In this episode of the 2nd installment of "Friday Sports Talk", Cartwright and Bo dive deep into the evolving landscape of college football, particularly focusing on the impact of the transfer portal and NIL (Name, Image, Likeness) deals. They discuss how the transfer portal has changed the dynamics of college sports, with over 10,000 players entering it, and highlights the challenges many face in finding new opportunities. They reflect on the implications of this shift, noting a sense of disillusionment and entitlement among young athletes, and how the influx of money from NIL deals complicates the situation further. They emphasize the need for a balance between financial opportunities and the development of character and discipline in young athletes.

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Keywords: college football, transfer portal, NIL deals, sports culture, athlete development

Takeaways

The transfer portal has seen over 10,000 players enter, with many still searching for teams.
There's a growing sense of entitlement among young athletes regarding their opportunities.
The influx of money in college sports complicates the development of young athletes' character.

Sound bites

"The game is completely changed."
"It's nuts."
"We're teaching them that, one. And then two, we're flooding them with all this cash."

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Friday Sports Talk
01:04 The Transfer Portal Landscape
03:18 Disillusionment and Entitlement in Young Athletes
06:16 The Impact of NIL on Player Dynamics
10:32 Discipline and Culture in College Football
13:41 The Future of College Football and Its Challenges
19:34 Setting Athletes Up for Success or Failure
24:08 The Need for Change in College Sports

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MEN ARE FORGED is forging men in their 20s and 30s into great men. Discussing topics and addressing challenges that equip men to lead humbly and courageously. Through reflection and boldness, men will grow in life and leadership and ultimately, add value to others in their business, community, and family.

If you are an emerging leader in your organization who needs to build a foundation for faith and leadership...Go to cartwrightmorris.com or schedule a time to meet.

This episode dives into the critical role that life's reflection moments—often painful or humbling—play in shaping who we are. By understanding and embracing these inflection points, men can grow into better versions of themselves, both personally and spiritually. We explore the subtle but powerful lessons these moments offer and how to respond intentionally when faced with them.

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In this episode:

• The concept of forging moments and their importance in personal growth
• How men typically react to painful reflections and the third, healthier option
• Recognizing life's mirror moments, especially from loved ones
• The significance of receiving feedback eighty percent correctly and the dangers of distraction
• Specific stories from leadership and relationships that highlight humility’s role
• Practical ways to stay present and gather lessons when feeling embarrassed or challenged
• The hero's journey and the importance of failing forward in life
• How vulnerability and humility increase respect and influence
• Balancing growth, humility, and high standards in leadership
• Avoiding the trap of narcissism and constant blame in modern men

Timestamps:

• 00:00 – The importance of inflection points in a man's life
• 02:22 – How adversity molds character and the peace in trusting that process
• 03:54 – Responding to humility moments: blame, deflect, or learn
• 07:03 – Recognizing the impact of loved ones' feedback
• 10:08 – Building human connection beyond performance
• 14:54 – Real-life leadership lessons from humility and connection
• 20:21 – The importance of self-reflection in growth and leadership
• 25:20 – Developing people with both performance and character
• 32:23 – Recognizing and managing fight/flight responses during feedback
• 37:47 – Humility in everyday life: a story from Dax Shepard
• 44:21 – humility’s role in leadership and legacy

Resources & Links:

• The Hero’s Journey by Joseph Campbell
• Stephen Covey's 7 Habits of Highly Effective People
• Dax Shepard’s Podcast
• Dax's Story at a Nashville Restaurant

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MEN ARE FORGED is forging men in their 20s and 30s into great men. Discussing topics and addressing challenges that equip men to lead humbly and courageously. Through reflection and boldness, men will grow in life and leadership and ultimately, add value to others in their business, community, and family.

If you are an emerging leader in your organization who needs to build a foundation for faith and leadership...Go to cartwrightmorris.com or schedule a time to meet.

Embracing Present and Purpose in Your 20s and 30s: Insights on Growth, Gratitude, and Control

In this episode, Bo and Cartwright explore how men in their twenties and thirties grapple with control, purpose, and contentment. We uncover practical ways to stay present, shift perspectives, and embrace God's timing amid life's uncertainties.

Key Topics

• The importance of being present over chasing the next milestone
• How historical and biblical context inform our understanding of work and purpose
• Overcoming anxiety related to control and future expectations
• Developing gratitude as a discipline to foster fulfillment
• Recognizing the false promise that more success or possessions bring peace
• Building meaningful friendship through vulnerability and humility
• Practical tools like journaling and brain dumps to process emotions
• The role of community and mentorship in growth

Timestamps

00:00 - Setting the stage: Why focus on purpose, control, and presence
02:10 - Introducing the podcast and the conversation's heart
03:06 - Lessons from older generations: Success, failure, and wisdom
04:26 - Comparing past and present distractions and wisdom gained
05:26 - The myth that getting the next thing will bring peace
06:17 - Cultural and biblical insights on history and purpose
07:48 - How early American immigrant mindset shaped our work ethic
09:39 - The danger of future-focused living that misses the present
10:56 - Addressing the desire for achievement in singleness and marriage
12:19 - Practical steps: Practicing gratitude daily
13:16 - The benefit of being fully present and adding value
14:23 - The biblical example of Jesus’ presence amid chaos
15:56 - The regional scope of Christianity and its global implications
16:09 - Where these mindsets most show up today (career, family)
16:38 - The freeing reality: Control is limited, trusting God is key
17:34 - The importance of leaving results to God and practicing patience
19:01 - The pitfalls of success stories like Zuckerberg and Musk
20:06 - Common mistakes in dating: Focusing on image over character
21:27 - The enduring value of shared values and interests in relationships
22:22 - Simple actions for men to break free from cycle of dissatisfaction
23:47 - Embracing a holistic view of success and life balance
24:13 - Learning to stop, reflect, and be present with those around us
25:31 - Shifting from drive to adding value and practicing gratitude
26:10 - One major takeaway: Recognize the interconnectedness of your journey
27:19 - Reflection and thankfulness: Allowing time for God to direct your steps
28:39 - The power of journaling and brain dumping for clarity
29:40 - Gratitude in adversity: Recognizing God's hand in the prese

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MEN ARE FORGED is forging men in their 20s to embrace the struggles of life and work and build unshakeable foundations of faith, leadership, and purpose. Co-hosts Bo and Cartwright discuss real challenges — chaos at work, fatherhood, single life, identity, and spiritual growth — to help you become the man you are called to be.

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In this episode, Bo and Cartwright delve into the complexities of sacrifice in the lives of Christian men in their 20s and 30s. They explore the tension between personal ambitions and family responsibilities, the importance of humility, and the need for self-reflection. Through biblical examples and personal anecdotes, they emphasize the significance of understanding what sacrifices are truly beneficial and which may lead to self-destruction. The conversation encourages listeners to evaluate their lives, seek wise counsel, and prioritize their relationships with God, family, and community.

Takeaways

Sacrifice is a law that everyone must navigate.
Understanding the difference between good and bad sacrifices is crucial.
Men often sacrifice family time for career ambitions.
Ego can hinder personal growth and relationships.
Being present for family is more important than professional success.
Sacrificing time for self-reflection is essential for growth.
Biblical figures exemplify the importance of sacrifice.
Single men also face sacrifices in their journey.
Community support is vital for personal development.
Identifying what to sacrifice can lead to a more fulfilling life.

Sound bites

"Sacrifice your ego for humility."
"You have to be a safe place to fail."
"Good sacrifice vs. self-destruction."

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to the Podcast and Its Purpose
02:09 Understanding Sacrifice in Christian Life
08:02 Good vs. Bad Sacrifices: The Tension of Choices
13:51 The Impact of Sacrifice on Family and Relationships
20:00 Navigating Ego and Humility in Sacrifice
26:03 The Role of Sacrifice in Personal Growth
31:54 Sacrifice in the Context of Fatherhood
37:53 Biblical Examples of Sacrifice
44:03 Reflecting on Personal Sacrifices
50:05 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

Keywords

sacrifice, Christian men, family, relationships, personal growth, ego, humility, biblical examples, fatherhood, self-reflection

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MEN ARE FORGED is forging men in their 20s to embrace the struggles of life and work and build unshakeable foundations of faith, leadership, and purpose. Co-hosts Bo and Cartwright discuss real challenges — chaos at work, fatherhood, single life, identity, and spiritual growth — to help you become the man you are called to be.

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Bo and Cartwright delve into the dynamics of coaching and mentorship, exploring the impact of having a coach on personal and professional growth. They discuss the importance of humility, self-reflection, and the value of being in a supportive community. The conversation touches on the challenges faced by men in their 20s and 30s, including career struggles, addiction, and the quest for identity and purpose. Through personal anecdotes and insights, the hosts emphasize the transformative power of coaching and the significance of seeking guidance and support.

Keywords

coaching, mentorship, personal growth, professional development, humility, self-reflection, community support, career struggles, addiction, identity, purpose

Takeaways

• Coaching provides a supportive environment for personal growth.
• Humility and self-reflection are key to personal development.
• Community support is crucial for overcoming challenges.
• Career struggles are common among men in their 20s and 30s.
• Addiction often stems from a lack of purpose and direction.
• Identity and purpose are central themes in personal development.
• Coaching helps in balancing personal and professional life.
• Seeking guidance is a sign of strength, not weakness.
• Transformative change requires openness to feedback.
• Building a supportive network is essential for success.

Sound bites

Coaching provides a supportive environment. Humility is key to personal growth. Community support is crucial. Career struggles are common. Addiction stems from lack of purpose. Identity is central to development. Coaching balances personal and professional life. Guidance is a sign of strength. Transformative change needs feedback. Supportive networks are essential.

Chapters

• 00:00:03 Introduction to Coaching
• 00:01:55 The Role of Humility and Self-Reflection
• 00:03:15 Career Struggles and Identity
• 00:05:57 Addiction and Purpose
• 00:10:45 Building a Supportive Community
• 00:16:48 Transformative Power of Coaching

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MEN ARE FORGED is forging men in their 20s to embrace the struggles of life and work and build unshakeable foundations of faith, leadership, and purpose. Co-hosts Bo and Cartwright discuss real challenges — chaos at work, fatherhood, single life, identity, and spiritual growth — to help you become the man you are called to be.

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If you are a young professional man who needs to build a foundation for faith and leadership...Go to cartwrightmorris.com.

In this episode, Bo and Cartwright dive into a passionate discussion about the current state of college football, particularly focusing on Auburn's recent player departures and the mindset surrounding them. They reference a notable rant by Cole Cubelic, emphasizing the flawed obsession with individual players who have not significantly impacted the team's success. They highlight the changing landscape of college football, where success is increasingly tied to the maturity and cohesion of the team rather than just star recruits.

The conversation also touches on the cultural issues within Auburn's football program, suggesting that the university has historically struggled to maintain a winning mentality. Bo and Cartwright advocate for a shift in mindset among fans and the program itself, urging them to trust the current coaching staff and their approach to building a competitive team. They conclude by stressing the importance of prioritizing culture over talent, arguing that a strong foundation will ultimately lead to better performance on the field.

Listen to the Cole Cubelic rant on X: https://x.com/macandcube/status/2011090485155086384?s=20

Watch to the Full Episode of McElroy and Cubelic in the Morning: https://www.youtube.com/live/fofV_5Zm_yA?si=8QyexnvHCr9L8GOT

Auburn football, Cole Cubelic, college football culture, player mindset, team building, NIL impact, recruiting strategy, sports commentary, college football analysis

Takeaways

No player cripples a program when they leave.
We need to stop obsessing over individual players.
It's about building a culture, not just recruiting talent.
The landscape of college football has changed significantly.
Trust the coaching staff's vision for the program.

Sound bites

"That is a loser mindset to think, oh, he's leaving."
"It's about getting the most grown men and experience."
"We need to stop trying to be like them."

Chapters

00:00 The Cole Cubelic Rant: A Wake-Up Call for Auburn Fans
02:54 Shifting Mindsets: Moving Beyond Individual Players
06:07 The Changing Landscape of College Football
09:07 Building a Winning Culture vs. Relying on Talent
12:10 The Role of Coaching in Player Development
14:53 Auburn's Cultural Challenges and Future Directions
17:33 Conclusion: Embracing Change and Trusting the Process

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MEN ARE FORGED is forging men in their 20s to embrace the struggles of life and work and build unshakeable foundations of faith, leadership, and purpose. Co-hosts Bo and Cartwright discuss real challenges — chaos at work, fatherhood, single life, identity, and spiritual growth — to help you become the man you are called to be.

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If you are a young professional man who needs to build a foundation for faith and leadership...Go to cartwrightmorris.com.

In this episode, Bo and Cartwright explore the motivations of young Christian men, discussing the complexities of identity, ambition, and the quest for happiness. They delve into the four primary motivations—money, power, pleasure, and fame—and reflect on personal experiences that shape these motivations. The conversation emphasizes the importance of being present, the role of community, and the need for grace in navigating life's challenges. Ultimately, the hosts encourage listeners to evaluate their motivations and seek fulfillment beyond external validation.

Takeaways

Understanding what truly motivates us can lead to clarity.
Money, power, pleasure, and fame are common motivators.
External motivations often lead to emptiness.
Recognizing the influence of culture on our motivations is crucial.
Fatherhood brings new challenges to identity and motivation.
Happiness is often tied to our relationship with the Creator.
Being present in the moment is essential for fulfillment.
Ambition should not overshadow the importance of relationships.
Living in the tension of faith and life is a continuous journey.
Community and grace are vital for personal growth.

Sound bites

"Money, power, pleasure, and fame."
"What motivates you?"
"We all seek the same things."


Chapters

00:00 Introduction to the Journey of Young Christian Men
02:59 Understanding Core Motivations: Money, Power, Pleasure, and Fame
05:48 Personal Stories and Reflections on Motivation
09:12 The Role of Recognition and Identity in Motivation
12:07 Navigating the Challenges of Fatherhood and Identity
15:07 The Quest for Happiness and the Role of the Creator
17:55 The Importance of Being Present in Life
20:56 Finding the Right Motivations in Your 20s and 30s
23:57 The Tension Between Ambition and Contentment
27:07 Living in the Tension of Faith and Life
29:54 The Importance of Community and Grace
33:04 Conclusion: Embracing the Journey with Grace

Keywords

Christianity, motivation, young men, identity, happiness, fatherhood, community, grace, ambition, presence

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MEN ARE FORGED is forging men in their 20s to embrace the struggles of life and work and build unshakeable foundations of faith, leadership, and purpose. Co-hosts Bo and Cartwright discuss real challenges — chaos at work, fatherhood, single life, identity, and spiritual growth — to help you become the man you are called to be.

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If you are a young professional man who needs to build a foundation for faith and leadership...Go to cartwrightmorris.com.

Today on MEN ARE FORGED, Bo and Cartwright confront the restless pursuit of “the next thing” that defines so many men in their 20s and 30s. We unpack the lie that a higher salary, a better relationship, or the next external win will finally produce internal peace and fulfillment. This conversation challenges the belief that “once I make this much money, I’ll be set,” and exposes why those milestones rarely satisfy the way we expect. If you’ve ever felt driven yet still empty, successful yet unsettled, this episode speaks directly to the tension between ambition and contentment—and where true fulfillment is actually found.

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MEN ARE FORGED is forging men in their 20s to embrace the struggles of life and work and build unshakeable foundations of faith, leadership, and purpose. Co-hosts Bo and Cartwright discuss real challenges — chaos at work, fatherhood, single life, identity, and spiritual growth — to help you become the man you are called to be.

Send in a question to be answered on the pod!

If you are a young professional man who needs to build a foundation for faith and leadership...Go to cartwrightmorris.com.