A wedding film shouldn’t try to outshine your wedding day. It should take you back there. James sits down with filmmaker Ben Mon of Wayfinder Films to unpack how a slow, intentional path—from nine favors in 2020 to full-time in 2025—shaped a people-first, story-driven approach that actually holds up decades later. We dig into why you can’t hear your photos, how vows and voices carry emotion in a way stills can’t, and what it takes to capture the in-between moments that make couples say, that’s so us.

Ben shares the mentors who sharpened his technical chops, the shift from editorial polish to documentary honesty, and the faith-rooted why that keeps him focused on service over spectacle. We get candid about trends: Super 8 film that brings tactile nostalgia, retro music that transports you, and the gentle retirement of detail-heavy edits that forget the humans. Ben’s hot take lands clearly: the depth of your relationship—not production tricks—is what makes a wedding film powerful.

You’ll hear practical strategies for wedding-day collaboration with photographers, steering timelines without stress, and creating calm by reading the room. Ben also outlines a minimalist client experience: one discovery call, one focused planning chat, and custom collections that might include full ceremony and speeches or a FOMO edit with nearly everything. We close with travel-fueled inspiration from Tuscany and the dream list—Iceland and Mexico—plus side projects that keep creativity sharp. If you’re a couple on the fence about video or a vendor refining your craft, this conversation will help you build films that age with grace.

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