In this episode of the Unstressed Exec, Dr. George Vergolias delves into the reasons why even intelligent, accomplished people often miss red flags in relationships and professional settings.

Featuring insights from research and two decades of experience, Dr. Vergolias discusses eight cognitive biases—confirmation bias, optimism bias, sunk cost fallacy, halo effect, emotional reasoning, attachment bias, cognitive dissonance, and competence bias—that can cloud judgment. He also provides practical strategies to spot red flags earlier and improve discernment, along with a call to action for those seeking deeper tools in his workbook 'The Conflict Whisperer' and coaching services. Tune in to understand these biases and how to navigate through them for a healthier, clearer perspective in all your relationships.

00:00 Introduction to The Unstressed Exec

01:01 Why Smart People Miss Red Flags

02:33 Cognitive Biases Explained

03:14 The Eight Cognitive Biases

12:02 Emotional Intelligence and Red Flags

13:43 Social Conditioning and Red Flags

15:59 How Toxic People Exploit Biases

17:49 Case Study: The CEO Who Never Saw It Coming

19:44 Practical Steps to Identify Red Flags

24:42 Closing Reflections and Call to Action

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About the Host – The Unstressed Exec

Meet Dr. George Vergolias — a clinical and forensic corporate psychologist turned executive coach with 20+ years at the intersection of leadership, mental resilience, and high performance. George has advised Fortune 500 companies, guided C-suite leaders through crisis, and coached high-achievers to reclaim clarity, calm, and purpose without losing their edge.

On The Unstressed Exec, George brings powerful insights from the boardroom to the mic — helping leaders navigate stress, burnout, conflict, and transformation with practical tools and no-BS wisdom.

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