If following the rules never got you anywhere, this one’s for you. Today we’re burning the rule book and talking about why “being the good girl” keeps ambitious women stuck — and how to finally get what you actually want.

In this solo episode, I break down:

✨ Why doing everything “right” still leaves you unfulfilled

✨ How playing small becomes a survival strategy

✨ The real reason ambitious women delay their desires

✨ How to stop outsourcing permission and start self-advocating

✨ My story of asking for (and getting) $10K

✨ Why being misunderstood is the price of evolving

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You don’t hate your life. You built something that worked and now it feels a little tight.

In this episode of Selfishly Made, Melissa unpacks what it actually means when ambitious women feel restless, bored, or quietly dissatisfied even when nothing is “wrong.” This isn’t a crisis. It’s transition.

Melissa reflects on the life she spent years building, why peace can still come with boredom, and how outgrowing your old dreams is often the first sign of expansion — not failure.

This episode is for the woman who looks successful on paper but knows, deep down, she’s meant for more.

In this episode, we talk about:

• Why feeling “bored” doesn’t mean you’re ungrateful — it means you’re evolving
• How to stop calling it dissatisfaction and start naming it expansion
• The difference between a directional dream and a perfect plan
• Why clarity doesn’t come from thinking harder — it comes from movement
• How to set goals you’ll actually commit to without burning your life down
• Learning to honor the woman you’ve been while making room for who you’re becoming
  

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If you’re ready to build a life that’s selfish in the right ways and rich in every way, welcome.

In the very first episode of Selfishly Made, I’m sharing why this show exists, what ambitious women aren’t being told about success, and why choosing yourself publicly is one of the most uncomfortable — and profitable — decisions you’ll ever make. This episode is for the woman who looks successful on paper… but feels the pull toward something more.

In this episode, we talk about:

• Why choosing yourself publicly hits different than doing it in private
• The hidden emotional cost of success no one prepares women for
• Redefining “selfish” as strategy, not recklessness
• Being misunderstood — and even villainized — for choosing yourself
• Five lessons I learned after making a decision that changed my entire life You are not crazy for wanting more.

You don’t need permission to evolve. And this show is here to tell the truth, even when it’s uncomfortable.

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