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Mothers, Lies and DNA Surprises

Mothers, Lies and DNA Surprises

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Welcome, I’m Stacy, the host of Mothers, Lies & DNA Surprises podcast, where we will discuss our relationships with our mothers including how they were growing up, leading up to our discovery, during our discovery and since learning our truths.

We will have unfiltered conversations about our struggles with our mothers and dive into how we’ve uncovered who we are after her lies!

Thank you for being here, you are not alone!



I am an NPE, actually a double NPE, which means Not Parent Expected or Non Paternity Event. I found out that the man listed on my birth certificate isn’t my biological father, twice. For many of us we learn through at home DNA tests, others hear rumors of family secrets and confirm through a DNA test.

Within the community of DNA Surprises there are thousands of NPEs, Late Discovery Adoptees (LDAs) and Donor Conceived People (DCPs) learning their truths. The ongoing thing I hear is how many of us had struggles with our mothers most of our lives, while others had struggles since discovery. For a number of people learning our truths answered so many questions and for others it opened up so many wounds, unanswered questions or left them feeling so alone. After finding the large community of others who have gone through this the common struggle I hear from so many is the relationship with our mothers.

I wanted to create a space where we can share the struggles we have with our mothers, helping others to know they are not alone and supporting each other.

For some this is the first time they are sharing their stories and for others we’ve shared our stories but now are ready to discuss the relationships with our mothers more in depth.

Thank you for joining us and for supporting this community!

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    • Elizabeth's NPE Story
      Jan 6 2026

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      Hello, I’m Stacy, the host of Mothers, Lies and DNA Surprises Podcast. Thank you for being here. Today I am sharing Elizabeth’s story and our conversation!

      You will hear Elizabeth share how she always felt different and even asked “why am I so different”. Through my journey and I’m sure so many of us NPE’s have we hear so many times how different so many felt as children, these feelings are real, unexplainable and is proof that even as very young children we understand what I call the nature vs nurture maybe.

      Elizabeth’s story has an origin story that may be hard to hear for some as well as abuse, so here is a trigger warning for everyone. She shares in a very respectful way though.

      Elizabeth also shares how she is taking care of herself and what outlets she is using to help not only herself but also others. She is working on a long journey of writing her memoir and wanting to give back to the community.

      If you are looking for another great resource she is offering a free virtual post-holiday trauma-informed Yoga Nidra Sunday January 11th for the DNA surprise community. You can find and sign up for this free event on her website:

      VIPYoga-noco.com under the events page:

      https://www.vipyoga-noco.com/general-9

      Email: ekvipyoga@gmail.com

      Elizabeth's 3 part interview on DNA Surprises Podcast with Alexis Hourselt:

      https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/elizabeths-dna-surprise-part-1/id1598395367?i=1000708323476

      https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/elizabeths-dna-surprise-part-2/id1598395367?i=1000708323594

      https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/elizabeths-dna-surprise-part-3/id1598395367?i=1000706627656

      Thank you Elizabeth for your vulnerability, honesty and for sharing your story with us!


      Music is "Drown in your Lies" by NoxAwake via Pixabay

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      1 h et 39 min
    • Lily's Story-Host of the NPE Stories Podcast
      Dec 23 2025

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      Hello, I’m Stacy, the host of Mothers, Lies and DNA Surprises Podcast.

      Thank you for being here. Today I am sharing Lily’s story and our conversation!

      Lily is the host of the NPE Stories podcast and I am honored to have had this time with Lily!

      Lily’s honest conversation about what her relationship was like with her mother leading up to her discovery and how it has been since is something that hit home personally while also showing Lily’s strength, growth and how she used that to do better for herself and her family!

      Another thing that I found interesting was hearing Lily talk about not only the emotional toll this takes on us but also how our bodies feel, hold on to past emotions and continue to feel those traumas.

      Lily gives some great advice on taking care of your own mental health and wellbeing, and giving yourself permission to focus inward.

      If you haven’t already make sure you find and follow Lily’s podcast, NPE Stories. Lily will be sharing my conversation with her on her podcast this week also!

      Thank you Lily for your vulnerability, honesty and for sharing your story with us!


      Links to additional information regarding Lily's interviews as well as resources:

      Lily's Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/npe-stories/id1464478802

      NPE Stories - Lily's Story: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lilys-story/id1464478802?i=1000464979607

      The Secret In My DNA - Lily's Story: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/episode-11-a-sounding-board-lilys-story/id1545020186?i=1000550662444

      DNA Surprises - Lily's Story: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lilys-dna-surprise/id1598395367?i=1000632441313

      Everything's Relative with Eve Sturges - Lily's Story: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lily-wood-npe-stories-special-crossover-episode/id1459167540?i=1000500770908

      Missing Pieces - NPE Life - Lily is interviewed along with 3 other pillars within the community: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/4-pillars-4-women-answer-4-questions/id1621877452?i=1000565074218

      Missing Pieces - NPE Life - Lily interviews Don Anderson's wife and Don interviews Lily's Husband: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-spouses-speak/id1621877452?i=1000598569890

      The Reverend & The Reprobate: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dna-tests-family-trees-and-npe-stories-the-lily/id1525591938?i=1000568331336

      Email: npestories@gmail.com
      Instagram: npestories
      Facebook: NPE Stories
      Additional Facebook groups: Hiraeth Hope & Healing or Togetherness Heals-NPE Only

      Website: https://www.hiraethhopeandhealing.com/



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    • Rebecca's Story Part 2
      Dec 2 2025

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      Hello, I’m Stacy, the host of Mothers, Lies and DNA Surprises Podcast. Thank you for being here. Today I am sharing part two of Rebecca’s story and the rest of our conversation!

      As Rebecca’s story continues, she shares that first phone call with her raised father after he was told the truth about Rebecca’s paternity.

      Rebecca talks about getting her control back after conforming her whole life for her mother. How she decided to do better than her mother at any cost, she wants to be a better human. The one thing I thought while I listened to Rebecca talk about her interaction with her raised mother and father is that it is like standing up to a bully really. They are manipulators that we’ve always had in our lives.

      She will also share how therapy is invaluable. We talk about the grief of losing somebody that is still alive, which is very powerful to say that out loud.

      Those of us with our Mothers still alive ask ourselves “how will I feel when I get the call that my mother died? Each of us have to answer this question for ourselves, Rebecca has a great perspective on this.

      She wants others to know that you can come out the other side. That it’s ok to grieve the mother you never had.

      As a bonus you will hear one of her pups interject during our interview.

      Thank again Rebecca for sharing your story and for everyone who is here and knowing that we are not alone!


      If you would like to connect with Rebecca you can find her on Facebook at Rebecca Neale or you can email me at mothersliesanddnasurprises@gmail.com.


      Music is "Drown in your Lies" by NoxAwake via Pixabay

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      1 h et 4 min
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