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What if the missing piece in ADHD parenting isn’t more structure, stricter consequences, or better behavior charts—but permission?

In this powerful, grounding conversation, I’m joined by ADHD-informed parent coach and educator Dana Crews to talk about what it really means to see ADHD in full permission—for our kids and ourselves.

Inspired by Dana’s work with CHADD, this episode explores how permission-based ADHD care helps parents move out of constant crisis mode and into something far more sustainable: connection, regulation, and trust.

We unpack:
– Why control-based parenting often increases meltdowns and power struggles in ADHD kids
– The difference between permissive parenting and permission-based care
– How nervous system regulation—not compliance—is the foundation of effective ADHD support
– What “letting go” actually looks like without sacrificing boundaries

This episode is part of the New Year, Less Chaos campaign—a series designed to help ADHD families reduce overwhelm, lower stress, and build rhythms that actually work in real life.

If you’re parenting a child with ADHD and feel exhausted by advice that sounds good but collapses under pressure, this conversation will feel like a deep exhale. 🎧

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