Has your marriage slowly drifted from deep connection to just managing life together? In this episode, discover how small, intentional steps can rebuild spiritual and emotional intimacy and invite God back to the center of your marriage.

Have you ever looked across the table at your spouse and realized you're sharing a house but not really sharing your hearts?

It doesn't happen overnight. There's no dramatic moment where you decide to stop connecting. It's the slow erosion of a thousand small choices, too tired to talk, defaulting to screens, replacing prayer with separate routines, letting logistics take over every conversation. Before you know it, you're functioning as co-managers of a household instead of two souls walking through life together.

In this episode, we look at the story of Gary and Barb Rosberg, a couple who had drifted into coexistence. The painful irony? Gary is a marriage counselor who spent his days helping other couples reconnect while his own marriage was running on autopilot. Instead of waiting for a crisis, they got honest with each other and began rebuilding with small, intentional steps, daily check-ins, praying together before bed, and scheduling time to talk without an agenda.

Through their story and Ecclesiastes 4:9–10, you'll see that God designed marriage to be more than proximity; it's meant to reflect His covenant love, deep, pursuing, and intentional. Reconnecting doesn't start with a vacation or a vow renewal. It starts with one honest conversation, praying together, and choosing your spouse over your schedule. And it's never too late to invite God back to the center.

BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU'LL DISCOVER:

1. Why the slow drift from intimacy to coexistence is so common, and so dangerous
2. How small, daily acts of turning toward each other can rebuild what years of busyness have eroded
3. Three simple practices you can start this week to reconnect spiritually and emotionally with your spouse

God designed marriage to reflect His love, deep, pursuing, and intentional. It doesn't coast, but it's never too late to rebuild.

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