Are You an Honest Liar? Revisiting a Growth Note From August 8, 2024

Frazier opens by saying everyone is an “honest liar” and explains that this is episode 601, marking over two years of daily Growth Notes since May 1, 2024. He introduces a special format: replaying an edited Growth Note from Thursday, August 8, 2024, because early Growth Notes from May–August 2024 were never uploaded as podcast episodes until the end of December 2024. In the replay, he reflects on feedback from a prior message (“you won’t be there again”), thanks listeners who shared emotional responses and action steps, and addresses people asking for help by assigning “prep day one”: write down all the lies you tell yourself—about your capabilities, market conditions, and limiting beliefs—because self-lies can feel comfortable, and the story you tell yourself is the story you become.

Growth Notes Episode 600: Five Lessons on Consistency and Ownership

Frazier marks the 600th episode of Growth Notes by reflecting on consistency and taking action even when he doesn’t feel like it, noting he always enjoys it afterward. He shares five lessons from a recent Still Standing call featuring member Carrie, who spoke with a group of loan officers about execution and sustainable business growth. The lessons are: give yourself grace without giving yourself an excuse by adjusting plans without abandoning commitments; track the activities that create outcomes; make the cost of inaction real by valuing your billable hour and time; build around your strengths and stay consistent (Carrie chose blogging over YouTube); and accept that your business changes when you accept that you have to change by taking ownership instead of blaming the market. Frazier closes by committing to keep going daily.

Nostalgia, Change, and Recruiting in Today’s Mortgage Industry

On Growth Notes, Frazier reflects on nostalgia after news that his family’s former company, Mason McDuffie Mortgage, was acquired by Envoy Mortgage, noting he sold his interest years ago and that nostalgia can be dangerous because it filters out the bad, pulls focus from today, and undermines the future built by present actions. He ties this to how the mortgage industry, especially recruiting, remains romantic about “the way things used to be” and hasn’t adapted to how people respond now. Frazier clarifies he isn’t a paid recruiter; he acts as a trusted connector who uses a more passive approach by putting content out that attracts aligned producers and helping people evaluate brokerage fits without steering them. He urges focusing on today’s realities and doing “today’s things” despite discomfort.

Put Yourself First in a Constricted Market + Mortgage Mornings with KP (PRMG)

Frazier opens Growth Notes by inviting listeners to Wednesday’s Mortgage Mornings call at 10:00 AM Eastern (link in the show notes), featuring KP (Kevin Perrone) from PRMG discussing how brokers can build a battle-tested business, what he’s hearing in AI-focused rooms with investors like private equity and hedge funds, and a brief update on TCPA as lawsuits increase and brokers are in the crosshairs. Frazier’s main message is that in today’s constricted, tense environment, it’s time to put yourself first and prioritize self-interest, because people who only give can be taken advantage of and risk harming themselves and those who depend on them. He clarifies this isn’t about being unkind or abandoning customer care, but about setting boundaries, leaving one-sided relationships, and surrounding yourself with people on the same wavelength to stay focused, build, and ultimately help more people.

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Taking Action: How One Struggling Loan Officer Rebuilt Her Pipeline

Frazier shares an email from a broker in his AIM Thursday call series for struggling loan officers, explaining he’s seeking feedback to improve the planned 16-call run. The broker praises his no-BS mindset approach and asks for more tactical guidance on social media and reaching out to new agents, noting high-functioning ADHD and difficulty knowing where to start. After reconnecting with a realtor she’d drifted from, one question about the realtor’s last three closings sparked a referral that is set to close this month. She also restarted posting in Facebook moms groups, answered a mortgage question, and generated multiple leads, including a buyer working on paying down credit cards and another who can move forward with an FHA loan after a bankruptcy wait-time clarification. Frazier emphasizes the key missing component is taking action and executing what you learn.

The Strength in Saying “I Can’t Do This By Myself”

Frazier opens the week with a Monday Growth Note and reflects on a newsletter from Cody Sanchez about her difficult journey trying to get pregnant, which reminds him of his and his wife’s experience with their first child. He highlights her point that one of the hardest things to say is “I can’t do this by myself,” and argues there is a real cost to not asking for help. Frazier shares how his Thursday “Still Standing” coaching calls are built for people at rock bottom who admit they need support, and he notes they are often the most engaged—showing up live, on camera, present, and taking notes. He encourages listeners to see asking for help as strength, whether in business or personal struggles, and to reach out when needed.

When Is Enough Enough? The Mirror Moment That Forces Change

In this Sunday Growth Note (August 2), Frazier encourages listeners to have an honest conversation with themselves about “when enough is going to be enough” and to stop relying on excuses. He shares his own catalyst: after years of failed diets and letting work and habits slide, he was over 320 pounds and realized things had to change when 3XL clothes became too tight, which pushed him to commit to 75 Hard and not go back. He applies the same idea to lenders and originators, noting the market previously propped up bad habits, but conditions are now more challenging. Frazier asks whether missing time blocks, inconsistency, and lack of follow-up are worth the stress, and urges making change if they aren’t happy.

Frazier reflects on moving into August with five months left in the year and urges listeners to push hard even if things typically slow down later in the year. He shares a question from LinkedIn Loaded about what people chase that ultimately doesn’t matter, and answers that it’s influence when it’s pursued as recognition or validation for its own sake—likes, vanity metrics, and “celebrity” status. He distinguishes this from influence as a byproduct of chasing purpose and impact, noting that leadership still requires influence, but it should be rooted in meaningful outcomes. Frazier argues self-validation matters most, encourages intentionality in changing lives, and shares from experience that chasing likes feels empty, while focusing on helping at least one person daily aligns with purpose.

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