You’re having the same fight on repeat, the sex feels obligatory (or nonexistent), and somehow you’re the one carrying the emotional weight of the whole relationship. You’re not broken—and you didn’t choose wrong. In this episode, we unpack why modern love feels like a sh*t show, how we got here, and what’s actually happening underneath the exhaustion.

Topics We Cover

Why modern relationships feel so hard

Feeling like you’re doing all the work in a relationship

Loss of intimacy and sex in long-term relationships

Why women feel like their partner’s mother

Emotional labor and resentment in relationships

Why desire fades after the honeymoon phase

Why love feels like work instead of connection

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