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  • We ALL Have a Porn Problem | Andrew Williams

    We ALL Have a Porn Problem | Andrew Williams
    Jun 16 2026
    We all have a pornography problem, whether we’ve ever watched pornography or not. The issue with pornography goes far beyond sex—it’s an issue of vision. How we view one another.

    We have lost our ability to see properly, and when we lose our sense of spiritual vision, we reduce persons made in the image of God to objects for our consumption. Pornography is simply one of the most obvious ways that we objectify one another. The normalization and proliferation of pornography have disastrous consequences for the soul—consequences that extend far beyond pornography itself.

    If pornography is demonic iconography, then an understanding of holy iconography can be used to reliably guide us back to reality. To regain our spiritual vision, we must learn to see every face we encounter as an icon of Christ. This includes our enemies. This involves learning to venerate rather than objectify.

    Andrew Williams—mental health chaplain, psychotherapist, and author of From Object to Icon: The Struggle for Spiritual Vision in a Pornographic World—joins Dave Hanegraaff on Commitment to Reality to talk about how we lost our vision, and how we get it back.

    For more information on From Object to Icon: The Struggle for Spiritual Vision in a Pornographic World please click here. https://www.equip.org/product/cri-resource-from-object-to-icon-the-struggle-for-spiritual-vision-in-a-pornographic-world/


    Thank you for joining Commitment to Reality, hosted by Dave Hanegraaff. Follow Commitment to Reality wherever you get your podcasts.

    (Timestamps below.)

    0:00 — How does one define oneself?
    3:00 — The biggest problem with pornography is a problem of vision
    4:45 — What is pornography?
    7:00 — We all have a pornography problem
    11:20 — Training algorithms before they train us
    14:00 — Practicing nepsis—the sober guarding of our soul
    15:45 — The problem with thinking of sin as breaking a rule rather than deforming our soul
    18:40 — Evil never exists in isolation, but is always the perversion of goodness
    24:35 — Why is the act of confession so important?
    28:00 — Why are icons important? (and not idolatrous)
    36:45 — Why would we need iconography for prayer?
    40:30 — What is veneration and why is it necessary in the life of a Christian?
    44:45 — Embracing an icon and watching pornography are based on the same desire
    49:30 — You can actually rightly venerate pornography
    53:00 — The nous—the source of our spiritual vision
    55:00 — Idolizing individualism is literally idiotic
    57:30 — Imagination can be a dangerous thing
    1:00:00 — It’s not enough to kill our desires, we must transform them
    1:02:15 — We must accept that we are powerless—could anything be less American?
    1:05:00 — How can we experience true freedom?
    1:08:45 — What is true repentance?
    1:12:00 — Why does the Church care so much about sex?
    1:15:20 — Where are we most eager to ignore reality?
    1:19:15 — In a world that feels increasingly unreal—what feels most real?
    1:25:40 — The answer to the problem of pornography is real relationship and vulnerability
    1:28:00 — Stand on the edge of the abyss. And when you feel it’s beyond your strength, break off and have a cup of tea

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    1 h et 30 min
  • Lost Gifts: Miscarriage, Hope, and the God of All Comfort | Brittany Lee Allen

    Lost Gifts: Miscarriage, Hope, and the God of All Comfort | Brittany Lee Allen
    Jun 2 2026
    How we talk about miscarriage—or don’t talk about it—matters. Miscarriage is one of the most painful experiences a family can endure, yet we rarely speak of it. The silence is deafening, and it creates a culture of isolation for families bearing these lost gifts.

    Dave and his wife recently experienced the pain of miscarriage, and he wanted to discuss it publicly with Brittany Lee Allen, author of Lost Gifts: Miscarriage, Grief, and the God of All Comfort.

    At the same time, many Christians—and Churches—are not handling miscarriage in a way that reflects the reality of what we believe about life in the womb. If we truly believe that a pre-born child is a person with an eternal soul, then these children should be celebrated—and mourned—communally.

    This is a hard conversation, but a necessary one. It is also a reminder of the hope to be found in the God of all comfort.

    For more information on receiving Lost Gifts: Miscarriage, Grief, and the God of All Comfort please click here. https://www.equip.org/product/cri-resource-lost-gifts-miscarriage-grief-and-the-god-of-all-comfort/

    Thank you for joining Commitment to Reality, hosted by Dave Hanegraaff. Follow Commitment to Reality wherever you get your podcasts.

    Also discussed on this episode:
    • Why the Church should break the 12-week rule
    • The Emotional Prosperity Gospel — and what it costs grieving Christians
    • What well-meaning Christians say that hurts the most
    • Praying the Psalms as a school of lament
    • Why our culture is so eager to look away from death
    • Suffering as gift — a paradox most of us would rather ignore
    • The parents who keep counting children no one else sees
    • “How many kids do you have?” — and the answer miscarriage makes us quietly weigh
    (Timestamps below.)
    0:00 — Why is it so hard for us to talk about miscarriage?
    1:45 — My parents named and buried their miscarried child—and never stopped counting her
    6:45 — My first experience with miscarriage
    15:30 — The paradox of rainbow babies and our second experience with miscarriage
    19:15 — Being happy in your situation, even if you’re not happy with your situation
    20:30 — The Emotional Prosperity Gospel
    23:00 — The importance of lament in the life of a Christian
    26:00 — Why should we break the “12 week rule” for pregnancy announcements
    30:40 — The Church needs to be the Church
    32:30 — We are called to be the hands and feet of Christ
    38:00 — Praying the Psalms
    39:15 — Pregnancy after miscarriage is a battleground of fear and anxiety
    46:30 — How should we talk about miscarriage? Also—what not to say?
    53:00 — The Church needs to lead the way in changing how we discuss miscarriage
    57:35 — Discussing infertility
    1:00:00 — Becoming a parent is hard, but it is worth it
    1:05:40 — Lost Gifts
    1:07:30 — Theology of Suffering—Is suffering a gift?
    1:11:00 — Why are we so eager to ignore the reality of death?
    1:14:25 — How parenting connects us with reality
    1:16:50 — How many kids do you have? (Are we answering honestly?)
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    1 h et 21 min
  • Family Unfriendly: Do Americans Hate Children? | Timothy P. Carney

    Family Unfriendly: Do Americans Hate Children? | Timothy P. Carney
    May 19 2026
    Faith and family are civilizational cornerstones. Remove them and the structure loses its integrity. American culture—and much of the West—has done exactly that as we’ve become increasingly “family unfriendly.”

    Timothy P. Carney wrote Family Unfriendly: How Our Culture Made Raising Kids Much Harder Than It Needs to Be because he believes America is failing our families and that this failure is the biggest story of the next 30 years. I couldn’t agree more.

    A culture that idolizes individuality does so at the cost of community. We have abandoned our obligations to others—especially to children and parents. Parenting is already hard, and yet our culture seems determined to make it harder. Having kids has become just another lifestyle choice—a far cry from historical norms and biological realities.

    What changed? According to Carney, the answer is culture itself. Ours has become less friendly to parenting than it used to be—and should be. He joins Dave Hanegraaff on Commitment to Reality to talk about how we got here, what we’ve lost, and what it would take to build a culture that actually loves children.

    To learn more about receiving Family Unfriendly: How Our Culture Made Raising Kids Much Harder Than It Needs to Be for your partnering gift please click here. https://www.equip.org/product/cri-resource-family-unfriendly-how-our-culture-made-raising-kids-much-harder-than-it-needs-to-be/


    Thank you for joining Commitment to Reality, hosted by Dave Hanegraaff. Follow Commitment to Reality wherever you get your podcasts.

    Also discussed on this episode:
    • Why parenthood is a cheat code for virtue
    • Helicopter parents vs. free-range parents
    • Why we owe our children freedom
    • The myth of “chosen families”
    • How to win culture wars by building culture
    • The Israeli kids waiting at street corners — and what it says about our cultural failures
    • Why we should have lower expectations for our kids (and higher ambitions)
    • Where the government should never be neutral
    • Why “babies everywhere” would be a better world
    (Timestamps below.)
    0:00 — Do Americans hate children?
    6:00 — Why America becoming less family focused is the biggest story of the next 30 years
    12:00 — When kids are around, people are better
    14:50 — Reintroducing virtue to our society
    21:00 — Why we need to depend more on others
    25:30 — Helicopter parents vs free range parents
    28:30 — The abandonment of social responsibility
    33:00 — We owe our children freedom—otherwise we are harming them
    35:30 — The problem with life hacks is they often avoid real life
    39:25 — The myth of “chosen families”
    46:00 — Have lower expectations for your kids (and high ambitions)
    50:05 — Cultural institutions need to step
    57:00 — You win culture wars by building culture—Friday Night on the Field
    1:08:30 — The reality is that families need cultural support
    1:12:10 — Where are we most eager to ignore reality?
    1:13:10 — In a world that feels increasingly unreal—what feels most real?
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    1 h et 15 min
  • The Strange Beauty Science Can’t Explain | Douglas Axe

    The Strange Beauty Science Can’t Explain | Douglas Axe
    May 5 2026
    The Story of Everything is one of the most important films to hit theaters in years. It's also one of the most beautiful films about science that you might ever see. On this episode, Dave Hanegraaff is joined by biologist Doug Axe, one of the film's key figures, to unpack what it argues, why it matters, and what it means when scientists themselves are being confronted by evidence they can't explain away no matter how desperate they might be to disprove the reality of God. It's a conversation for skeptics, seekers, and anyone who's ever wondered if the universe is really just blind accident or an intricately woven tapestry that science alone cannot explain—but can illuminate. The path to truth leads through beauty. The Story of Everything is a film about science that ends with a crescendo of beauty, beauty, beauty. Please see related resources by authors featured in the film below: Undeniable: How Biology Confirms Our Intuition That Life Is Designed by Douglas Ax https://www.equip.org/product/cri-resource-undeniable-how-biology-confirms-our-intuition-that-life-is-designed-atcr/ Return of the God Hypothesis: Three Scientific Discoveries That Reveal the Mind Behind the Universe by Stephen Meyer https://www.equip.org/product/cri-resource-return-of-the-god-hypothesis-three-scientific-discoveries-that-reveal-the-mind-behind-the-universe-actr/ The Privileged Planet (20th Anniversary Edition-2024): How Our Place in the Cosmos Is Designed for Discovery by Jay Richards and Guillermo Gonzalez. https://www.equip.org/product/cri-resource-the-privileged-planet-20th-anniversary-edition-2024-how-our-place-in-the-cosmos-is-designed-for-discovery-atcr/ Thank you for joining A Commitment to Reality, hosted by Dave Hanegraaff. Follow A Commitment to Reality wherever you get your podcasts and on YouTube for full episodes + clips: https://www.youtube.com/@ACommitmenttoReality (Timestamps below.) 0:00 — Intro / How Douglas Axe got involved with The Story of Everything film3:00 — Undeniable—how biology confirms our intuition that life is designed 7:00 — The two competing stories or narratives about reality10:00 — The Price of Panic: How the Tyranny of Experts Turned a Pandemic into a Catastrophe 15:00 — The price advocates of Intelligent Design have had to pay over the course of their scientific careers16:30 — Surprising rebirth of the belief in God—is that happening in the sciences? 19:00 — The key concepts behind The Story of Everything 21:00— Why does it matter if the universe had a beginning or not? 22:30 — Why are so many scientists desperate to disprove the reality of God25:00 — The multiverse theory is evidence of desperation 28:35 — Materialism and free-will cannot coexist29:30 — Was there a first cell?30:50 — What does Darwinian evolution explain well? 33:15 — Why is the discovery of information such as DNA such a big deal?35:40— The power of visual representations in a film like The Story of Everything to help non-experts understand science37:00 — Intellectual honesty and the search for truth39:55 — What is specified complexity?41:40 — Why specified complexity infers design43:00 — The constraints of time for evolutionary theories45:10 — The hard problem of consciousness51:30 — The beauty principle—“it’s so beautiful it must be true”54:50 — Would the discovery of intelligent life elsewhere in the universe contradict Christianity?
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    1 h et 2 min
  • Sin Isn’t Your Main Problem—Art of Unseen Warfare | Justin Marler

    Sin Isn’t Your Main Problem—Art of Unseen Warfare | Justin Marler
    Apr 21 2026
    Sin is a problem. But, one of the great psychological tragedies of the West is a misunderstanding of sin. We turned it into a legal category — a list of infractions — and lost what the word actually means: missing the mark. The ancient Church didn't start with sin. It started with the passions — the disordered desires that pull us off target before we ever act. When we misunderstand the reality of sin, it makes it much harder to overcome the passions—which are the real problem.

    But, make no mistake, we are at war. The Church Fathers knew this. They trained for it. They built entire traditions around it. As St. John Chrysostom put it, “Our warfare does not make the living dead, but rather makes the dead live.” Powerful.

    And then we forgot. Or worse, we’re ignoring the battle we’re in.

    Like any good father, Justin Marler—former punk guitarist turned Orthodox monk turned author—wants the best for his children. Leaning on the legacy left by the Church Fathers, Justin has provided his children—and us—with a survival guide for life with his book The Art of Unseen Warfare: Ancient Teachers for the Modern Fighter.

    In this episode of A Commitment to Reality, Justin and Dave cover such issues as why monks are the real punks, why trying actually matters, why the virtues are skills you practice and not feelings you have, why God wants progress and not perfection, why suffering is a gift and not a problem to solve, and what happens when you stop asking "Am I saved?" and start asking "Where am I right now — heaven or hell?"

    For more information on receiving Justin's book The Art of Unseen Warfare: Ancient Teachers for the Modern Fighter please click here. https://www.equip.org/product/cri-resource-the-art-of-unseen-warfare-ancient-teachings-for-the-modern-fighter/

    Thank you for joining A Commitment to Reality, hosted by Dave Hanegraaff. Follow A Commitment to Reality wherever you get your podcasts and on YouTube for full episodes + clips: https://www.youtube.com/@ACommitmenttoReality

    (Timestamps below.)
    0:00 — Intro / Unseen Warfare: A Guidebook for Life
    1:45 — From a punk to a monk
    5:45 — Life in a monastery
    7:55 — The education of everyday monasticism vs “traditional” modern education
    10:35 — Practicing detachment while also embracing the beauty of life
    17:00 — Having a healthy discomfort with the world
    23:45 — The difference between the passions and sin and the baggage with the way so many people perceive sin
    30:45 — The world is soul-sick and the Church is the hospital
    33:45 — The purpose of life is to become a saint
    36:45 — We need to try in life, to work out our salvation and become what we were created to be 41:20 — Why is it necessary for Christians to have the mindset of a fighter in battle?
    45:55 — The modern book of virtue—we don’t talk enough about the virtues
    51:30 — Trying to understand the will of God is all about developing a relationship with God
    56:30 — The virtues are something we practice like anything else we want to get better at
    1:00:45 — The problem with apologetics
    1:08:35 — Should Christians spend time online?
    1:10:15 — The reality of the unseen realm
    1:12:45 — Suffering is a gift
    1:17:40 — The reality of spiritual warfare
    1:21:45 — We don’t talk enough about guardian angels
    1:32:30 — You don’t earn your salvation, but you do work for it
    1:34:45 — Salvation is a living process, you can experience heaven and hell on earth
    1:38:55 — Where are we most eager to look away from reality?
    1:40:15 — In a world that feels increasingly unreal, what feels most real?
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    1 h et 41 min
  • Christian Atheism: God as an Idea Is No God at All | Fr. Stephen Freeman

    Christian Atheism: God as an Idea Is No God at All | Fr. Stephen Freeman
    Apr 7 2026
    Re-Enchantment—Everyone is talking about it these days.

    But, you can’t re-enchant something that always was. We are simply realizing the reality of Enchantment.

    In this episode of A Commitment to Reality, Fr. Stephen Freeman joins Dave Hanegraaff to remind us that the world has always been Enchanted—we have just been ignoring that reality.

    Secularism has caused many modern people—even Christians—to misunderstand the reality of the world we live in. Modern life has flattened our conception of reality into something purely material, neutral, and abstract. Many Christians have even made God an abstraction—something Fr. Stephen Freeman calls Christian Atheism.

    But, God as an abstraction is no God at all. God is everywhere, present and filling all things.

    This leads to a myriad of misunderstandings—including something as important as our salvation. Salvation is about being restored to reality itself: to God, to others, and to the world as it truly is.

    Glory to God, in all things.

    For more information on Fr. Freeman's book Everywhere Present: Christianity in a One-Storey Universe please click here. https://www.equip.org/product/cri-resource-everywhere-present-christianity-in-a-one-storey-universe/

    Thank you for joining A Commitment to Reality, hosted by Dave Hanegraaff. Follow A Commitment to Reality wherever you get your podcasts and on YouTube for full episodes + clips: https://www.youtube.com/@ACommitmenttoReality

    (Timestamps below.)
    0:00 — Intro / The Story of Fr. Stephen Freeman
    6:45 — Enchantment
    9:45 — Understanding the “one-storey universe”
    16:45 — Reality is a gift. Be thankful for it, in all things
    18:45 — The true meaning of secularism
    21:30 — There is no neutrality in the public square
    24:15 — How Marxist rhetoric is used
    26:25 — Secularism is heresy
    30:00 — God as an idea is no God at all — Christian atheism
    35:40 — The reality of salvation
    40:30 — Salvation is not a legal problem, but a problem of communion
    49:30 — Total depravity, the imago dei, and the goodness of creation
    56:00 — Modernity, materialism, and money
    1:00:00 — We have so much to learn from the poor
    1:07:25 — Did history end with the Resurrection?
    1:10:45 — Become a fool for Chris
    t1:13:00 — Technology and progress are not always what they seem
    1:18:15 — Literalism is the enemy of reality
    1:20:10 — We don’t weep enough
    1:23:15 — Who do you hate? Your work starts there
    1:31:45 — What happens to a culture that can no longer name what it sees?
    1:33:25 — Where are we most eager to look away from reality?
    1:34:30 — In a world that feels increasingly unreal, what feels most real to you?
    1:38:25 — Glory to God in ALL things
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    1 h et 40 min
  • Are We All Cyborgs Now? Reclaiming Our Humanity from the Machine | Joshua Pauling

    Are We All Cyborgs Now? Reclaiming Our Humanity from the Machine | Joshua Pauling
    Mar 24 2026
    Are we all cyborgs now?

    We’re not just building machines that act like humans. We’re becoming humans that act like machines.

    In a world obsessed with whether AI can become human, far less attention is given to the way we are sacrificing our humanity at the altar of data, efficiency, and optimization.

    This is not inevitable.

    We can reclaim our humanity from the machine by making a commitment to reality—embracing our embodiment and the physical world around us.

    Making a commitment to reality means being intentional and communal in our assessment of every new technological breakthrough—and how we incorporate it, or don’t, into our lives.

    We must ask hard questions—and make even harder decisions.

    Where do we draw the line?

    On this episode of A Commitment to Reality, Joshua Pauling joins Dave Hanegraaff to discuss Are We All Cyborgs Now? Reclaiming Our Humanity from the Machine (co-authored with Robin Phillips), and what it means to remain human in an age increasingly defined by abstraction, efficiency, and disembodiment.

    Because we weren’t made for “datafication”—but for deification—communion with creation and the Creator.

    For more information on the book Are We All Cyborgs Now? Reclaiming Our Humanity from the Machine please click here. https://www.equip.org/product/cri-resource-are-we-all-cyborgs-now-reclaiming-our-humanity-from-the-machine/

    Thank you for joining A Commitment to Reality, hosted by Dave Hanegraaff. Follow A Commitment to Reality wherever you get your podcasts and on YouTube for full episodes + clips: https://www.youtube.com/@ACommitmenttoReality

    (Timestamps below.)

    0:00 — Intro / Have we made a technological deal with the devil?
    3:30 — Forget the Turing test, what about humans choosing to live as machines?
    5:50— The rapid pace of technological change
    7:45 — How is digital technology different from past technologies?
    10:45 — Why start a book on technology by writing about woodworking?
    13:45 — Gnosticism—how did our body become the enemy of our lives?
    18:15 — Personal Practices that help us live an embodied life
    20:55 — Intentionality
    23:25 — Will the Amish have the last laugh? (What we can learn from the Amish)
    28:15 — The distinction between access and ownership
    29:45 — Who were the Luddites and what can we learn from them?
    31:45 — Monastic wisdom for our world today
    35:45 — Should we be missionaries online?
    38:30 — Can you go to church online?
    40:30 — The problem with viewing church as education
    45:30 — Does a memorial view of the sacraments make light of our embodiment?
    46:45— We were made for deification not data processing and accumulation
    50:45 — Where do we draw the line with technology?
    54:30 —Human enhancement vs restoration—serious bioethical questions on the horizon
    58:30—Tech realism, pessimism or optimism?
    1:00:00 —The need for intentional, communal reaction and resistance to the machine
    1:04:00 — What is the joy of thingness?
    1:07:00—What is true leisure and how can it save us?
    1:09:50—the importance of No Agenda togetherness
    1:13:10 —Can hospitality save the world?
    1:17:00—Lightning round questions about reality
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    1 h et 20 min
  • What Part of You Has Come Here to Die? Recovering a Wild Christianity | Martin Shaw

    What Part of You Has Come Here to Die? Recovering a Wild Christianity | Martin Shaw
    Mar 10 2026
    “What part of you has come here to die?”

    It’s a question that Martin Shaw—one of our great living storytellers—is famous for asking.

    Shaw offers these kinds of provocations to a Western world where Christianity has largely been domesticated and desperately needs to recover its wildness.

    Prayer doesn’t feel real to you?

    Rip up a twenty-dollar bill every time you pray.

    On your phone too much?

    Smash it with a hammer.

    Have something you need to confess but are afraid to tell another living soul?

    Dig a “confessional hole” in the ground with your bare hands and shout it into the earth.

    In this episode of A Commitment to Reality, Shaw joins Dave Hanegraaff to explore how to recover a wild Christianity in a world where faith for many has become cold, abstract, and domesticated.

    Thank you for joining A Commitment to Reality, hosted by Dave Hanegraaff. Follow A Commitment to Reality wherever you get your podcasts and on YouTube for full episodes + clips: https://www.youtube.com/@ACommitmenttoReality

    (Timestamps below.)



    0:00 — Intro / Friends in Common Recovering Wild Christianity
    2:20 — Belief is cool again—Atheism is for old people
    3:45 — Aesthetic Arrest
    6:45 — You don’t want persona, you want presence
    8:00 — Make a covenant with limit in a culture of excess
    13:55 — Growing up the son of a preacher man
    17:15 — The cost of becoming religious
    23:05 — What is myth? (And why is it not what we think?)
    27:30 — On Sectarian Christianity
    30:00 — Theology without practice is the theology of demons
    31:35 — Night vigils and reclaiming initiation rites
    35:50 — What part of you has come to die?
    42:15 — His home burned down—Discussion of losing everything.
    45:00 — What is a saint?
    46:35 — Death — how can we breathe new life into death?
    50:40 — The value of a good cry
    53:45 — How to tell our stories differently
    56:00 — On your phone too much? Smash it
    57:10 — Struggling with prayer? Rip up money when you pray
    59:20 — Confessional holes—dig a hole with your hands and confess into the earth
    1:00:40 — In a world that feels unreal, what feels real?
    1:02:30 — Johnny Cash had a Boy Named Sue. Glen Hansard has a Boy Named Grace: Dave tells the story of naming his son Grace.
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    1 h et 5 min