Soul Doula Diaries: What No One Sees About Holding Sacred Space

Everyone loves the idea of a healer.
Of the “space holder.”
The calm one. The grounded one. The one people run to in crisis.

But what they don’t see?

The weight.
The cost.
The spiritual labor that never clocks out.

In this intimate episode, Gin cracks open the unseen reality of what it truly means to be a Soul Doula — someone who walks others through shadow, shame, grief, and transformation… while still tending to her own.

Inside this sacred share:

• The exhaustion that comes from holding what others won’t even name

• The emotional aftermath no one checks on

• The fine line between service and self-abandonment

• And the sacred burnout that can happen when you’re seen as strong, but rarely held yourself

This isn’t a how-to.
It’s a heart cry.
A truth offering for those doing sacred work in silence.

If you’ve ever felt like the one who holds it all together while quietly falling apart —
this one’s for you.

You are not alone.
Your work is seen.
And you deserve a sacred space, too.

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The Shadows Have Snacks: Why I Don’t Believe in “Getting Over It”

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We live in a world obsessed with “moving on.”
Get over it. Let it go. Raise your vibe.

But what if the parts you’re trying to move past are the very parts that still need to be witnessed?

In this raw and reverent episode, Gin dismantles the toxic narrative of “getting over it” — and offers a sacred reframe rooted in integration, not erasure.

You’ll hear:

• Why rushing emotional recovery often causes more harm than healing

• How true wholeness means befriending your shadows, not bypassing them

• What it really looks like to stay present with grief, rage, or pain — without becoming consumed by it

• And how the spaces you’re told to hide are often the portals to your greatest power

This episode is an invitation to stop abandoning the parts of yourself that are still healing — and to trust that you don’t need to be “over it” to be walking in power.

Because here?
The shadows have snacks.
And you’re allowed to take your time.

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Stop Trying to Fix Me
Sometimes the Pause Is the Medicine

Some people can't help themselves — they hear pain and immediately reach for a fix.
But here’s the truth:

Not everything broken needs a solution.
Some things just need to be witnessed.

In this episode, Gin serves up a fierce reminder for the fixers, helpers, and compulsive advice-givers of the world — and a holy invitation for the rest of us to reclaim the sacred art of presence.

You’ll hear:

• Why offering advice too soon can feel like abandonment

• How rushing to fix can actually rupture trust

• What it means to hold space without needing to control the outcome

• And why the most powerful healing often happens in the pause

If you've ever felt unseen because someone couldn’t sit in silence with your pain —
or if you’ve been the fixer trying to rescue instead of relate —
this one will land like a sacred mirror.

Sometimes silence is the salve.
Sometimes not fixing is the most loving thing we can do.
Because presence is medicine — and it doesn’t always come with a to-do list.

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