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  • Dating Today: When Should We Have the Money Talk?
    Nov 26 2024

    SERIES: Dating Today

    Dating today can be tough. Especially when we often have different ideas about dating (how to go about it, who to date, who's serious and who's not, etc.), and not to mention the wide range of bad advice floating around out there.

    One of the top reasons for divorce is money fights & money problems.

    Wouldn’t it be great to get to a point where money isn’t a problem but a blessing — something that unifies you rather than divides? And is this even possible?

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    48 min
  • Dating Today: When Should We Move in Together?
    Nov 19 2024

    SERIES: Dating Today

    Dating today can be tough. Especially when we often have different ideas about dating (how to go about it, who to date, who's serious and who's not, etc.), and not to mention the wide range of bad advice floating around out there. Today's topic, moving in together, has an array of conflicting ideas.

    Maybe you think waiting until marriage is "old-fashioned -- you have to live together to know if you're compatible, right?" Or maybe you're one of the "traditional" ones and want to hold on to the ideals that you were raised in.

    So which is it? When should you move in together? Click play to join the conversation!

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    35 min
  • Dating Today: Is Pre-Marital Counseling Worth it?
    Nov 12 2024

    SERIES: Dating Today

    Dating today can be tough. Especially when we often have different ideas about dating (how to go about it, who to date, who's serious and who's not, etc.), and not to mention the wide range of bad advice floating around out there.

    Especially around pre-marital counseling. If there is one thing we are passionate about it's to intentionally prepare for your marriage. So, in today's episode we discuss things like, is pre-marital counseling worth it? What is it? What prevents us from doing it and when should you start.

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    59 min
  • Dating Today: When Should it Get Serious?
    Nov 5 2024

    SERIES: Dating Today

    Dating today can be tough. Especially when we often have different ideas about dating (how to go about it, who to date, who's serious and who's not, etc.), and not to mention the wide range of bad advice floating around out there.

    We all have a different idea of what “serious” means. And let's be honest, sometimes we aren’t very intentional to begin with which makes this Q, when do we get serious? even more confusing, right?

    We understand that we all move at different paces and sometimes a couple will "advance" sooner than another. So in this episode we talk about 4 stages of seriousness, what they mean and when to intentionally move from one to another.

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    49 min
  • Dating Today: Does the Past Matter?
    Oct 29 2024

    SERIES: Dating Today

    Dating today can be tough. Especially when we often have different ideas about dating (how to go about it, who to date, who's serious and who's not, etc.), and not to mention the wide range of bad advice floating around out there.

    Don't we all long to be accepted and loved despite our past choices, mistakes, and histories? Due to this, we might say, “The past doesn’t matter. It’s about who we are now.” Later we start to have problems, fights, and misunderstandings.

    The irony is this: To give ourselves a future we must step into the past.

    So, does the past matter? *spoiler alert* YES! But how do we talk about it? How to we share while not oversharing? And when is it too soon or too late?

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    45 min
  • Dating Today: When to Break Up. When to Start Dating Again
    Oct 22 2024

    SERIES: Dating Today

    Dating today can be tough. Especially when we often have different ideas about dating (how to go about it, who to date, who's serious and who's not, etc.), and not to mention the wide range of bad advice floating around out there.

    Today's topic is chalk-full of questions!

    1. When should I break up with someone?
    2. What should I do if someone breaks up with me?
    3. How do I heal from a breakup?
    4. When should I start dating again?

    All legit and important to know. So, let's discuss!

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    1 h et 15 min
  • Dating Today: When Should I Introduce Family and Friends?
    Oct 15 2024

    SERIES: Dating Today

    Dating today can be tough. Especially when we often have different ideas about dating (how to go about it, who to date, who's serious and who's not, etc.), and not to mention the wide range of bad advice floating around out there.

    When do you introduce the person you’re dating to your friends and family? When is it too soon? When is too late?

    The cultural “consensus” is usually that it’s private. You start alone and eventually (once it gets serious) you introduce first to friends and then if that goes well to family.

    But what if this path is causing a lot of unnecessary pain and frustration? What if there’s a better way?

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    33 min
  • Dating Today: How Much Time Should We Spend Together?
    Oct 8 2024

    SERIES: Dating Today

    Dating today can be tough. Especially when we often have different ideas about dating (how to go about it, who to date, who's serious and who's not, etc.), and not to mention the wide range of bad advice floating around out there.

    When we start dating there is a tendency to push current relationships and commitments aside for this new exciting person. This causes lots of problems!

    From losing the the benefit of hearing what your trusted friends & family think early on to trying to get “back to real life” and return to your other relational responsibilities and commitments, time can be tricky to juggle.

    So, join us as we discuss all the in's and out's of making time for each other.

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    49 min