WARNING: Please don't listen around children as we discuss Santa Claus (Spoilers!)

Listen as we discuss what each of our families does for Advent, followed by our favorite Christmas Memory, and favorite Christmas movies!

Here are some Advent Suggestions:

• Jotham’s Journey
• Good deeds manger
• O Antiphons
• Padre Pio Reflection
• Light one candle for hope song
• St. Lucy feast day
• Advent playlist
• Advent Like Mary mini-retreat for families

We pray you have a beautiful advent, Christmas, and happy New Year!

Boob Hats Scene: watch the first minute of this.

Stacy's Fat Babies: Rolls Chins more rolls

Kim swears by APNO: All-Purpose Nipple Ointment that needs to be prescribed and filled by a compounding pharmacy.

Teresa loved these Silver Nursing Cups.

Did you catch the title from Wayne's World: Are You Mental?!

For our listeners, this podcast may be difficult to listen to for some. We discuss childhood trauma and how it has affected us both directly and indirectly. We also discuss our own various struggles with occasional and chronic anxiety and depression.

In this episode, we discuss the short but powerful life of Saint Carlo Acutis. We also discuss how each of us uses technology in our homes and the rules we live by as far as the internet is concerned.

We mentioned software like Qustudio or other custodian software that monitors and controls our kids' devices.

Picture of St. Bernard Statue that looks oddly like Fr. Donovan

Ways to foster vocations

• Making learning about the faith and praying a part of your life. Fr. Donovan explained that we are all like fish swimming in the presence of God. We not only
• Frequent the Sacraments (Bribing with donuts, pizza or ice cream work great!)
• Ask your kids/nieces/nephews/friend’s kids if they have thought about being a priest/nun/brother, etc.
• Tell others when you think they would be good as a priest/nun/brother, etc.
• Have priests/nuns/brothers over for dinner when you can.
• Maybe don’t traumatize your kids by yelling at them to marry Jesus (or work for Jesus like this video).
• Point out similarities in the natural vocation of marriage and the supernatural call of priesthood such as selflessness, sacrifice, prayer, etc.
• Everyone is called to participate in spiritual fatherhood and spiritual motherhood. The HOW we live that out is our vocation.
• God’s will for our lives will make us the happiest and most joyful, even if that differs from your plan.
• We need to pray for our priests!
• Encourage your family to be involved in your parish! Familiarize yourself with serving the church, getting to know priests and seminarians along the way.
• WE NEED PRIESTS! Pray for Vocations!
• Pray, Pray, Pray. Develop your own relationship with Jesus and foster prayer in your kid’s lives as good as you can as early as you can.
• Adoration fosters discernment.
• What is adoration? Fr.’s response at 1:21:42
• Recommended Books from Fr. Donovan

1. Religious Vocation: An Unnecessary Mystery, Richard Butler, O.P.
2. Finding God’s Will for You by St. Frances de Sales

Deacon Joe (our daddy) said some pretty wise things, identifying the three foundational principles of a marriage, first found in family life: Love, Trust and Sacrifice.

What he believes a successful, prepared marriage:

• Think about yourself and a compatible mate and write a list of important things
• Don’t compromise
• Invite the Holy Spirit to guide your discernment
• Surrender your engagement to God.

Check out this short but sweet download Stacy and Matt wrote on creating a prayer routine as husband and wife! Use promo code IHIUG to make this free!

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Christine: St. Monica

Karen: St. Bridget

Kim: Gianna Molla/ Sophia/ Frances of Rome

Teresa: Bl. Conchita, and one of her books: Apostolate of Motherhood

*Correction: she was born 1862 not 1962.

Stacy: St. Zelie

*correction Zelie specialized in Alencon lace, pronounced “ah-lon-son”

Lauren: Hannah and her song

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