If you already know you’re stuck in a negative mindset and you’re tired of trying to fake your way into a better one, this episode gives you a tool that actually helps. I’m walking you through the exact method I use with my clients to start rewiring your mind, shifting your emotions, and taking real action, without toxic positivity or fake affirmations.

This is the framework that helped me get out of a constant negativity, self-judgment, and emotional reactivity.

I break down how your thoughts, emotions, and actions are all connected, and how to shift your internal patterns in a way that actually sticks.

Here’s what’s in this episode:

• Why telling yourself to “just stop being negative” never works
• What to do instead if you’re stuck in toxic negativity
• How thoughts, emotions, and actions reinforce each other
• What to focus on when you can’t change your external situation
• How to use my TEA Chart to map your current mindset and shift it
• Two client examples that show how a small mindset shift changes everything
• Why your brain will reject certain thoughts
• What to do when your emotions hit before your thoughts do

Want the free tool I use in this episode?
Download TEA Chart here.

It includes a full breakdown, real examples, and a blank version you can use for yourself.

This episode won’t fix your whole life, but it will show you how to start shifting the parts you actually have control over: your thoughts, your emotions, and your actions.

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