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In this episode of Life With Grief, Barri Leiner Grant shares her experience of losing her mother suddenly to a brain aneurysm at age 27, and what it meant to grieve at a time when grief was rarely spoken about.

She opens up about becoming a motherless mother, seeking therapy during pregnancy, and learning how to carry loss without silencing it.

We explore spiritual and intuitive healing, including working with a shaman and medium, and how those experiences led her to create The Memory Circle, a space centered on continuing bonds and conscious grieving.

The conversation also turns to the long goodbye of dementia. Barri reflects on caring for her father, Neil, through years of memory loss alongside her siblings, the differences between sudden loss and cognitive decline, and how anticipatory grief shapes the caregiving journey.

This episode touches on:
✨ Sudden loss and brain aneurysm grief
✨ Becoming a mother after losing your own mother
✨ Continuing bonds and conscious grieving
✨ Spiritual healing and grief support
✨ Dementia, caregiving, and anticipatory grief
✨ Navigating mortality without living in fear

If you’re grieving a parent, navigating caregiving, or learning how to live fully while carrying loss, this conversation offers insight, validation, and practical ways to stay connected to those you love.

Connect with Barri:

• https://www.instagram.com/thememorycircle
• https://thememorycircle.com
• Permission Granted https://open.substack.com/pub/barri

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📖 Life Beyond Grief Substack: https://taraaccardo.substack.com/

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• Micro-Moments for Transformation: https://lossesbecomegains.com/transformation
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In this episode of Life With Grief, let's dig into the quiet desire many grievers feel after loss: the pull to completely reinvent themselves.

When someone we love dies, it doesn’t just change our circumstances... it changes our identity. Our priorities shift, our tolerance lowers, and what once felt meaningful may no longer fit. And wanting something new can bring guilt, confusion, and even pushback from others.

Let's explore why reinvention after grief is a deeply human response to loss, not a betrayal. I talk about the identity shifts that happen after loss, why friends and family may struggle with the “new you,” and how to navigate the guilt that can come with craving more alignment, depth, and intention in your life.

I also share gentle ways to begin this process without pressure: starting with curiosity, honoring your desires, and allowing change to unfold at your own pace.

If you’ve felt called toward a different version of yourself after loss, this conversation will remind you that you’re not wrong for evolving.

Episode referenced: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/191-5-life-changing-lessons-at-35-grief-growth-and/id1688812587?i=1000747688577

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📖 Life Beyond Grief Substack: https://taraaccardo.substack.com/

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• Micro-Moments for Transformation: https://lossesbecomegains.com/transformation
• 14-Day Relief in Your Grief Challenge: https://lossesbecomegains.com/relief-in-grief
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In this episode of Life With Grief, I sit down with Nina Rodriguez to talk about sibling grief after the sudden death of her only brother, Yosef, who died from fentanyl poisoning on September 11, 2019—just one day after his 32nd birthday.

Nina shares what it means to grieve as a sibling, why bereaved siblings are often the “forgotten mourners,” and how the loss of a brother or sister can deeply impact identity, birth order, and family dynamics.

Together, we explore the complex layers of grief after addiction-related death, including stigma, shame, anger, and the painful reality of intrusive questions about cause of death.

We talk about:
✨ Sibling grief and the experience of being a “forgotten mourner”
✨ Losing an only sibling and the identity shift that follows
✨ Addiction, recovery, and fentanyl poisoning
✨ Navigating stigma and intrusive questions after a drug-related death
✨ Supporting grieving parents while grieving yourself
✨ Parentification and complicated family roles
✨ Grieving legacy and the end of a family line
✨ Continuing bonds and staying connected after loss
✨ Spiritual curiosity, near-death experiences, and meaning-making after grief
✨ Finding purpose after loss and redefining what it means to “walk each other home”

If you’re grieving the death of a sibling, navigating loss due to addiction, or trying to make sense of who you are after loss, this conversation will remind you that your grief matters—and you are not alone.

Connect with Nina:

• https://www.griefandlight.com/
• https://griefandlight.substack.com/
• https://www.instagram.com/griefandlight

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📖 Life Beyond Grief Substack: https://taraaccardo.substack.com/

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• 14-Day Relief in Your Grief Challenge: https://lossesbecomegains.com/relief-in-grief
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Grief and life transitions often bring emotions that feel confusing, complicated, and sometimes even contradictory. One of the most common experiences people face after loss is feeling genuinely happy for someone they love, while simultaneously feeling sadness, longing, or grief for themselves. Can you relate to this?

If you’ve ever celebrated someone else’s milestone while quietly mourning what feels missing in your own life, you are not alone.

Let's talk about:
✨ Why it’s normal to feel happy for others while feeling sad for yourself
✨ How grief increases emotional complexity and depth
✨ The role of comparison, timeline grief, and unmet expectations
✨ Why mixed emotions don't make you selfish, ungrateful, or unsupportive
✨ Gentle tools for processing emotional duality in a healthy way
✨ How to practice self-compassion while supporting others
✨ Ways to stay connected to your own healing and life path

You’ll learn how grief can expand emotional depth, why comparison and timeline grief can show up around other people’s milestones, and gentle ways to support yourself when happiness and heartbreak coexist.

This episode is for anyone who has struggled to celebrate others while navigating their own grief, loss, or life circumstances that feel tender or uncertain.

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📖 Life Beyond Grief Substack: https://taraaccardo.substack.com/

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In this episode of Life With Grief I sit down with Dr. Heather Taylor, a Licensed Psychologist and Grief Educator, for an honest and deeply human conversation about grief, sibling loss, and living with chronic illness.

Dr. Heather shares her personal story of losing her younger brother and navigating the often-overlooked experience of sibling grief. She opens up about her own struggles to find effective grief therapy, and how those gaps ultimately led her to pursue a career in psychology so she could offer the kind of grief-informed care she once needed herself.

We also talk about:
✨ Her diagnosis of postpartum cardiomyopathy.
✨ What it’s like to live with heart failure.
✨ An unexpected genetic discovery that deeply impacted her health and her family.
✨ The emotional, physical, and psychological layers of grief when it’s intertwined with chronic illness.

Throughout the episode she shares practical coping strategies for grief, including her STAY acronym, a grounding framework designed to help you stay present with grief rather than pushing it away or trying to “fix” it.

If you’re grieving a sibling, living with chronic illness, or searching for more compassionate and nuanced approaches to grief support, this conversation offers validation, insight, and gentle guidance for integrating grief into everyday life.

Connect with Dr. Taylor:

• www.griefisthenewnormal.com
• Follow on IG: @grief_is_the_new_normal
• Email: hello@griefisthenewnormal.com
• https://linktr.ee/griefisthenewnormal

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📖 Life Beyond Grief Substack: https://taraaccardo.substack.com/

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• Micro-Moments for Transformation: https://lossesbecomegains.com/transformation
• 14-Day Relief in Your Grief Challenge: https://lossesbecomegains.com/relief-in-grief
• Work with me one-on-one: https://lossesbecomegains.com/work-with-tara

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Grief doesn’t just change how you feel, it often changes your relationships, too. After losing someone you love (or after any loss, really), friendships, family dynamics, and romantic relationships can start to shift. You may feel misunderstood, unsupported, or emotionally unsafe sharing your grief. And for many grievers, this can feel like a secondary loss layered on top of the first.

Join me in talking about the very real experience of outgrowing relationships after loss, why it happens, and how to navigate the complicated emotions that can come with relationship changes during grief.

We chat about:
✨ Why grief naturally changes identity, emotional needs, and connection
✨ How loss can shift friendships, family relationships, and partnerships
✨ Signs you may be outgrowing a relationship after losing a loved one
✨ Why some people struggle to show up for grief in meaningful ways
✨ How to set compassionate, healthy boundaries while grieving
✨ Navigating the grief of losing or redefining relationships
✨ Finding safe, supportive connections while learning to live with loss

This episode is for you if:
💛 You feel misunderstood or unsupported in your grief
💛 Your relationships have changed after a loss
💛 You feel guilt or confusion about needing different support
💛 You’re navigating loneliness or identity shifts after loss
💛 You’re craving deeper, more emotionally safe connections

If you’ve ever felt alone in your grief, struggled with friends who don’t understand, or wondered why certain relationships feel different after loss, this conversation will help you feel seen and supported.

Support the podcast: https://buymeacoffee.com/lifewithgriefpodcast

📖 Life Beyond Grief Substack: https://taraaccardo.substack.com/

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• Micro-Moments for Transformation: https://lossesbecomegains.com/transformation
• 14-Day Relief in Your Grief Challenge: https://lossesbecomegains.com/relief-in-grief
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Grief doesn’t just break your heart, it literally changes who you are.

In this heartfelt 5-Minute Grief Talk (in honor of my 35th birthday!), I’m sharing a truth that so many grievers quietly wrestle with: the way loss reshapes your identity. The moment you realize you don’t feel like the same person anymore. The disorientation of trying to understand who you are now after everything you’ve lost.

We talk about:
❤️‍🩹 How grief changes your sense of self
❤️‍🩹Why wanting to “go back” is so common (and so painful)
❤️‍🩹 Grieving the person you were before loss
❤️‍🩹 The identity shift that happens after loving and losing deeply
❤️‍🩹 How to gently rebuild who you are—without rushing clarity

If you’ve been feeling disconnected from your old self, pressured to return to who you used to be, or stuck in that in-between space of becoming… this episode is for you.

Remember: grief didn’t erase you, it expanded you ✨

🎧 Listen, breathe, and let yourself meet the version of you that’s still unfolding. Be sure you're subscribed on YouTube so you don't miss more conversations like this!

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📖 Life Beyond Grief Substack: https://taraaccardo.substack.com/

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• 14-Day Relief in Your Grief Challenge: https://lossesbecomegains.com/relief-in-grief
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In this birthday episode of Life With Grief, I’m sharing five life lessons I’m still actively practicing as I turn 35! Lessons grief, age, motherhood, and lived experience have etched into me over time. These are things rooted in identity shifts, discernment, presence, and learning how to live a full life while carrying loss.

I’ve realized that I’ve gone through many deaths and rebirths in my life—once when my parents died, again when I became a mother, and in quieter ways as I continue to evolve into the truest version of myself.

We'll dig into:
✨ Reflections on grief, identity shifts, and personal growth
✨ What it means to build a legacy beyond achievements
✨ How loss reshapes our relationship with time, presence, and purpose
✨ Why slowing down can be one of the most powerful choices we make

This episode is also an invitation to reflect on the footprint you’re leaving behind—not based on what you do, but how you do it.

I also share a special birthday announcement: the launch of my new Substack, Life Beyond Grief! It's a space for the life that continues after everything changes. Not life without grief, but a life that keeps unfolding anyway.

📖 Life Beyond Grief Substack: https://taraaccardo.substack.com/

If you’re navigating grief, parenthood, identity shifts, or a season of becoming, this episode is for you!

Support the podcast: https://buymeacoffee.com/lifewithgriefpodcast

📖 Life Beyond Grief Substack: https://taraaccardo.substack.com/

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• Micro-Moments for Transformation: https://lossesbecomegains.com/transformation
• 14-Day Relief in Your Grief Challenge: https://lossesbecomegains.com/relief-in-grief
• Work with me one-on-one: https://lossesbecomegains.com/work-with-tara

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