigmas around modern relationships, and fosters an open, shame-free space to talk about love, trust, and sex.

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