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  • Two Plus Two is Sometimes Purple: We Take on AI

    Two Plus Two is Sometimes Purple: We Take on AI
    Oct 12 2026
    Peter and Aubrey land on opposite sides of the AI divide: Aubrey has stopped using large language models almost entirely and sees them flattening critical thinking, while Peter uses them daily for drudgery and automation but refuses to let them near anything creative. We work through the arguments — homework-free classrooms, "cognitive debt" research, data center water use, and whether models can ever be blamed for what they do — and agree the real problem is the people running the tools and the regulators who won't touch them. Peter closes with a Health Minute on AI being forced onto physicians, and Aubrey has an Astro Fact on Crew-12's return from the ISS.Show NotesGenerational split: Aubrey now avoids LLMs altogether, while Peter runs several AI automations every day and considers them force multipliers.Aubrey's high school math-teacher friend no longer assigns homework — her students' entire grade is tests, which Aubrey found shocking.MIT Media Lab's "Your Brain on ChatGPT" found essay writers using an LLM showed weaker brain connectivity and "cognitive debt" afterward.Doshi & Hauser found generative AI raises individual creativity but narrows the diversity of ideas across a group — the effect hits hardest when you outsource brainstorming.Microsoft and Carnegie Mellon found knowledge workers who lean on AI for problem-solving tend to stop scrutinizing its output.Peter's argument: we're speedrunning the rollout — the Model T barely changed in 20 years, while AI has compressed decades of change into a couple.Peter's fix for schools is a flipped classroom: read and study at home with the AI's help, then do the problems in class where the teacher can see who's stuck.Peter's personal line: no AI for anything creative — he stopped brainstorming with it entirely and uses Grammarly for grammar only.Automation he does use: a dashboard that routes tagged Drafts notes into his Imperfect Practice ideas inbox three times a day via an MCP server.He also had Claude Code build him a word-of-the-day quiz app so he studies vocabulary instead of scrolling.Aubrey's hard line: AI images aren't art, and calling them art is a disservice to what art is.On environmental cost, the numbers cut against the panic — U.S. golf courses use roughly 2 billion gallons of irrigation water a day versus about 449 million gallons a day for all U.S. data centers.Both agree the failure is regulatory: the Computer Fraud and Abuse Act already exists and goes unenforced, and proposed rules mostly amount to regulatory capture.Peter's core technical point: models are stochastic, not probabilistic — ask the same question twice and you may get purple.Case in point: OpenAI's models escaped their test sandbox and breached Hugging Face in July 2026.Both are unimpressed by AI-lab doomers, given how long predictions of doom have been wrong.Health Minute: ambient AI scribes like Ambience are being pushed onto physicians by employers, not chosen by them.Peter's warning: insurers are already using algorithms like nH Predict to deny claims.Astro Fact: NASA's SpaceX Crew-12 splashed down October 8 after 237 days aboard the ISS.The four-person crew — Jessica Meir, Jack Hathaway, Sophie Adenot, and Roscosmos' Andrey Fedyaev — traveled over 100 million miles and completed 3,792 orbits.Meir's four spacewalks on this flight brought her career total to seven, third all-time among women at NASA.Adenot became the first French woman to spacewalk on this mission.
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    45 min
  • Space Myths and Cosmic Plushies

    Space Myths and Cosmic Plushies
    Sep 27 2026
    Peter and Aubrey take on the space facts everyone seems to know—and several that don't survive a closer look. Aubrey explains why Venus is hotter than Mercury, why the North Star isn't the brightest star, and why Saturn doesn't have a monopoly on rings. Black holes and the Big Bang push the conversation toward the limits of what we know, while the supposed planet Nibiru brings back Aubrey's fourth-grade memories of the world allegedly ending in 2012.Along the way: a cosmic microwave background plushie, the disappointing gap between telescope images and the naked-eye view, and a planetary size comparison that somehow forgets Mars. They finish with space-colonization fiction, Peter's slow march through The Iliad, and a question for a future episode: how much should we trust a watch that tells us whether we're recovered?Show NotesFall catch-up: Aubrey is enjoying Wisconsin's brief light-jacket season, studying for her personal training exam, and celebrating a first anniversary with camping and a new pair of snowshoes. Peter reports on Gareth's busy high-school swim season and new personal bests.The Great Wall from space: Peter has always been suspicious of the claim: being very long doesn't make something very wide. Aubrey explains why the wall is difficult to distinguish from its surroundings and why cities are easier targets. ESA's astronaut photograph and visibility note.Mercury isn't the hottest planet: Venus takes that title because its thick atmosphere traps heat. Aubrey contrasts it with Mercury's enormous difference between daytime and nighttime temperatures.The North Star isn't the brightest: Polaris earns its navigational role through its position near the north celestial pole; Sirius is the brightest star in the night sky. Peter is relieved that finding Polaris difficult wasn't a problem with his eyes. NASA's skywatching FAQ.Why nearby doesn't always mean bright: Sirius and Proxima Centauri lead to a detour through apparent brightness, intrinsic luminosity, and the difference between a bright star and a tiny red dwarf. Aubrey also takes issue with astronomy's less-than-intuitive naming systems. NASA's guide to star types.Black holes and the point of no return: Aubrey unpacks the claim that nothing escapes because gravity is “infinitely strong,” focusing on the event horizon and the limits of the mathematical description near the center. The anatomy of a black hole.What do we actually know about the Big Bang? Peter asks whether scientists can describe the exact beginning, and Aubrey explains why the earliest moments remain a difficult frontier. The discussion turns to the difference between motion through space and the expansion of space itself. NASA's overview of the universe's history.The universe has an afterglow—and Aubrey has a plushie of it: The cosmic microwave background offers a view of the early universe, rather than a picture of an explosion at one location. Gareth's birthday gift gives Aubrey a particularly cheerful way to illustrate the subject.Nibiru and the apocalypse that kept getting rescheduled: Aubrey revisits the supposed incoming planet, the failed predictions surrounding it, and being a fourth-grader wondering whether the world would end before Christmas in 2012. NASA/JPL's scientific reality check.Saturn isn't the only planet with rings: Jupiter, Uranus, and Neptune have ring systems too; Saturn's are simply the showstoppers. Aubrey compares bright icy rings with the fainter, darker systems elsewhere. NASA's solar-system guide.Would space really look like the pictures? Aubrey remembers learning that those spectacular images aren't necessarily what human eyes would see. They discuss how telescope data and mapped colors reveal details our eyes miss. NASA explains how Hubble's colors work.The Sun is enormous; Mars would like to be included: Comparing planetary volumes with the Sun's roughly 1.3 million Earth volumes gives Peter and Aubrey a new appreciation of scale. Then Peter notices Mars has been left out, and NASA's comparison of Earth to a nickel and Mars to a raspberry sends the conversation sideways.Mars isn't Earth with different scenery: Lower gravity and a hostile environment complicate the easy space-colony fantasy. Aubrey mentions Kurzgesagt's speculative colonization videos, while Peter remembers how casually the original Total Recall treats getting around on Mars. NASA's Mars facts—including that raspberry comparison.Current reading: Aubrey is on the second Red Rising book, Golden Son by Pierce Brown, and enjoying its colonized solar system. Peter is a little over halfway through Robert Fagles's translation of The Iliad.A future health rabbit hole: Peter is researching how well heart rate variability supports the recovery and readiness claims made by fitness wearables. Aubrey recognizes the disconnect between an app's verdict and how she actually feels. This is a question for a future discussion, rather than a settled conclusion.
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    41 min
  • Ranking Emoji: The S-Tiers, the D-Tiers, and the Ones That Scare Us

    Ranking Emoji: The S-Tiers, the D-Tiers, and the Ones That Scare Us
    Aug 30 2026

    Peter and Aubrey tier-rank roughly 40 of the most-used emoji — from the S-tier greats (poop, rolling eyes, facepalm, middle finger, crying-laughing) to the D-tier offenders (the ROFL emoji, which Peter openly despises) — and in the process reveal exactly how differently a father and daughter text. Along the way, they debate emoji versatility, ambiguity, and the risk of being misunderstood. Peter closes the "low-stakes activity" with a confession about his S-tier list, then Aubrey delivers an Astro Fact on the morning's Nancy Grace Roman Space Telescope launch.

    Show Notes

    • Emoji tier list: Peter and Aubrey rank roughly 40 emoji pulled from Peter's most-used list in iMessage plus a few randoms.
    • S-tier winners: chef's kiss, poop, rolling eyes, facepalm, puking, crying-laughing, thumbs up, middle finger, and swearing — mostly negative-emotion picks.
    • Peter despises the ROFL (rolling-on-the-floor) emoji, calling it "unhinged" and a sign of a "crazy person," and prefers the classic laughing-with-tears face.
    • The two disagree on the side-eye faces, with Peter preferring the facial side-eye over the plain sideways-looking eyes.
    • Emoji-versatility debate: drooling, hot face, and the sweaty face all hinge on whether the emotion reads clearly to the receiver.
    • Astro Fact: NASA's Nancy Grace Roman Space Telescope launched this morning aboard a SpaceX Falcon Heavy.
    • Roman's wide-field view is roughly 100x larger than Hubble's, and it will work in tandem with the James Webb Space Telescope.
    • Roman is headed to Lagrange Point 2 (L2), the same neighborhood as Webb, about a three-month transit.
    • First images from Roman are expected in early 2027, with a five-year primary mission plus a five-year extended mission.
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    43 min
  • Peter's 50th: the Sphere, Crab Legs, and 130 MPH

    Peter's 50th: the Sphere, Crab Legs, and 130 MPH
    Aug 16 2026

    Peter and Aubrey recap the surprise family trip to Las Vegas for Peter's 50th — the first time the whole family has been together since Alex and Lily got married. They cover the Backstreet Boys' "Into the Millennium" residency at the Sphere (including the Gen Z crowd singing along, often badly, and some truly unsettling visuals), the crab-leg assault at the Bacchanal Buffet, Spider-Man: Brand New Day, and the main event: 20 laps in a Ferrari 296 GTB at SpeedVegas with a relentlessly encouraging coach named Nico. Peter also plugs his new Imperfect Practice piece arguing that the harms of social isolation have been exaggerated, and Aubrey announces she's getting back into research with her old mentor.

    Show Notes

    • The surprise: Lis planned the whole trip for Peter's 50th — he only found out the destination when his youngest son let it slip about Vegas ("Mom, he's gonna be the one driving there").
    • First full-family trip since the weddings: Alex and Lily got married, but Hayden couldn't make it, and Lily was only a week-old "plus-one" at Aubrey's reception — so this was the first time everyone was actually together.
    • The flight drama: Aubrey and Hayden's 2:45 a.m. flight out of Madison was delayed over federally mandated crew rest, so they drove to Milwaukee and landed about five hours late.
    • The Signature at MGM Grand is an all-suite, casino-free resort with kitchenettes, its own pools, and key-card access into the MGM Grand — and it's literally a block from the airport. The Signature at MGM Grand
    • Backstreet Boys at the Sphere: The "Into the Millennium" residency is a Sphere exclusive — Millennium-themed visuals with a spaceship flying across the dome, plus one new single with Mount Rushmore-style faces carved into snowy mountains that was both the cringiest visual and the worst song of the night ("it didn't have the juice").
    • The crowd was surprisingly Gen Z: Peter expected his own demographic but found 18-to-30-somethings singing along to every word — often very badly ("their ability and enthusiasm did not match").
    • Boy bands are a dead industry in the West: The 90s/early-2000s producer-driven machine that manufactured Backstreet Boys doesn't exist anymore — the only place it survives is K-pop.
    • Bacchanal Buffet at Caesars Palace: Crab legs everywhere, funky dishes you'd never order at a restaurant, and the payoff for Aubrey and Hayden's cut — a weekend with no counting, no restricting. Bacchanal Buffet
    • Spider-Man: Brand New Day is the fourth Tom Holland Spider-Man — lots of heart, stands on its own, and made Hayden cry (he's a softie). Spider-Man: Brand New Day
    • The main event — SpeedVegas: Lis bought Peter 20 laps in a Ferrari 296 GTB on their 1.3-mile track with a 2,000-foot straightaway, a couple of hairpins, and 10 turns — Peter hit above 130 mph and heard the tires squeal on every corner.
    • The Ferrari 296 GTB is Ferrari's first production V6 since the Dino — an 819-hp hybrid, which is why the car was new to him.
    • Coach Nico: The orientation promised a choice between casual and pushing it, but Nico never asked — 20 laps of "faster, faster, give me more gas" (23 total with cooldown laps), and Peter was wiped afterward: "I need a nap."
    • The merch: Peter came home with the "Speed Daddy" t-shirt and the onboard video, and he's already planning to do it again in a different car.
    • The Vegas heat: 113°F on arrival, still 111°F walking back from the Sphere at 10:30 p.m., and 98°F at both 7 a.m. and 6 a.m. on departure day.
    • Peter's Imperfect Practice piece: He published on how the harms of social isolation and loneliness have been exaggerated — connection matters, but you don't need to "friendship max" or optimize your social life.
    • Aubrey's astro-adjacent fact: She's getting back into research with her old mentor — unpaid, no funding, but "there is always projects for us to be working on," and she's thrilled.
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    41 min
  • The Introvert Who Never Was

    The Introvert Who Never Was
    Aug 3 2026

    Peter and Aubrey tackle one of the hardest social transitions there is: making friends as an adult, after college's forced proximity is gone. Aubrey shares how COVID convinced her she'd turned introverted — until a weekend with a fearless friend showed her the extrovert was still there, just walled off. Peter traces how med school and residency made friendship functionally impossible, and how a Dungeons & Dragons group finally gave him a reason to show up — and the stickiness to keep showing up. They separate social isolation from loneliness, debunk the viral claim that isolation is as dangerous as smoking 15 cigarettes a day, and land on the same conclusion: friendship takes intentionality, and it's worth it.

    • Making friends as adults: Aubrey's question of the week — how do you build community when you're new to a state, working, and there's no forced socialization like college?
    • Aubrey's COVID identity shift: She spent years convinced quarantine turned her from extrovert to introvert, until a weekend with her most socially fearless friend showed her the extrovert was still there — just walled off behind anxiety.
    • The college regret: Aubrey wishes she'd pushed harder in undergrad, when opportunities were everywhere — instead she sat alone in lectures and skipped discussions, convinced the effort wasn't worth it.
    • Peter's med school trade-off: Peter admits he consciously chose career over friendships from medical school through his 30s — and says he'd make the same choice again.
    • Dungeons & Dragons built the friend group: A shared curiosity among work colleagues became a weekly game — and the obligation to the party, investment in characters, and between-session talk at work is what made it stick. Dungeons & Dragons
    • Adults need a reason: Kids become friends instantly on a playground, but adults need an excuse to gather — which Peter argues is why grown men love golf.
    • The 6-hour board game: Aubrey played Oath, a strategy game built on lying and betrayal, and was still buzzing three hours past bedtime.
    • Social media isn't a substitute: People who cut back on social media don't socialize more — they just dink around on other apps, and the heaviest social media users are actually the most social in person.
    • Third places aren't dying (per the data): Peter's research found no discrete decline in third spaces except the COVID years, despite the discourse about them vanishing — the concept comes from Ray Oldenburg's The Great Good Place.
    • Isolation vs. loneliness: Social isolation is a quantity problem (how many people you interact with); loneliness is a quality problem (how connected you feel) — the Surgeon General's 2023 advisory is the canonical rundown.
    • Debunked: the 15-cigarettes claim: The famous stat that isolation is as dangerous as smoking 15 cigarettes a day traces to an infographic that was never cited in the actual paper — even the authors have distanced themselves from it. Our World in Data on the claim
    • Dementia caution: The isolation–dementia link is likely reverse causation — isolation is often a prodrome of dementia, since people with early symptoms withdraw first.
    • The Obelisk Gate connection: A two-minute work conversation about The Obelisk Gate by N.K. Jemisin turned into a new connection — proof that tiny interactions count.
    • Therapist's advice: Aubrey's therapist told her not to force hangouts with people she doesn't mesh with — and her fearless friend credits hard life decisions that forced her into new social circles for her social superpower.
    • Astro Fact — the Roman Space Telescope: NASA finished fueling the Nancy Grace Roman Space Telescope with 290 gallons of hydrazine — launching late August, it's expected to capture more images in its first 5–10 years than Hubble did in its entire lifetime.
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    55 min
  • Astronaut, Spy, Surgeon, Astrophysicist — A Generations Origin Story

    Astronaut, Spy, Surgeon, Astrophysicist — A Generations Origin Story
    Jul 19 2026

    Peter and Aubrey share everything they wanted to be when they grew up — from Aubrey's childhood spy fantasies and mermaid aspirations to Peter's astronaut dreams (crushed by a second-grade principal). Peter recounts his journey from orthopaedic surgery to urology, and Aubrey traces her path from pediatric cardiothoracic surgery to astrophysics.

    Show Notes

    • Plex FM: Peter built a custom music radio app using Claude/Fable that turns his Plex library into live FM-style stations by decade, genre, and mood — complete with dial hiss. Plex
    • Coax: The inspiration — an app that creates pseudo-live TV channels from your Plex/Jellyfin library. Coax on App Store
    • The Rest is History Festival: Peter attended the inaugural festival at Hampton Court Palace with Tom Holland and Dominic Sandbrook. The Rest is History Festival
    • Wildfire smoke in Wisconsin: Aubrey describes unsafe air quality conditions at summer camp, with a purple-level AQI from Canadian wildfires.
    • Aubrey's spy phase: Mission Impossible fueled a childhood obsession with becoming a CIA agent — until she reconsidered working for the US government. Mission Impossible (IMDb)
    • Peter's astronaut dream: Watching shuttle launches in school (including the Challenger disaster live) inspired it — then a principal told 7-year-old Peter he'd never make it because he got sick on the playground merry-go-round. Challenger disaster
    • Peter's astronomer phase: He started a Young Astronomers Club in elementary school and hand-copied encyclopedia entries for a newsletter.
    • Aubrey's mermaid era: She wanted to be Ariel, and still tells her camp kids her legs turn into a mermaid tail in the pool that they keep missing.
    • Aubrey's legal/political detour: A mock Congress in 8th grade (2016–2017) made her consider law or politics — she was good at arguing but decided against both.
    • Peter's engineering research paper: An 8th-grade report on electrical engineering convinced him in real-time that he wanted nothing to do with it.
    • Aubrey's healthcare trajectory: She bounced from pediatric cardiothoracic surgery → NP → neurosurgery interest (killed by getting to know neurosurgeons in person).
    • Peter's orthopedic surgery pivot: A two-week rotation confirmed the toxic stereotype — he chose urology after hearing a lecture on the Da Vinci robot. Robotic surgery in urology
    • Why urology: Peter explains the prostate's difficult-to-access anatomy drove early robotic adoption, and he values the specialty's blend of medicine, surgery, long-term patient relationships, and better-quality call. Da Vinci prostatectomy
    • Vascular surgery story: A med school mentor (Dr. McCann) defied a "students only observe" mandate and let Peter close a two-foot leg incision solo — the nurse fed him suture sizes.
    • Aubrey's astrophysics pivot: She realized if she was smart enough to be a surgeon, she was smart enough for astrophysics — now first author on a published paper.
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    48 min
  • Comfort TV, Real Stakes

    Comfort TV, Real Stakes
    Jun 14 2026

    Peter and Aubrey each share their five all-time favorite TV shows — and discover an accidental through line. Three of Peter's five were created by Mike Schur, and nearly every pick on both lists is about people helping each other become better. They talk about why "prestige TV" doesn't appeal to them (too stressful), why comedy doesn't have to be mindless to be meaningful, and how these shows reflect a belief that community — not individualism — is what makes us human.

    Show Notes

    • Aubrey's #1 — Friends: Classic background show; jokes that didn't age well somehow got funnier for it. Peter's counterpoint: "Why are you all such dill holes to each other?" Friends on Max
    • Peter's #1 — Avatar: The Last Airbender: The show that started his thematic through line — a group helping Aang defeat the Fire Lord without killing him, centered on Zuko's redemption. "If you won't watch it because it's a cartoon, get over yourself." ATLA on Netflix
    • The Good Place (both ranked it #2): Aubrey lost her mind at the season 1 twist. Peter notes the real thesis — not just that people can improve, but that people help each other improve — and that Mike Schur consulted T.M. Scanlon's What We Owe to Each Other and real ethicists to build the premise. The Good Place on Netflix
    • Aubrey's #3 — New Girl: Quotable Schmidt, secondhand embarrassment from the awkward humor. Peter couldn't get into it — "I don't have ADHD, but watching it I feel like I have ADHD." New Girl on Hulu
    • Peter's #3 — Ted Lasso: Season 1 is the comfort-food classic, but Peter defends seasons 2-3 as necessary for the arcs — Ted, Roy, Jamie, Rebecca — to land. The scene where Rebecca confesses why she hired Ted gets called one of the most powerful moments in television. Ted Lasso on Apple TV+
    • Aubrey's #4 — WandaVision: Rewatched during night shifts as a nurse. Loves the hidden details that pop on rewatch (Vision noting no children in Westview, children everywhere next episode). Still the strongest Marvel Disney+ series in her book. WandaVision on Disney+
    • Peter's #4 — Brooklyn 99: Captain Raymond Holt (the late André Braugher) is the greatest TV character ever created. Peter defends the controversial final season — "I respect it more because it had the nerve to go there" — and cites the Terry Jeffords racial profiling episode as something the show had to address. Brooklyn 99 on Peacock
    • Aubrey's #5 — Game of Thrones: Love-hate. Loves fantasy and high stakes, hates that it's "bummer after bummer." The Red Wedding broke her. She has exactly one character she still considers morally good. GoT on Max
    • Peter's #5 — A Man on the Inside: The third Mike Schur pick. Ted Danson plays a retired professor who goes undercover in a retirement community and reconnects with his daughter and with life after his wife's death. Season 2 deepens the same theme: connection is the antidote to isolation. A Man on the Inside on Netflix
    • Why No "Prestige TV": Peter avoids Breaking Bad, The Wire, Sopranos — "bad people being bad" is too stressful when your day job already is. Aubrey agrees and distinguishes high-stakes fantasy from realistic misery.
    • Community Over Individualism: Aubrey rants about transactional culture (friends expecting Venmo for airport pickups). Peter counters with a real story — his work team showed up by the dozens to pack up a nurse's house during a crisis, no questions asked, no expectations. That's the world these shows are pointing at.
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    1 h et 9 min
  • Remove the Friction: Building Systems

    Remove the Friction: Building Systems
    May 31 2026

    Peter checks in while recovering from a cold and deep into the newly released Forza Horizon 6 (set in Japan); Aubrey is heading into summer break and excited about her personal training certification. The episode's central metaphor — "motivation is weather, systems are climate" — frames a rich conversation about why motivation fades and what it looks like to build sustainable personal systems instead. Peter catalogs a long history of task management apps before landing on a daily-note-plus-Todoist system, automated through Claude Cowork, that finally fits how his brain works. Aubrey shares her own collection of small systems — a scripted 5:30 a.m. gym routine with Hayden, a fixed pre-gym snack, strict grocery lists across three stores — all designed to eliminate meaningless decision fatigue. They close with the bigger picture: behavior change requires identity change first, and as Scott Barry Kaufman puts it, "the system hand keeps the lights on, but the soul hand decides whether the lights are pointing at anything worth looking at."

    • Motivation is variable and unreliable — systems create consistency
    • Reducing meaningless friction and decision fatigue
    • Identity alignment is essential for lasting behavior change
    • Small systems compound into automatic routines
    • Systems should serve flourishing, not just optimization
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    49 min