This week Cody introduces Melissa to Kathryn Edwards (keds_economist), one of her favourite TikTok creators and a talented economist. They discuss her recent Substack newsletter "My Earnest Warning to Trad Wives".

Melissa and Cody dive into the nuances of spousal support, and bring in Kathryn's anecdotal wisdom having been raised by an mother who was a Family Law Attorney.

Both Melissa and Cody ultimately land with Keds that there's not point on pitting Trad Wives against Working Mothers but rather working together to ensure the entire system is working for all kinds of families.

Most clients will sort out their separation agreement and then wait about a year to sign and submit their divorce application. Melissa and Cody talk about the astounding changes they see in their clients after they've spent a year acclimating to their new way of life. A lot can change in a year.

In this episode of Separate Together Melissa and Cody discuss how they came to be friends and what motivates them to pave the way for a friendlier style of divorce. Melissa shares how her own divorce informed her view that a better way to separate is possible, and Cody dicusses how receiving a disability diagnosis for one of her children motivates her to guide families through times of acute stress and transition.

In this episode of Separate Together, Melissa and Cody explore the complexities of legal relationships within family law. They discuss the concept of interdependence, the legal implications of merging lives, and the importance of being mindful of the perils and benefits of relationships. The conversation also touches on the impact of parenthood on relationships and the need for conscious relating in modern society. Through personal anecdotes and professional insights, they emphasize the significance of understanding the legal framework surrounding family dynamics and the consequences of separation.

This episode of Separate Together explores the evolution of family law and the changing dynamics of divorce and separation over the past decade. The conversation delves into the perspectives of clients, particularly focusing on the shifting concerns of women and men in divorce proceedings, the emotional toll of litigation, and the emergence of modern family structures. Melissa and Cody how societal changes have influenced client empowerment and self-advocacy, as well as the complexities of navigating identity within family law.

In this episode of Separate Together, hosts Melissa Bourgeois and Cody Dub explore the intricacies of legal separation and divorce. They discuss the process of formalizing separation agreements, the role of affidavits, and the importance of child support and parenting orders. The conversation also contrasts the streamlined joint divorce process with the complexities of litigation, highlighting the emotional toll and challenges faced by individuals navigating the court system, especially those who choose to self-represent.