If my desire is low, it doesn’t mean I’m not capable of desire.

There are many reasons that all humans have low desire from time to time!

Such as
• Disconnect from partner
• Disconnect from self
• Scripted sex routines get old
• Illness
• Emotional distress
• Lack of safety
• Going too fast to feel anything
• Lack of confidence
• Over-giving
• Fear of judgment / shame

Every female I’ve gotten to know has desire. … Lots of desire!

In this episode, I share some options for stoking that desire.

I also share about the female erection, and how this little-understood bodily function plays into the myth that females have low desire.

As a culture, we have an opportunity to re-write our stories. ❤️

Women have lots of sexual desire! All of us have the full capacity to enjoy healthy, loving, sexual experiences whether solo or partnered. When one of us has questions, we make the space to stop and focus on what might enhance and improve our sexual interactions.

Everyone’s desire, pleasure, and play matters!

Let’s create a more sexually healthy culture together.

Let's go deeper! River Roaring is an experienced erotic life-force coach, surrogate partner, and touch workshop facilitator, providing safe and confidential space for erotic awareness. Learn more at riverroaring.com ❤️

One half of our population is unable to move their body freely and naturally, and unable to have certain feelings or thoughts, during about 99% of their waking hours.

Then when, and only when, society has determined “it’s time”, that otherwise-forbidden body part is supposed to stand happily at attention “rock hard” until … usually until someone else is satisfied.

If the body part moves when it is not supposed to (99% of the time), the person will be sexually shamed, if not accused of a crime.

If the body part does not stand tall when “it’s time” - the person will be referred to the medical industrial complex for pills, potions, pumps, surgeries, and of course … mental health counseling.

In this episode, I discuss how boner shame affects us all. Deeply.

Yet no one’s even talking about it.

Listen and, even if you decide not to participate in the Boner Pride parade we want to have someday 🥰, perhaps you will consider ways that you might support a more healthy, natural, and accepting environment among your friends, family, children, and loved ones.

Let's go deeper! River Roaring is an experienced erotic life-force coach, surrogate partner, and touch workshop facilitator, providing safe and confidential space for erotic awareness. Learn more at riverroaring.com ❤️

When most folks say "A.I" or "artificial intelligence" these days they mean Chat GPT or a similar system. This kind of AI is what this podcast is about. A computer application that can scan voluminous data sets almost instantly, and then share it's answer to our query in our language as if it were speaking to us. These systems, which are limited by (1) which data they have access to and (2) the biases of their creators (and are unable to have an original idea) are sort of like Encyclopedia 3.0. I use them as I would an encyclopedia - double-checking any important informaiton they give me, and always aware of the biases of the source.

Studies have shown that when we use these AI systems to do our creative work, we almost instantly decrease our brain's creative capacity. Likewise, I believe that turning to AI for emotional support decreases our ability to connect emotionaly with other humans. In this episode I share my concerns about how we humans might be harming ourselves with AI in three specific ways:

- when we allow AI to do our creative work,
- when we rely on AI for emotional support, and
- when we allow AI to define who we are in the world.

How do you see these tools? Do you share any of these concerns? ... I don't hear it spoken about much so let's talk about it with our friends and family, and keep the conversation alive. 🥰

Let's go deeper! River Roaring is an experienced erotic life-force coach, surrogate partner, and touch workshop facilitator, providing safe and confidential space for erotic awareness. Learn more at riverroaring.com ❤️

Claim your rightful place as a creator and create the future with me!

In this episode I share my own dream for our future which includes unconditional love, individual sovereignty, internal healing, feeling it all, compassionate connection, balanced masculine and feminine sexual energy (sexual sovereignty), exalting our children, and honoring all beings. Control and possession dynamics, such as war and hoarding, simply fall away. And most importantly, in my dream ... no soul is left behind.

We are not here to be bound by the past. We're here to imagine things that do not exist today.

What is your wild-and-beautiful dream for our future together? Let us know in the comments, or send me a message through my site.

And Happy 2026 my darling! 🎉

Let's go deeper. River Roaring is an experienced erotic life-force coach, surrogate partner, and touch workshop facilitator, providing safe and confidential space for erotic awareness. Learn more at riverroaring.com ❤️

Happy Holydays! 🕊️ In this podcast, I share my #1 tip for your holiday leisure time - Arousal + Relaxation.

There are so many aspects of life that are only possible when our nervous systems are relaxed. When we feel safe. Only when our bodies are relaxed can we access all of our physical sensations, our learning, growing, our creating. That means if we are not relaxed, these things are inaccessable to us.

Nowhere is this more true than in the intensity of our sexual experience. They are precious moments when we can remain deeply relaxed while ramping pleasure up to high levels as well. In that space we have the capacity to cultivate, create, grow, sense, and balance the sexual energies in our body.

Enjoy listening, and then enjoy experimenting! 💦 May you have a magic solstice season.🌲

Let's go deeper! Join me for the Weekend Workshop with River Roaring in person in Austin, Texas - the ATX. Click on Weekend Workshop on my site for details, short video reviews, and registration. Learn more about River here riverroaring.com ❤️

A sexual energy cultivation checklist! Just in time for the holidays. ☃️

Whether you are solo or partnered, here is a quick checklist that I hope serves you sell. Of course, all of this optional, and shared with you so that you can pick-and-choose and create your own special blend!

We cover things like exquisite presence, relaxed safe space. quieting the mind and entering liminal space, deep relaxed breath, visuals like flowers and other adornment, smells, tastes, sexy sound, sanctity and the sacred. sweet words, experiencing the physical sensations of touch, raising bliss inside relaxation, riding the waves of arousal, cooling instead of exploding, trying something new. And for a big bonus ... holiday themes! (Whether those come through as fantasy, teasing, role play, or ... something hitherto unfathomable! 😇)

Remember! Your sexual energy is the most powerful life force within your being. Include your body and your sexuality in your spiritual practice. Include spirituality in your sexual practice. Balance your animal and your spirit essence. ... See if you can experience unity with all that is! 🍄🌈☀️

Let's go deeper! Join me for the Weekend Workshop with River Roaring in person in Austin, Texas - yes, the ATX. Click on Weekend Workshop on my site for details, short video reviews, and registration. Learn more about River here riverroaring.com ❤️

In this episode I share my personal journey of the heart. More beautiful and fascinating to me than a trip around the world, the long journey from the mind down to the heart. I talk about dreaming reality, opening my heart, unconditional love, the multidimensional aspects of heart opening, and sacred feminine leadership. I also discuss the bully adaptation, harm and pain. Join me for the inside story of how I've been opening my heart for the holidays this year. 🎄💗🏂🏽

Let's meet in person! Join me for a fun Friday evening event, an epic weekend workshop, or a private 1:1 program at riverroaring.com 🧚🏽‍♀️

Does it seem to you that there's some kind of divide that's keeping people from connecting across belief systems right now?

Many are baffled. The other side doesn't seem to be making sense. Even close loved ones find it hard to keep loving one another as they seem to drift apart. Sometimes it's like the two sides simply can not hear one another at all. The inability to connect is painful for everyone.

What's going on? Why does this divide seem to be growing? 🌈

What if we live in two different worlds that are going to continue to separate from one another? Some say the end of our space time continuum ... the end of time ... is underway.

And you have choice. You have free will to choose which direction you flow.

Let me know your thoughts, feelings, reflections! ❤️

Learn more at riverroaring.com ❤️