In this episode, I sit down with my friend Alia to talk about navigating adulthood, life transitions, and, of course, healing. Join us on Alia's velvet couch with our sangrias for a heavy dose of banter.

In this episode, I am joined by my friend Tokunbo, aka Toks, who resides in the UK. Toks tells us about moving to the UK from Nigeria, settling in, job hunting after university and career progression. We discuss the differences in social cues, both verbal and non-verbal, that we find bid odd, the pressure that comes with approaching the age of 30, as well as the cost of living in the US.

Toks also delves deeper on finding the love of his life and the growth he has experienced throughout their relationship. This episode also contains a brief segue on approaching the age of 30 and the pressures that come with it.

You can follow Toks on Instagram @youknowtkay

Follow Tok’s girlfriend's page for her fashion feed for curvy girls on Instagram @my_coral_reef

This episode was recorded in October 2022

The reasons why immigrants come to America are complex and multi-layered. In this episode, I share my coming-to-America experience, the challenges of starting from scratch, the influence of Black Culture on America's social scene, and I also share a few tid-bits on my worst dates in New York City. This episode will leave you enthralled!