Kids can learn to carry the “boulders” of their feelings, build resilience, and make independent choices without parents taking over. As hard as it is to watch them struggle, sometimes the best support is simply listening and being present.

In this episode, Dr. Nanika Coor shares practical ways to hold space for kids facing challenges at school, with friends, or in social situations.

For more on this topic

• Download: Is my child resilient?
• Listen: Why let your child fail?
• Read: My son failed a test. Here’s how I helped him.

For a transcript and more resources, visit the episode page on Understood.org. We love hearing from our listeners! Email us at opportunitygap@understood.org.

Listen to Everyone Gets a Juice Box, a new podcast from Understood.org where host Jessica Shaw has honest talks with parents raising kids who learn and think differently.

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Homework can be a source of stress for kids and families, especially for those with learning and thinking differences. In this episode, assistant principal Julian Saavedra breaks down what homework is good for, when it can become overwhelming, and practical ways to support kids. From creating routines and communicating with teachers to leveraging IEPs and 504 plans, Julian shares strategies to make homework a positive, manageable part of learning and help kids build habits that stick.

For more on this topic

• Listen: Homework battles
• Read: FAQ about homework for kids
• Download: Homework contract for your child

For a transcript and more resources, visit the episode page on Understood.org. We love hearing from our listeners! Email us at opportunitygap@understood.org.

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Discover a new show on the Understood Podcast Network: Everyone Gets a Juice Box, hosted by Jessica Shaw!

This series explores the real challenges parents face raising neurodivergent kids — with honest conversations that balance frustration, humor, and small victories. In this episode, hear how one mom navigates unexpected struggles with her young daughter and the creative ways she finds solutions.

We love hearing from our listeners! Email us at opportunitygap@understood.org.

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As a parent advocate and mom, Danielle Ward has been in countless IEP meetings. She’s a wealth of knowledge on how to make the most of your time with the special education team.

From bringing supportive guests (including your child when appropriate) to decoding confusing assessments, Danielle and Julian share practical, clear steps to help you feel confident and prepared for your next IEP meeting.

For more on this topic:

• Explore: All about IEPs on Understood.org
• Listen: Understood Explains IEPs
• Read: IEP terms to know
• Listen: The ABCs of IEPS

For a transcript and more resources, visit the episode page on Understood.org. We love hearing from our listeners! Email us at opportunitygap@understood.org.

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We’re officially halfway through the school year. That makes this the perfect moment to pause and reset. In this solo episode, Julian shares why mid-year check-ins matter — and how families can use this “halftime” moment to reflect, adjust routines, and set meaningful goals.

Most importantly: Talk to your child, partner with teachers, and review those IEP goals!

For more on this topic:

• Download: IEP goal tracker
• Read: Questions to ask about your child’s IEP goals
• Listen: How to get over the “mid-year slump”
• Read: Questions you should ask your child about school

For a transcript and more resources, visit the episode page on Understood.org. We love hearing from our listeners! Email us at opportunitygap@understood.org.

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It seems like everyone has a phone in their hand these days, and kids are no exception. But increasingly, schools are starting to limit phones — or even ban them. What does that mean for students, teachers, and families?

In this episode, Julian chats with Dr. Julie Mayring, middle school director and psychologist at Bay Ridge Prep in Brooklyn, about her school’s nine-year phone ban. They discuss how it affects focus, mental health, friendships, and parent communication.

Dr. Mayring also shares tips on handling pushback, keeping kids safe, and making sure technology helps learning instead of getting in the way of it.

For more on this topic:

• Read: Accessibility and assistive technology for kids
• Read: Signs your child is ready for a cell phone
• Download: Cell phone “contract” for kids

For a transcript and more resources, visit the episode page on Understood.org. We love hearing from our listeners! Email us at opportunitygap@understood.org.

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In this episode, Julian breaks down “chronic absenteeism.” What is that, you ask?

As parents, you’re probably familiar with kids avoiding school. But when does a feeling turn into a pattern? And what can that tell us about a child’s school experience?

Julian will explain the difference between occasional sick days and ongoing patterns, what true school refusal really looks like, and what you can do about it.

For more on this topic:

• Listen: School refusal (when kids say “no”)
• Read: How to help kids cope with school refusal
• Download: Find out why your child doesn’t want to go to school

For a transcript and more resources, visit the episode page on Understood.org. We love hearing from our listeners! Email us at opportunitygap@understood.org.

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Many kids with ADHD also deal with anxiety. Together, this can end up looking like defiance, avoidance, or just acting out at school.

In this episode, we’re breaking down what’s really going on behind these behaviors. And we share practical ways that parents can support their kids — at home and at school — through clear communication, behavior plans, and strategies that actually work.

For more on this topic:

• Listen: How can you help an anxious child
• Read: 6 things I wish I’d known about my son’s anxiety
• Download: Anxiety tracker for kids

Timestamps:

(05:40) Why teachers misinterpret ADHD behavior as defiance

(10:30) Behavior is communication: Decoding what kids are really saying

(16:00) How behavior intervention plans (BIPs) support kids with ADHD

(22:30) Motivating kids: Rewards, buy-in, and real-world success

For a transcript and more resources, visit the episode page on Understood.org. We love hearing from our listeners! Email us at opportunitygap@understood.org.

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