What happens when our worth gets tangled in achievement, silence, or being liked?

In Part 2 of our deep dive into people pleasing, we continue unpacking the survival stories that shaped us—and the healing paths that can set us free. Through three powerful fictional case studies, we explore the tender, often invisible wounds beneath the pattern.

🌟 Case 3: Maya – The overachiever who was praised for performance, not presence. Can she learn that rest doesn't make her invisible?

🌧️ Case 4: Nicole – The composed perfectionist who swallowed emotion to survive. What happens when she starts feeling everything she’s buried?

🌀 Case 5: Diego – The shape-shifter who masked his truth to be accepted. Can he reclaim his joy, his voice, and his vibrant self?

Each story reveals how people-pleasing is never really about being “nice”—it’s about belonging.

Together, we reflect on:

✨ Core wounds around worthiness, identity, and expression

✨ Coaching questions that open the door to healing

✨ What it means to live from your whole self—not just your polished persona

Whether you see yourself in Maya’s hustle, Nicole’s composure, Diego’s camouflaging—or all three—this episode is a call to come home to your truth.

You don’t have to earn your worth. You already are more than enough.

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Why is it so hard to say no? Why do we give so much of ourselves away in the name of harmony, approval, or love?

In this eye-opening two-part episode, the Lifeing: Coast to Coast crew tackles a deeply rooted pattern many of us carry: people-pleasing. From over-functioning caregivers to conflict-avoidant peacemakers, we explore how this survival strategy—often formed in childhood—can quietly erode our sense of self, drain our energy, and distort our relationships.

In Part 1, Dr. Lovey, Heidi, and Moderator Miki walk through two fictionalized-but-familiar coaching case studies based on real-life client experiences. These stories reveal how the desire to be liked, needed, or seen as "easygoing" can mask deeper wounds—and how healing begins with reclaiming our voice, boundaries, and worth.

Meet the Cases:

Karen: A selfless mother who’s forgotten how to want for herself, trapped in the belief that she only matters when she’s needed.

Marcus: The “nice guy” who avoids conflict and gives without asking, until quiet resentment and disconnection set in.

Each story is paired with powerful coaching insights and reflection questions, inviting you to pause and ask:

-Where do I lose myself in the name of peace?

-What would change if I allowed myself to be fully seen and heard?

If you’ve ever felt stretched too thin, held back your truth, or feared being "too much"—this episode is for you. Tune in and take the first step toward shedding the pressure to please and embracing the courage to be real.

Stay tuned for Part 2, where we’ll explore more cases and strategies to rewrite the people-pleasing script.

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Did you know your brain doesn’t know the difference between a real experience and one you imagine? That means your thoughts can directly shape your emotions—if you know how to use them.

In this episode of Lifeing: Coast to Coast, Heidi, Dr. Lovey & Miki explore the science behind emotional regulation and introduce a powerful 3-step process to help you take back control of how you feel. Learn how to build your very own “Emotional Menu,” tap into past and future experiences, and train your brain to access emotions like confidence, peace, or joy—on command.

Whether you're navigating stress, seeking more emotional balance, or just curious about how your mind works, this episode is packed with tools to help you grow your emotional intelligence and reclaim your power.

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