"My friend came out to me and I have no idea what they actually said! What is "genderf*ck"?? Why do we need the term "birthing person"? Why does my queer friend keep complaining about 'TERF's? My friend said she's genderfluid but NOT genderqueer? Help!"

If any of that sounds like you, this might be the podcast for you. We're going to break down what some of the most common transgender-related terms actually mean!

That's not to say this episode isn't for you if you're already an expert on queer terminology... because we're ALSO going to explain the history of these words: where they came from, who coined them, why they're used, why there's pushback, and why they're important!!

In this episode, we'll go over 14 of the 27 terms Chloe researched, including: "cis," cisgender, transgender, AMAB, AFAB, TERF, Gender-Critical, FART (no, really), Birthing Person, Pregnant Person, Chestfeeding, Non-Binary, Genderfluid, Genderqueer, Gender non-conforming, & Genderf*ck.

Subscribe or come back in two weeks for a whole lot more!

00:00 Intro/Table of Contents
00:03:47 "Cis" & "Trans"
00:16:33 AMAB/AFAB (& DSAB)
00:31:03 TERF, Gender-Critical, FART
00:43:50 Birthing/Pregnant Person + Chestfeeding
00:58:01 Enby / Gender- *fluid *nonconforming *f*ck *queer
01:01:06 Agender / Aporagender
01:07:35 Preview for Part 2 / Thanks

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Did men ruin calendars??
Because it's the end of the year, curiosity got the better of Laura, and she decided to look into why our calendar is organized the way it is. Why are there 12 months? Why are there such a random number of days in each month? Why are their names of the so nonsensical? How did ancient civilizations organize their calendars? And is the answer to every one of these questions just, "PATRIARCHY"?!

The answer then raises new questions: Why DON'T we organize our calendar around a natural cycle like the moon? Why did ancient matriarchal cultures ALL organize their years around the moon? What role did Catholicism play in the destruction of ancient ways of organizing time??

Literally all of those answers and more (plus quite a bit of rambling) in this episode.

00:00:00 Intro
00:03:07 Lunar vs Solar
00:14:42 Matriarchies with Lunar Calendars
00:41:17 Patriarchy: Caesar, Julian, Gregorian
00:53:09 Desert Faith
00:55:28 What do we do? / Farewell!

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[Research sources available in YouTube description]

Before colonialism took over the globe, before the Abrahamic/patriarchal Religions took hold, there were trans people. In fact, EVERY pre-colonized culture had a version of trans people, and in EVERY culture, the same belief cropped up again and again: people who were cross-gender or 'between' genders were the people with supernatural abilities, capable of communing with the spirit realm, heal sickness and disease, sense evil, befriend animals, see the future, and more...

In PART THREE of our exploration of gender variance in pre-colonial cultures, we explore 1) slaves who were FORCED to be trans, 2) how terminology has evolved and been co-opted to fit into larger colonial societies, 3) alternate possible causes for alternative gender identities, and most importantly... 4) the spiritual connections / superpowers that trans people were believed to hold. Some of these cultures are still holding it down in the fight against colonizers, and to them we say: KEEP IT UP.

Today, we're covering another SIX cultures (although it's secretly a lot more), and the history of the gender-differing people within them. Namely: The various Two Spirit identies of Indigenous North America, the Köçek (or 'forcibly transed slaves') of the Ottoman Empire, the Sworn Virgins (trans men) of the Balkans, the HIGHLY spiritually connected Machi of Mapuche culture in Chile and Argentina (and their FIGHT against colonizers), the Chibados of Ndongo and Matamba, and the Femminiello, who may have evolved from the Galli, in Italy. Join us on this vision quest deep into the past to learn more about our present, what could have been, and what may still be to come!

00:00:00 Intro/Welcome!
00:01:23 Two Spirit of North America
00:15:57 The Köçek of the Ottoman Empire
00:30:43 The Machi of Chile and Argentina
00:48:05 The Chibados of Ndongo & Matamba
00:52:14 The Femminiello of Italy

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