In this episode, Nicole and I put some unpopular opinions to the test. From relationships and friendships to everyday life and AI, we each bring a few hot takes, rate them, and explain whether we agree, disagree, or think they're completely outrageous.

Some opinions had us on the same page, while others sparked a debate. Tune in and let us know—which takes would you rate a 10, and which ones deserve a 1?

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At some point, many of us stop trying new things—not because we don't want to, but because we've become uncomfortable with being beginners.

In this solo episode, I reflect on why we're so afraid to look inexperienced, make mistakes, or fail in front of other people. We talk about how pride, comparison, and the pressure to have everything figured out can quietly keep us from growing. Whether it's starting a new career, learning a new skill, or simply stepping outside your comfort zone, being "bad" at something is often the first step toward becoming great at it.

Growth isn't about getting everything right the first time—it's about being willing to start anyway.

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In this episode, Wezi & Nicole have an honest conversation about men's mental health and some of the challenges many men face but don't always talk about. From societal expectations and emotional vulnerability to the pressure to provide and appear strong, we explore how these experiences can shape the way men navigate life. This episode isn't about having all the answers, it's about creating space for an important conversation that doesn't happen nearly enough.

A thoughtful conversation about being human, seeking support, and creating space for men to be heard.

What do you think is the biggest challenge facing men's mental health today? Let us know in the comments.

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On this episode of Scary Hours, Wezi sit down with his little sister Nicole to talk about what it's actually like growing up with an older brother. From childhood memories and sibling fights to lessons learned and the roles we play in each other's lives, we unpack the good, the bad, and everything in between.

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The second part of our ICEMAN review is here! Following up on our first drop, we look into the R&B-focused “HABIBTI” and the more experimental approach taken on “MAID OF HONOR.”

This is one you don’t wanna miss, so tune in and turn the cameras off, please!

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The episode you’ve been waiting for is here! Drizzy Drake Rogers dropped the most highly anticipated album of the year, ICEMAN!

We had to share our thoughts on the project, the rollout, and everything in between. Three albums?! We had to split this review. Get cozy, and turn the cameras off, please!

Disclaimer: Our views and information may DEFINITELY have changed since recording this episode. Stay tuned for Part 2!

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Jae joins us for a conversation about passion, purpose, and what it really looks like to bet on yourself creatively. From becoming the first black actor to start as Gavroche in Les Misérables on London’s West End theatre as a child, to building platforms for emerging talent and working across music, film, and content creation, his journey has been anything but ordinary. Along the way, he’s collaborated with talents like Burna Boy, Mahalia, Fred Again, and Little Mix, and even helped drive the viral campaign behind the hit track 'Body' by Tion Wayne & Russ. A conversation about trusting your vision and seeing where it can take you.

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We are BACK with ANOTHER Scary Sit-Down! In this episode, we sit down with one of our favorite 30+ year old women and probably the only female lawyer we can trust, Katongo Bwalya! She unpacks her take on the current dating scene in Lusaka, the "state of the game," so to speak, and what her take is on being the "modern" woman. Tune in for a candid, witty, and honest conversation with our first female guest of our new season - turn the cameras off, please!

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