Tom and Chane Hart join the podcast! Tom is an RUF campus minister at Furman University and he and Chane are parents of four, veterans of multiple cross-country moves and thoughtful leaders about Christian community. They joined us to talk about identity in Christ, orphan mentalities vs. beloved-child confidence, tiers of relationships, and why authentic community is simultaneously hard, glorious, and only a foretaste of what’s coming.

They didn't ask for this, but if you feel a prompting to support their ministry financially, you can donate here.

Key Quotes

• “A community that forgets mission becomes a ministry machine that crushes people. A community that forgets fellowship becomes a sweet club that slowly dies.” – Tom Hart
• “Anytime we get really ruffled and upset it reveals our idols.” – Chane Hart
• “When you are not claiming ‘I am the beloved,’ you cannot walk freely in this world.” – Henri Nouwen (read by Tom)
• “I am not an orphan. Stop acting like an orphan.” – Chane’s lesson from trauma
• “Community is hard. It’s worth pursuing. And the best is yet to come.” – Tom Hart

Find them on Instagram:

@whatthehartlikes

@furmanruf

Recommended Resources Mentioned

• C.S. Lewis – Reflections on the Psalms
• Henri Nouwen – Life of the Beloved & various works
• The Bible Project / Kurt Thompson / Dan Allender / Adam Young (story work & being known)

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