Épisodes

  • Episode 118: Immigration, Empathy, and the Truth About the American Dream
    Jan 14 2026

    This week, Heidy De La Cruz shares her journey into podcasting and the inspiration behind her show, 'The American Dream in the Eyes of Immigrants.' Heidy discusses the importance of storytelling in understanding the immigrant experience, the challenges faced by those navigating the immigration system, and the emotional impact of sharing these stories. She also highlights her coaching method for aspiring podcasters and emphasizes the need for curiosity and compassion.

    Heidy De La Cruz (she/her) is a podcaster, speaker, and podcast launch coach. Heidy is the host of the two-time award-winning podcast "The American Dream in the Eyes of Immigrants," where immigrants share their journey of coming to the United States.

    Connect with Heidy

    @ heidy.delacruz13 on Instagram

    https://heidydelacruz.com

    Upcoming Projects/Promotions

    Heidy is a podcast launch coach - if anyone is interested in starting their own podcast, she has a 6-week program called, The V.O.I.C.E. Method.

    Let's Connect!

    • Email: thatsexeducator@gmail.com
    • Instagram: @that_sex_educator
    • Website: thatsexeducator.com

    Keywords

    podcasting, immigration, American Dream, storytelling, podcast coaching, immigrant stories, cultural exchange, empathy, community, curiosity

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    1 h et 2 min
  • Episode 117: A Different Kind of New Year: Reflection Over Resolutions
    Jan 8 2026

    This week, I discuss the shift from traditional New Year's resolutions to a focus on reflection and intention for the year 2026. I emphasize the importance of checking in with oneself, understanding sexual and reproductive rights, and the role of education in advocacy. The conversation explores how pleasure can be integrated into self-care and resistance, encouraging listeners to engage in personal and community advocacy while setting intentions for growth and connection.

    Get your FREE 2026 Pleasure & Advocacy Reset Inventory HERE.

    Let's Connect!

    • Email: thatsexeducator@gmail.com
    • Instagram: @that_sex_educator
    • Website: thatsexeducator.com

    Keywords

    New Year, intentions, reflection, sexual health, advocacy, pleasure, education, reproductive rights, self-care, community care

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    18 min
  • Episode 116: Sex Ed, Reimagined: Where Pleasure Gets to Exist
    Dec 17 2025

    This week, Krista and I explore the importance of sex education as a means to remove shame associated with seeking pleasure and happiness in life. We hope to challenge societal norms that impose limits on pleasure, advocating for a more open and accepting perspective.

    Krista White (she/her) is a multi-genre writer and the founder of Kiki For The Future, a sex ed app and website that curates free sex ed resources for the LGBTQIA+ community. All of her work centers around pleasure, liberation, and joy.

    Connect with Krista

    @ kikitheapp

    Website: kikitheapp.com

    Upcoming Projects/Promotions

    Please dm Krista if you are a student and/or Black trans person who would like to help grow our Patreon community in exchange for a free annual membership!

    Let's Connect!

    • Email: thatsexeducator@gmail.com
    • Instagram: @that_sex_educator
    • Website: thatsexeducator.com

    Keywords

    sex education, pleasure, happiness, shame, well-being, LGBTQ

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    34 min
  • Episode 115: Kink, Clarity, and the Magic of Saying Exactly What You Need
    Dec 10 2025

    This week, Lilithfoxx discusses the significance of communication and consent in kink, particularly for neurodivergent individuals. She emphasizes that kink allows for explicit discussions about roles and consent, which can be beneficial for those who struggle with social cues in other contexts.

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    Lilithfoxx is a queer, neurodivergent Board-certified sexologist and CSE exploring kink, identity, and inclusion through pleasure-focused, stigma-free education. Her work has been featured in Cosmopolitan, Men’s Health, HuffPost, and more.

    Connect with Lilith

    @ TheLilithFoxx on Instagram, Facebook, and Bluesky

    Website: LilithFoxx.com

    Upcoming Projects/Promotions

    Check out her shop at shop.lilithfoxx.com for lifetime access to classes and resources

    Let's Connect!

    • Email: thatsexeducator@gmail.com
    • Instagram: @that_sex_educator
    • Website: thatsexeducator.com

    Keywords

    kink, communication, consent, neurodivergent, social cues, roles, explicit discussion

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    37 min
  • Episode 114: What to Know Before You Ho, Ho, Ho: The Ultimate Holiday Sexual Health Guide
    Dec 4 2025

    In this week’s episode, I discuss the complexities of sexual health and wellness during the holiday season. I explore the emotional challenges that arise, the dynamics of casual hookups, and the importance of maintaining intimacy in relationships. I also provide practical tips for navigating political conversations at family gatherings, engaging in advocacy, and setting boundaries to protect one's emotional and sexual well-being. The episode emphasizes the right to pleasure and the importance of community care during the holidays.

    The Sexy Season Survival Guide

    Music

    Hip Hop Christmas by Twin Musicom is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution 4.0 license. https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/

    Artist: http://www.twinmusicom.org/

    Let's Connect!

    • Email: thatsexeducator@gmail.com
    • Instagram: @that_sex_educator
    • Website: thatsexeducator.com

    Keywords

    holiday sexual health, casual hookups, emotional wellness, advocacy, boundaries, family gatherings, sexual wellness, LGBTQ rights, reproductive justice, holiday stress

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    19 min
  • Episode 113: Puff, Puff… Pleasure?!
    Nov 26 2025

    This week, my guest Ashley Manta, delves into the intriguing relationship between THC and sexual experiences, particularly orgasms. The discussion emphasizes the importance of open conversations about sexual wellness and the revelations that can arise from such explorations.

    Ashley Manta is a certified sexologist and an award winning sex and relationship coach. She is the author of The CBD Solution: Sex and speaks at conferences, resorts, and events around the world.

    Connect with Ashley

    @ CannaSexual on IG

    Website: www.ashleymanta.com

    Upcoming Projects/Promotions

    Relaunched Art of Dirty Talk course: https://store.elevatedintimacy.com/dirty-talk/

    Let's Connect!

    • Email: thatsexeducator@gmail.com
    • Instagram: @that_sex_educator
    • Website: thatsexeducator.com

    Keywords

    THC, orgasms, intimacy, podcast, cannabis, sexual wellness, sisterhood, revelations

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    46 min
  • Episode 112: Down South & Turned On
    Nov 19 2025

    This week, Marla Renee Stewart, a sexuality educator and sex coach, shares her journey into the field of sexual health and education. She discusses the challenges of sex education in the South, the importance of vulnerability in coaching, and introduces the concept of seduction learning styles. Marla emphasizes the need for curiosity and exploration in sexual experiences, providing valuable insights for listeners seeking to enhance their understanding of sexuality and intimacy.

    Marla Renee Stewart, MA, CSE (she/her) is an award-winning sexologist, author, and sexual strategist who runs her own sexuality education company, Velvet Lips, and is also a Co-Founder of the Sex Down South Conference. She has studied human sexuality for more than 22 years and has given over 1000 workshops all over the world. She also has been featured on a variety of media outlets, including Netflix’s Trigger Warning with Killer Mike and Love & HipHop Atlanta. She co-wrote her first book, The Ultimate Guide to Seduction & Foreplay with Dr. Jessica O’Reilly, which debuted in April 2020 and co-edited An Intersectional Approach to Sex Therapy in 2021.

    Connect with Marla

    @ velvetlipssxed

    @ 1marlastewart

    @ sdscon

    Upcoming Projects/Promotions

    50% virtual on demand classes for the month of November

    Sex Down South Conference early bird tickets

    Let's Connect!

    • Email: thatsexeducator@gmail.com
    • Instagram: @that_sex_educator
    • Website: thatsexeducator.com

    Keywords

    sexuality education, sex coaching, seduction learning styles, vulnerability, sexual health, sex education in the South, intimacy, sexual exploration, compatibility, sexual pleasure

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    35 min
  • Episode 111: The Pill, the Patriarchy, and My Peace of Mind
    Nov 12 2025

    It's Thanks, Birth Control Day! The conversation delves into the complex history of birth control, highlighting its ties to the eugenics movement and the systemic injustices faced by marginalized communities. It emphasizes the importance of acknowledging this history while advocating for reproductive justice and freedom, ensuring that all individuals can make choices about their bodies safely and with dignity.

    Let's Connect!

    • Email: thatsexeducator@gmail.com
    • Instagram: @that_sex_educator
    • Website: thatsexeducator.com

    Keywords

    birth control, reproductive justice, eugenics, history, consent Planned Parenthood, sterilization, reproductive freedom

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    9 min