This Mash-Up episode revisits a foundational conversation from Black Single Mothers by Choice, updated with reflection and insight from parenting school-age children.

What does dating look like when you’re parenting with intention, protecting your peace, and honoring your identity as a Black Single Mother by Choice? In this mash-up episode, Aisha revisits candid conversations about love, boundaries, and self-worth—now informed by growth and hindsight.

This episode is for Black Single Mothers by Choice who are dating, considering dating, or redefining what partnership and fulfillment mean to them.

In this episode, Aisha:

• Explores the realities of dating as a Black SMC
• Discusses boundaries, safety, and emotional readiness
• Reflects on confidence, self-image, and honest communication
• Shares lessons about pacing, expectations, and discernment
• Reinforces the importance of self-care and community support

This episode affirms that dating doesn’t have to look like anyone else’s timeline—and that your worth is not up for negotiation.

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• (00:00:04) - Start to Finish Motherhood: Dating Now
• (00:05:28) - What I Was Looking For In A Donor
• (00:13:28) - On The Importance of Being An SMC
• (00:15:28) - Are You Single Mother Dating?
• (00:17:35) - Starting to Finish Motherhood With Aisha