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Summary

In this episode of Decluttering Untangled, Heather Tingle discusses the often-overlooked distinction between cleaning and decluttering. She shares her personal struggles with maintaining a clean home post-decluttering and explores the challenges posed by executive functioning. Heather offers practical strategies for effective cleaning, emphasising the importance of habit stacking and lowering friction in cleaning tasks. She also addresses the unrealistic standards many people set for cleanliness and encourages listeners to redefine their expectations, reminding them that it's okay to seek help, whether through hiring a cleaner or using tools like robot vacuums. Ultimately, Heather reassures her audience that they are not alone in their struggles and that it's essential to be kind to oneself in the journey of maintaining a home.

Chapters

00:00
Introduction and the Distinction Between Cleaning and Decluttering

02:44
The Reality of Cleaning After Decluttering

06:01
Understanding Executive Functioning and Cleaning Challenges

08:47
Strategies for Effective Cleaning

11:54
Lowering Friction and Making Cleaning Easier

14:44
Redefining Cleaning Standards and Accepting Imperfection

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Summary

In this episode of Decluttering Untangled, Heather Tingle discusses the often-overlooked emotional and practical challenges of decluttering old keys. She explores the psychological burden these keys can represent, including feelings of responsibility and fear of regret. Heather provides practical steps for organising and deciding what to keep or let go, emphasising the importance of clarity and intentionality in the decluttering process.

Chapters

00:00
The Burden of Unused Keys

02:43
Understanding the Emotional Weight of Keys

05:39
Practical Steps to Declutter Keys

08:33
Deciding What to Keep and Let Go

11:51
Finding Security Through Clarity

Support the show

If you'd like to say 'Thank you', by buying me a virtual coffee (it'll actually buy me a cup of tea!), you can do so HERE. It will mean I can afford to continue to give help for free and continue with this podcast.

Get started with my Zoning and Getting Started Workshop, everything you need to know on how to get started and have the best success when decluttering.

Join my free Declutter Community for real support, tips and advice from Heather and other Untanglers that are just like you!

Follow me on Facebook

Buy my Declutter Your Home Planner from Amazon to start to declutter your home yourself! (affiliate link)

Grab my current freebies to support a cleaner, tidier home.

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Feel free to email me: help@untangledbytingle.com
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In this episode of Decluttering Untangled, Heather Tingle explores why the common advice to “just do ten minutes a day” often doesn’t work for people with ADHD and other neurodivergent brains. She explains how this approach relies heavily on daily consistency, stable energy levels, and motivation, which can make decluttering feel harder rather than easier for many listeners.

Heather discusses how ND and ADHD brains tend to work in bursts, why unfinished tasks are particularly draining, and how open-ended plans can create ongoing feelings of failure. She introduces a key reframe that consistency is not the goal, and that completion and closure are far more important for making progress.

The episode encourages listeners to move away from guilt-driven decluttering advice and towards bite-sized, flexible plans that allow for rest, variable energy, and clear end points. The focus is on creating systems that work with real life, rather than against it.

Chapters

00:00
Introduction to “Ten Minutes a Day” Advice

02:18
Why Daily Consistency Is Hard for ADHD Brains

05:01
Boredom, Energy Fluctuations, and Unfinished Tasks

07:12
Completion Over Consistency

09:05
Creating Flexible, Bite-Sized Decluttering Plans

Support the show

If you'd like to say 'Thank you', by buying me a virtual coffee (it'll actually buy me a cup of tea!), you can do so HERE. It will mean I can afford to continue to give help for free and continue with this podcast.

Get started with my Zoning and Getting Started Workshop, everything you need to know on how to get started and have the best success when decluttering.

Join my free Declutter Community for real support, tips and advice from Heather and other Untanglers that are just like you!

Follow me on Facebook

Buy my Declutter Your Home Planner from Amazon to start to declutter your home yourself! (affiliate link)

Grab my current freebies to support a cleaner, tidier home.

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Feel free to email me: help@untangledbytingle.com
Please note, I may not be able to reply, but do read all emails to me and appreciate them massively.