How often do you say “I’m fine” when you’re anything but? In this episode of Leaving CrazyTown, Finn and Dr. Sarah unpack the many meanings behind those two deceptively simple words—and why asking for help can feel harder than suffering in silence. With humor, honesty, and lived recovery wisdom, they explore what makes some requests easy, others terrifying, and how emotional pain often hides behind self-sufficiency. This conversation is for anyone learning how to name their needs without shame and step out of survival mode.

Key Takeaways

• “I’m fine” is often a protective shield—not the truth

• Asking for help feels easier when it benefits others, not ourselves

• Illness and emotional pain trigger deep autonomy and boundary issues

• Recovery trains us to ask for help—but only in specific lanes

• Emotional honesty requires safety, timing, and trust

Key Timestamps

• [00:01] What “I’m fine” really stands for

• [00:03] Why service-based asks feel safer

• [00:05] Illness, isolation, and control

• [00:07] Emotional pain and selective vulnerability

• [00:09] The recovery paradox: trained to ask, still afraid

Notable Resources

• Dr. Sarah Michaud — Author of Co Crazy

• Website: https://drsarahmichaud.com/

• Follow @leavingcrazytown on YouTube

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Leaving CrazyTown is a raw, real-talk podcast hosted by Finn and Dr. Sarah Michaud, two recovering addicts turned relatable guides on the wild ride of codependency healing. Each episode dives deep into the chaos of dysfunctional relationships, identity loss, and emotional recovery—with humor, honesty, and hope. Subscribe and buckle up—we’re leaving CrazyTown.