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  • Bonus: Rajan Reads Sarah's Dirty Secret

    Bonus: Rajan Reads Sarah's Dirty Secret
    May 28 2020
    A lot of listeners have sent me messages asking if I'd ever do any reading during the show, but I've been a bit on the fence about it, because I'm not sure if you'd all like it, and personally, I think I sound shit. I decided to give it a go, because... Well, why not? I'll be reading an excerpt from 'Sarah's Dirty Secret' by Charity Parkerson. Support this podcast
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    9 min
  • Episode 8 | Too Young for BDSM

    Episode 8 | Too Young for BDSM
    May 23 2020
    I address underage people, their being involved in or desire to be involved in BDSM relationships, and my absolute disdain for it because they are far too young for BDSM relationships. Got a question or want to leave feedback about this episode? Call 312-373-0069‬ and leave a message. Pick up my book, Welcome to the Darkside: A BDSM Primer on Amazon: amzn.to/2RI1kcP Support this podcast
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    18 min
  • Episode 7 | Fifty Shades of What the Actual F**k?!

    Episode 7 | Fifty Shades of What the Actual F**k?!
    Dec 8 2019
    I talk about E.L. James’ erotica trilogy Fifty Shades of Grey, because love it or hate it, the books and films exist, and there isn’t a whole lot that can be done about it. But the problem isn’t that Fifty Shades is unrealistic, the problem is that people think this is how BDSM actually works – which is a particularly dangerous thing. I also answer a listener’s question about transitioning from submissive to slave. Got a question or want to leave feedback about this episode? Call 312-373-0069‬ and leave a message. Pick up my book, Welcome to the Darkside: A BDSM Primer on Amazon: amzn.to/2RI1kcP Support this podcast
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    31 min
  • Episode 6 | Being Domineering vs Being Dominant

    Episode 6 | Being Domineering vs Being Dominant
    Mar 5 2019
    I talk about differences between a person being dominant versus one being domineering, as the two seem to be notoriously conflated, and I’ve decided that I should shed some light on the matter. Got a question or want to leave feedback about this episode? Call 312-373-0069‬ and leave a message. Pick up my book, Welcome to the Darkside: A BDSM Primer on Amazon: amzn.to/2RI1kcP Support this podcast
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    15 min
  • Episode 5 | A Bit on Switches and Alpha Submissives

    Episode 5 | A Bit on Switches and Alpha Submissives
    Jan 31 2019
    I answer a message I received from a listener. And because there seems to be a LOT of words going on in this message, I’m going to individually address the two that stand out the most – being a switch, and being an alpha submissive. Got a question or want to leave feedback about this episode? Call 312-373-0069‬ and leave a message. Pick up my book, Welcome to the Darkside: A BDSM Primer on Amazon: amzn.to/2RI1kcP Support this podcast
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    18 min
  • Episode 4 | Are You Cut Out to Be a Submissive?

    Episode 4 | Are You Cut Out to Be a Submissive?
    Dec 28 2018
    Believe it or not, not everyone is capable of being a submissive. I talk about whether or not being a submissive is right for you, because it's possible that you're not really cut out for it. Got a question or want to leave feedback about this episode? Call 312-373-0069‬ and leave a message. Pick up my book, Welcome to the Darkside: A BDSM Primer on Amazon: amzn.to/2RI1kcP Support this podcast
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    21 min
  • Episode 3 | How to Bring Up BDSM to Your Partner

    Episode 3 | How to Bring Up BDSM to Your Partner
    Dec 27 2018
    Have you ever wondered how you can bring up your interest in BDSM to your partner in a way that won’t upset them? I'm going to give a few suggestions that might help you out, and will hopefully allow you to both move forward together. Got a question or want to leave feedback about this episode? Call 312-373-0069‬ and leave a message. Pick up my book, Welcome to the Darkside: A BDSM Primer on Amazon: amzn.to/2RI1kcP Support this podcast
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    7 min
  • Episode 2 | Are You Being Tested as a Submissive?

    Episode 2 | Are You Being Tested as a Submissive?
    Dec 25 2018
    If you've ever wondered if testing a submissive is a common thing for Dominants to do, the answer is both yes and no. Got a question or want to leave feedback about this episode? Call 312-373-0069‬ and leave a message. Pick up my book, Welcome to the Darkside: A BDSM Primer on Amazon: amzn.to/2RI1kcP Support this podcast
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    14 min