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Are you living in a sexless marriage?

Sexual rejection is one of the most painful experiences a spouse can face. It destroys self-esteem, creates a "lonely" atmosphere in the home, and often leads to a cycle of pressure and withdrawal. But most of the advice out there—like "just communicate better" or "make a list"—doesn't actually work. Why? Because sexual frustration is rarely just about the sex itself.

In this deep dive, Dr. Joe Beam unpacks what actually drives desire and what erodes it. Whether you are the spouse feeling rejected or the one feeling pressured to perform, this conversation provides a roadmap to understanding the "why" behind the disconnect.

In this video, Dr. Joe discusses:

The 4 Root Causes: Is the issue Physical, Intellectual, Emotional, or Spiritual?

The "Universal vs. Specific" Test: How to determine if the problem is biological or rooted in the relationship.

The Arousal Myth: Why many women (and some men) don't feel "desire" until after the process starts.

Pornography & Affairs: A candid look at how sexual unfulfillment contributes to—but does not justify—betrayal.

The "Outside/Inside" Rule: How your daily interactions are sabotaging your intimacy.

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If your marriage has gone from "good" to "bad" and you’re terrified that you’ll be divorced in the next six months, you are not alone. Most people think it takes two to save a marriage—but at Marriage Helper, we’ve spent 30 years proving that one spouse can change the entire dynamic of a relationship.

In this video, Kimberly Beam Holmes breaks down the fundamental process that has helped thousands of couples—even those in "hopeless" situations—turn things around and build a dream life together.

In this video, you will learn:
The "Frantic" Trap: Why begging, pleading, and "acting crazy" (even if it’s out of love) actually pushes your spouse further away.

Symptoms vs. Root Causes: Why "quick fix" text messages don't work and why you need to "strengthen your core" instead of just treating the pain.

Pushes vs. Pulls: How to stop the behaviors that drive your spouse out the door and start the "dance" that pulls them back in.

The 7-Step Framework: A roadmap from total chaos to passionate intimacy.

The 7 Steps to Saving Your Marriage:
1. Calm Down: Moving from a frantic state to a place of peace.

2. Get Clarity: Identifying the real issues that have been simmering for years.

3. Stop Pushes & Start Pulls: Changing your "dance steps" to shift the dynamic.

4. Forgive & Reconcile: The internal work and the 5-step reconciliation process.

5. Build Back Trust: Restoring the foundation.

6. Reignite Passionate Intimacy: Moving past the "roommate" phase.

7. Create Your Dream Life Together: Designing a future you both love.

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